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	TSR : Listings : Weblogs 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Ownership and M/s Weblogs → "...because you can't be ugly, → Abnormal Pleasures → babalon's babblings → danae → Domination and Mastery → His Devotion → Kinky Little Girl → kittens_Master → life as owned slave kk / Master's naked ass slave → little_linnet's Xanga → magdala's submission → Master & slave → My Fucking Memoirs → New's Myspace Blog → Paw Prints In Slavery → Pieces of life in words → random access → Shadowseverywhere → Submissive Reflections → Tanos's weblog → The Alchemy of a Beautiful Life → The Heron Clan → The Journey → The Next Guard → the slave quarters @ Household of Sir Larry → This girl's weblog → Three Worlds Collide → Truesub's Journal → Under His Hand Back to weblogs introduction page An Old Post on Owning Human Property → Domination and Mastery | 27 Jan 2012 | 12:54pm GMT Mitdasein: over 2 years ago @DomOnTheLevel – I can’t do anything but agree with BA that you begin with an unsupported and likely unsupportable ex cathedra statement, and when called on it respond with only one anecdotal piece of evidence that even if it did necessarily imply (which it doesn’t) that she would have had better overall health if she had been working, doesn’t imply that the same would be the case in all other man/woman relationships, whether O/p or not. It sounds like simply an extreme version of a protestant work ethic that has caused much grief and misery and continues to do so, particularly in the U.S. where it is more prevalent than in most Western cou... I Heart Rope → danae | 26 Jan 2012 | 6:00pm GMT I was reading the Sexis column by Mollena over on Eden Fantasys titled Got Rope?  When I first was tied up, it was just a very crude way,  neckties from my high school boyfriend's closet that he ended up ruining from how he tied me. But I still remember those feelings associated with it - the feelings of him wrapping them around me, how his hands touched me as tied me up, the feeling of them cutting into the flesh and that I wasn't able to move/escape and was there for him to do what he wanted.  It made me feel incredibly vulnerable and exposed but that in turn made me feel very sexy and extremely turned on.   Oddly enough I haven't been with people who enjoy rope bo... Guilt → danae | 26 Jan 2012 | 6:29am GMT There is a post over on FetLife about someone's Dominant starting to feel guilty about the SM they engage in. Even though they have always included some form of SM.  It was escalating lately though so he was feeling guilty. I am paraphrasing of course.I could totally relate to the situation because my ex-husband became the same way. We had some kink in our sex lives almost always. I mean from the first time I had consensual sex - I was tied up and spanked. So I liked it that way.  He was virgin when I started having sex with him and I told him things I liked. He instantly took to it and ramped it up at times too without me even saying or needing to say. He enjoyed it just... Vows → The Heron Clan | 25 Jan 2012 | 1:09am GMT There are traditional wedding vows.  Words that are spoken, ceremonially, to define and enumerate, and announce the intention of the parties to a marriage agreement... ~~To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part~~Our agreement was never formalized in that fashion; never solemnized in any sort of legal or spiritual ceremony -- and so we have no vows to fall back on.  That is the fact.  And still...As I look back at the path we have traveled in these months, over a year of months strung together with still more months laid out ahead of us, I am reminded of the work that vows (or the i... Going from strength to strength → This girl's weblog | 24 Jan 2012 | 10:30pm GMT This girl read a post on fetlife the other day about whether people could submit to someone weaker than them or dominate someone who was stronger. Well, there is strength of the physical variety and also of course of the mental variety. Grimly is pretty strong physically. He was in the Army and boxed during his time there and is strong enough that this girl can’t escape him if she tries to even if there are no restraints involved. He is firm but he is fair with it. This girl’s ex partner was physically strong too but he wasn’t very fair with it at all, and had a tendency to use his knowledge of martial arts pressure points to hurt her sometimes just because he could. Which ... Polyamory Observations #20 → The Heron Clan | 22 Jan 2012 | 4:26am GMT Earlier this week, the ex-wife of Republican presidential candidate, Newt Gingrich, told ABC News that he had asked her for what she called an "open marriage."  Subsequent stories have made it clear that Newt, after conducting a clandestine affair with the woman who would eventually become his third wife, asked the  woman he was married to if she would "tolerate" his mistress. She said, "no."The whole sensational business has caused quite a media dust-up, so let's talk...I am no fan of Newt Gingrich.  I will acknowledge that the man is bright, but beyond the intellect, he is a pure mess -- arrogant, dishonest, manipulative, ruthlessly self-absorbed.  However, I am just fa... Meeting Teacup → danae | 17 Jan 2012 | 4:10am GMT It is kind of odd how things have kind of happened with teacup.  It just feels so right and natural.  From the first exchanges to all the moments to now....all have felt right which I know sounds so cliche but it is true.  Before we left for Christmas vacation, I did a post saying I was excited about poly and all these things are odd because in the time we have been exploring poly - it just hasn't happened that way. We have had some things that were nice, felt good, but nothing was really what I would call right to me. Our initial travel plans to visit my family for Christmas - we discussed flying but as I started checking and watching plane prices go up and up. We realized it... Ambiguity → The Heron Clan | 17 Jan 2012 | 1:24am GMT We Herons are awash in ambiguity, and with us, those who persist in reading here... Our story, to this point, is just full of the things that make our BDSM and polyamory lifestyle communities just crazy.  Humans don't like uncertainty, lack of definition, confusion, contradiction, upheaval, chaos, paradox, and inconsistency -- and I am convinced that the poly and BDSM communities are even more averse to ambiguity than the rest of the crowd.  We like things defined.  We like to know who is who, who fulfills which roles, what the relational hierarchies are, and where the power lies.  And, furthermore, once we know all of that, we like things to stay put -- no shifting and s... Club Lash → Tanos's weblog | 17 Jan 2012 | 12:12am GMT mia and I made it to @Club_Lash in Manchester for the first time in a while: we've had something else on, either kink or vanilla, every second Saturday of the month since the autumn. We talked to some old and new faces, and I finally got one of @TheProf's Black Box electrical devices. I also did a bit of a consensual-nonconsent scene with mia in the dungeon. I think that's the first time I've ever set out to do that in public play. mia enjoys that style of play even more than me (at least afterwards, of course ;) ) but from my side, the best part is crouching down with my face inches from hers, listening to her genuinely beg me not to continue, knowing that I'm going... It?s Finally Here!!! ? The Spiral Path: Dynamic Sustainability Intensive for P/E Relationships → The Alchemy of a Beautiful Life | 15 Jan 2012 | 7:17pm GMT The long awaited P/E Weekend Intensive is here! This intensive COMES TO YOU! If you’d like to set up a weekend in your area contact us for details!!The Spiral Path: Dynamic Sustainability Intensive for P/E Relationships – by Master Obsidian and slave namasteYou have the dynamic of your dreams, hopes and desires – now what? How do you sustain and maintain it?  How do you create a workable relationship that stays, viable, fresh, rewarding and delicious at 5,10, 20  years or more?Welcome to The Spiral Path. In this Intensive weekend retreat we will explore the Foundation of sustainable Power Exchange and how the various elements can support and feed each other creati... The thought police → This girl's weblog | 15 Jan 2012 | 3:00pm GMT This girl was reading about a competition the other day today where to enter you have to trial a telematics machine in your car. When she read about the implications of it – she though oh hell no! No chance!  Essentially telematics is an enhanced type of GPS system. It records speed, acceleration,distance, time travelled, and basically everything to do with how you drive and will record it all via satellite. Apparently the reason why this is being trialled is to give people a chance to prove how well they drive with the lure of cheap insurance premiums. The question is – will it tell the police if you speed? Or doing something else they don’t approve of? The answer is no, u... Stupid Cunt → danae | 14 Jan 2012 | 6:21am GMT The other day Master and I were playing and it was kind of winding down.  I was in that blissful state of just being used.  He had cum and I was covered in his cum. I was laying next to him all snuggled close.  He stroked my hair kind of gently and then said something to me...something deeply humiliating and degrading.  I am not going to say what he said as I don't want it to lose the intensity if he wants to use it again.  He told me one of those things I think often but don't voice out loud really. He said it to me followed by stupid cunt. He called me stupid cunt many times. But basically as soon as he said it the first time I felt it... Bridgewood Blog → Tanos's weblog | 13 Jan 2012 | 2:07pm GMT I made a few changes to the Bridgewood Blog last night, to include older posts about Open Air BDSM as well as Bridgewood itself and to put more of the posts on the main page of the site. I'm planning to continue with more OAB posts as well as the Bridgewood updates to make it more of an open air news site. You can also follow the blog via ukBridgewood on Twitter. Points of view → This girl's weblog | 12 Jan 2012 | 12:01am GMT So far 2012 has been uninteresting kink wise  This girl spent Christmas with family and the New Year with very good friends and had three weeks with Grimly – whose birthday it is today!  She had a fantastic festive period just not a kinky one.  This girl and Grimly haven’t yet had chance to play this year but he has been doing  a lot of work preparing the workshop he will have here so watch this space – he has so much more room to make equipment here than he does currently in his little shed!*  It will be good when he has the ability to make equipment here where this girl can take photographs of the process and hopefully share some handy tips with you. Anyway, despite not... Good Moon Rising → danae | 9 Jan 2012 | 9:30pm GMT Yesterday Master had to go out town for business, just for the day.  So a nice day trip for us.  It?s a few hours of work with most of it driving there and back.  He had figured that on the way home we would be still on the road as it got dark.   The area we were driving through is very lightly populated area and there isn?t much traffic....SO....Master hooded and restrained me with cuffs and chain.  We brought a steel collar but it was having some difficulties, so had to leave that off.After the sun was well over the horizon, he pulled off and got me all setup before we continued our travel home.  I was nervous as I could hear the cars driving past, but Master ... I am Goose Girl → The Heron Clan | 8 Jan 2012 | 5:52pm GMT ?Ego: The fallacy whereby a goose thinks he's a swan? ~~AnonymousJean-Francois MilletThere have been so many changes in our lives... so many ups and downs. It is sometimes hard to know what to think or how I feel, and it is surely impossible to predict what will come next -- or how any of us will react. We three have stumbled and staggered and flailed through the last 15 months or so, spewing anger and hurt and fear and confusion everywhere. We've been a mess of grieving and longing and bitterness. If there was a way to do this badly, we've been there, and if there was a mistake to make, we've done it up in grand style. I've been every flavor of crazy that you can imagine through all o... My Dream → The Heron Clan | 8 Jan 2012 | 3:22am GMT January 6, 2010My last post contained a stream of thoughts and feeling about my life situation that frequently runs through my head. As I am experiencing that thought process I believe that I have been wrongfully oppressed, harasssed by the police as a result of my family's calling them about me (sometimes without reason and other times for very valid reasons), and being forced to pretend a religious conversion to satisfy treatment professionals -- whose satisfaction I must achieve to be quite allowed to serve out my probation in the community and not in prison. All of those thoughts and feelings have some valid content.At the same time, they fail to take into account that the first call t... New year, Maybe a New Beginning, How Things Seem Now → The Heron Clan | 7 Jan 2012 | 6:51pm GMT It seems like enough has changed in my feelings, my perception of my status, that perhaps writing a new communique to the outside world makes sense or might even be helpful. I am 354 days into my "new life" of coerced sobriety. My big anniversary is ahead January 18.I struggle much more realistically now with wondering if perhaps my life is better now than it was before, or at least if my present life is, well just so poignantly "present," so piquant or pungent, that the "ghosts" of the life I loved before, and my identity, have faded enough to become just mists. Maybe it is time to begin to see if there can be meaning in this new life, that is not my choice, but is all that the others in... Beginning 2012 → The Alchemy of a Beautiful Life | 2 Jan 2012 | 11:37pm GMT Greetings,Here we are - welcoming with open arms this glorious 2012. i loved 2011 - it was a year of Salted Caramel - salty tears as an amazing complement to so much sweetness. Sweetness not like cotton candy - more complex and creamy, created best when allowed to simmer slowly and without being meddled with.And now we greet 2012.  OH how we will enjoy this year.Our intention has been set - created by Him.2011 was the beginning of what He termed "The No Regrets Tour" It reflected our desire and commitment to live life as a reflection of our truth.2012 is the Year of Intentionality - Letting Go, Letting Know and Letting Grow. This sounds delicious and already we have begun... A review of 2011 → This girl's weblog | 1 Jan 2012 | 10:00am GMT Well as this year goes out here is the review of this girl?s year of pervertery, with a bit about each month and a quote from the first blog of each month also! Feel free to browse the archives and the photo galleries for more info if you want to! JANUARY This girl started the year reading too much into things (a frequent habit!) “This girl feels bad though that maybe people come here expecting to read about some insane kinky life. Honestly it?s not the case. There are splashes here and there , well in fact, let?s face it , great big fucking dives into madness, but that just can?t be maintained all the time” Grimly made himself a birthday-cake stand which had a built-in fuck mach... Next page