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→ Pieces of life in words | 30 Sep 2008 | 1:19am GMT
→ Pieces of life in words | 28 Sep 2008 | 8:58pm GMT
→ Pieces of life in words | 27 Sep 2008 | 9:02pm GMT
→ Master & slave | 26 Sep 2008 | 12:00am GMT
Differentiating the M/s Dynamic by Sir StephenThere are many kinds of relationships in which kinky sex, BDSM activities, and power exchange play a role. In fact, there are those who maintain that they live ?normal? lives and who incorporate some of these elements in outré activities conducted behind the close doors of their ?vanilla? bedrooms and relationships. Can anything be said about M/s relationships that differentiates them from relationships that incorporate such ?kinky? elements? I have a theory (this is my opinion only) about that and here it is: We believe in ownership. We believe that we, as Masters can own human property. We believe as slaves that we can be owned. This element ...
→ Pieces of life in words | 25 Sep 2008 | 9:20pm GMT
→ Master & slave | 14 Sep 2008 | 8:56pm GMT
Role Modelsby Ben, N.C.MasterI have heard it said many times that the people we surround ourselves with influence our lives and our behaviors. Even as a kid, I remember being told, ?if you lay down with dogs, you will get up with fleas?. It is a common sense kinda thing, but all too often we as individuals do not practice what we know. Each of us should evaluate what we practice and evaluate if our practices are in line with our goals.Often in the BDSM community we find people that are searching for their perfect mate and bemoaning the fact that they just can?t seem to find the right one. Perhaps, we are looking in the wrong places and our search involves the wrong people. I have noticed peo...
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 11 Sep 2008 | 10:55pm GMT
(This topic still fascinates me -- even if it does piss me off.)Obviously there are people posing as dominants (the "kneel bitch!"
brigade) who expect submissive women to be doormats for them. (Has
anyone noticed that describing themselves as "not a doormat" has kept
these guys away? Anybody? Bueller?)
I've never seen a single submissive, one who is actively seeking a
dominant or active in the BDSM or ownership subculture, not a single
one, who I would describe as a doormat.
Not one.
That's not saying it's impossible for them to exist, of course, but I
think it says something about how frequently they occur. In contrast,
discussions about submission reliably bring up the "doormat"...
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 8 Sep 2008 | 11:05pm GMT
I like incense. I'm very glad Mr Linnet likes incense too, because it gives my twisted, alternative little heart a warm glow to make his living spaces all homey with warm smoky scents.I placed a good-sized order from Essence Of The Ages recently when I found out that Nippon Kodo discontinued its Morning Star Gold line, and I had to scramble to stock up lest I be caught without cheap aloeswood sticks. I added boxes of several kinds I'd never tried, because duh. How do you order incense and not order new incense?Unfortunately, the results were craptastic. I ordered 3 boxes from the Fragrance Memories line, and only one of those is pleasant enough to use up the whole box: Sahara Moon is a prett...
→ Master & slave | 3 Sep 2008 | 6:13am GMT
Honorifics, Titles and Respect Article 4 of 12 Author: Master Eso © 2001, 2005 When a slave or submissive is "asked" to call all Dominants Sir or Ma'am they are not being forced to show added respect, beyond basic respect or common courtesy. The use of Sir or Ma'am is not all or exclusively about respect. "Respect" does not mean "submission". It's about conveying honor as a title or grammatical form used in speaking to or about a superior or elder. These are called "Honorifics". As there is a "Hierarchy...
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 2 Sep 2008 | 7:22pm GMT
I've always thought that saying I own something or that it's mine is
only shorthand for saying that it's something I live with in my
environment and get to enjoy or use or whatever. I want to examine that
closely and see if it's true. I know that when I'm
non-depressed and happy in my relationship with Mr L my tendency is to
joyfully attribute everything good I have to him: Oh thank you, you let
me get my favorite cereal at the store, oh thank you, you bought me
pretty things at the Goodwill. The nature of a relationship, though, is
that things aren't always happy and smooth sailing and when I'm
depressed or unhappy my tendency is to clutch at the things I treasure
to ensure that t...
→ Master & slave | 31 Aug 2008 | 7:01am GMT
Maslow and The Dominantby Ben, N.C.MasterAbraham Maslow developed what he called the hierarchy of needs. These levels of basic needs illustrate how a person is able to grow into a self aware, self assured individual that can succeed in life. As I read the list of basic needs, it occurs to me that the good dominant provides the submissive with the ability and opportunities to meet these needs and become a more successful person. I want to take each level of needs and analyze and apply to the relationship between a dominant and submissive.(Physiological NeedsThese are biological needs. They consist of needs for oxygen, food, water, and a relatively constant body temperature. They are the stro...
→ babalon's babblings | 29 Aug 2008 | 2:53am GMT
Barack Obama is pretty awesome!
→ Master & slave | 28 Aug 2008 | 10:57pm GMT
by Justin MedlinThe things that I believe are required for the ?care, feeding and maintenance? of a top:Obedience: Over the years it has surprised me that in every place that this question has been asked, that this did not rank much higher in the order of things listed and that a large amount of time went by before it was listed at all.On another list someone expressed another part that I think goes hand in hand with obedience, blind faith. Obedience quite simply is the ability to do as you are told promptly, with pleasure and without having to ask a multitude of questions. An example being, If I say ?put this knife on the edge of the table? Then put the knife on the edge of the table. Not, ...
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 27 Aug 2008 | 9:10pm GMT
I am feeling so sad about not being allowed to wear pretty jewelry.And then I feel a little turned on by feeling sad.Yup.This window into Linnet's mind brought to you by Reactions Only Perverts Have, Short Theater Edition.
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 26 Aug 2008 | 9:49pm GMT
I'm a gonna talk about bleeding here, so if that gets your panties (or manpanties) all in a wad, don't read it. Yeah, I talk about it, I have no shame about bleedin' from my uterus.So I'm on my period, and Mr L and I have figured out that I get freakin' exhausted on my period. Leading us to conclude that anemia is a big chunk of my problem, even though the lab reports came back supposedly normal. I've been on iron supplements for I think 4 weeks now? and B-complex supplements for about 2 weeks and there seems to be some general improvement in my energy (although the damn circles under my eyes don't seem to be going away). I still just keel over when I bleed though. It sucks.When I stop to th...
→ babalon's babblings | 25 Aug 2008 | 6:16am GMT
Lovely Elise is making shinies for sale. Go see the pretty shinies. Buy them. Pretty! Shiny! Seriously - Elise makes the most awesome jewelry. And her prices rock, especially during her sales, like, right now!http://elisem.livejournal.com/1317779.html
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 24 Aug 2008 | 6:32am GMT
Made the brioche and it's truly unlike anything I've tasted before. Almost like light, fluffy piecrust, but that sounds really gross and brioche is delectable.The recipe called for five freakin' eggs and a half pound of butter. Yeah. A very very soft dough, but Reinhart's instructions are good and it went off without a hitch. The only issues were a) realizing exactly how long 6 minutes becomes when you're beating a very stiff batter by hand and b) learning through experience that brioche dough flattens and spreads much more than standard bread doughs as it rises and bakes.Otherwise, a good experience.Reinhart's "Multigrain Extraordinaire" bread is also good. Although I was underwhelmed by th...
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 20 Aug 2008 | 5:51pm GMT
I've been using shortcut-type bread recipes for so long that I forgot how much I love to bake good bread the long, slow way. Time to check out Peter Reinhart's The Bread Baker's Apprentice from the library again and do a refresher course in what real bread is about.I cannot recommend this book highly enough for anyone who likes to bake bread. After I read it for the first time bread stopped being a recipe and became a seductive art with hidden secrets and challenges. I obsessed about bread, made the best bread of my life, and only stopped when my health issues got in the way. Now that I'm feeling better it's all bread, all the time again.A short primer on what Reinhart's book covers: bread i...
→ little_linnet's Xanga | 18 Aug 2008 | 11:33pm GMT
So I was out in the garden today, pulling up weeds and getting a patch ready to put in more bush beans because I'm enjoying them much more than I expected to this year (they're Royalty purple pod, if anyone wonders, and they're beautiful). It occurred to me that a lot of people on the gardening websites where I hang out say that their gardening makes them more religious, or spiritual or "closer to god" or whatnot. But I think that gardening contributed to making me an atheist.I've grown things for as long as I can remember (I don't know how my mom put up with me pretending to be a parrot while I "helped" her plant flower seeds, squawking "Rawwwk! Pansy! Rawwwk! Marigold!") and if I've learne...
→ Abnormal Pleasures | 19 Jul 2008 | 3:00am GMT
So I debated just closing this blog since I never seem to write in it anymore. Then I decided... Nah. It's nice to have the user name and if I got rid of it I wouldn't be able to read many of the friends only blogs I read.So open I remain.Don't forget, however, that you can still find my words over at A View from the Floor and I'm happy to see any of you over there. :)
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