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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Tattoo on my Arse" 1 2 3 Tattoo on my Arse (26) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 20 Jul 06, 10:10 PM slave_emma US(OK), 6 yrs Y! submissiveheart wrote: Hmm. This is interesting reading others' thoughts on this matter. For me, I think it is such an honor to get marked by the one that owns you. And if it doesn't work out, where is the harm because what you had was real, right? Guess that's just my perspective. On a perhaps odd note (and I think it's odd too yet appealing) Sir talked several times about subtly marking me: small tat, piercing or branding. But now that I know he can't keep me (he wants too yet can't because he has a family that needs him far more than I do) it's a bittersweet thought. More along the lines of honoring what we had. So on one level it seems "ok" to have a small "M" or "T" on an inconspicous place--even more than ok as he has been my first and will hopefully always be my mentor and friend. But reading others thoughts on how they are glad they were never marked in relationships that didn't last I wonder more. Why would another Master dislike honoring a previous Master? Wouldn't it show loyalty? And if the love is real (and for me love never fades) wouldn't that honor the love? Maybe I'm being naive...(probably). submissive heart, i know that you are hurting with the loss of your Owner and i understand your desire to want to continue to hold Him near. i went through the same thing when i left my former Master, i didn't begin looking for a new Master for about a year. Luckly, i did find the perfect Master for me. my Master now, would not like a marking from a previous Dominant. Why? because i am only owned by Master Howard, i am not owned by anyone else. Ownership tattoos from a previous relationship does show loyalty, but for my Master, He wants me to show my loyalty toward Him, not my former. i am also not allowed to speak to my former Master, because that is my Master's wish and i don't really want to talk to him anyways. The point is, at this point since you are winding things down in your relationship with your Owner. i would not get a tattoo to show your loyalty to Him. In all likelyhood you will be moving on to another Owner in the next few months, so i think that it would be more painful for you to get a tattoo, just to get ordered to get a cover up tattoo by your new Owner. That's not to say that some Doms don't mind an ownership tattoo. The Dominant that will care for me should something happen to my Master has said that my tattoo will stay as it is. This is just my opinion on the matter and i do hope you find the perfect Owner for you. Best Wishes, slave emma 21 Jul 06, 5:39 AM submissiveheart US(NY), 6 yrs slave_emma wrote: submissive heart, i know that you are hurting with the loss of your Owner and i understand your desire to want to continue to hold Him near. i went through the same thing when i left my former Master, i didn't begin looking for a new Master for about a year. Luckly, i did find the perfect Master for me. my Master now, would not like a marking from a previous Dominant. Why? because i am only owned by Master Howard, i am not owned by anyone else. Ownership tattoos from a previous relationship does show loyalty, but for my Master, He wants me to show my loyalty toward Him, not my former. i am also not allowed to speak to my former Master, because that is my Master's wish and i don't really want to talk to him anyways. The point is, at this point since you are winding things down in your relationship with your Owner. i would not get a tattoo to show your loyalty to Him. In all likelyhood you will be moving on to another Owner in the next few months, so i think that it would be more painful for you to get a tattoo, just to get ordered to get a cover up tattoo by your new Owner. That's not to say that some Doms don't mind an ownership tattoo. The Dominant that will care for me should something happen to my Master has said that my tattoo will stay as it is. This is just my opinion on the matter and i do hope you find the perfect Owner for you. Best Wishes, slave emma Must say that I do see your point. Thanks for expressing it. 21 Jul 06, 9:36 AM 631-535-398 US, 6 yrs Y! submissiveheart wrote: Hmm. This is interesting reading others' thoughts on this matter. For me, I think it is such an honor to get marked by the one that owns you. And if it doesn't work out, where is the harm because what you had was real, right? Guess that's just my perspective. On a perhaps odd note (and I think it's odd too yet appealing) Sir talked several times about subtly marking me: small tat, piercing or branding. But now that I know he can't keep me (he wants too yet can't because he has a family that needs him far more than I do) it's a bittersweet thought. More along the lines of honoring what we had. So on one level it seems "ok" to have a small "M" or "T" on an inconspicous place--even more than ok as he has been my first and will hopefully always be my mentor and friend. But reading others thoughts on how they are glad they were never marked in relationships that didn't last I wonder more. Why would another Master dislike honoring a previous Master? Wouldn't it show loyalty? And if the love is real (and for me love never fades) wouldn't that honor the love? Maybe I'm being naive...(probably). submissive heart, This girl agree with you totally. i do have a tatto on my right butt cheek. It is still healing so i am very recent on how it felt. my Master had thought about it but i actually suggested it, had had one tattoo done before (yes since knowing Him, He approved it) of a black ink dragon on the back of my left shoulder, hurt some but mainly itchy healing. This on my butt, says "Owned by MJS", Master and His initials. It is in a red heart, on a banner that weaves around the heart. It is in blue ink, the banner is gold ink, the top of the heart has a dagger with green and blue ink in fire, orange ink that is coming out the top of the heart, on the bottom of the heart it is dripping one drop of red blood. i am a masochist, maybe not as extreme as some but i like knife play, cutting, have been cropped, whipped with a light chain, cut with a knife, cropped on my twat and pierced through my nipples. i can honestly say nothing physical ever hurt as much. i had to lay on my stomach while the tattoo artist told me to hold still and first drew the black lines of it. Trying not to flinch was hard, but with my Master holding my hand and letting me squeeze it i dealt with it and was able to hold pretty still. i was given a break to smoke a cigarette and rest. Then apon coming back the tattoo artist inserted the color, i folded myself backwards, keeping my ass in place but almost levitated off the table. Given my weight and current bad shape this is pretty amazing. Afterwards it didn't hurt as bad, though it still hurt. The worst was the having to sit on it all the time. Now it is in the mostly healed but extremely itchy phase. i have not regretted it one moment since i got it. If my Master were to die (which with O/our medical problems is a posibility as it is for me as well) i would never regret it. i have loved Him with all my heart and soul. If i didn't die from Him not being around, then any Master who would take me on after Him would need respect that this was my first Master and the love of my life. If they can't then i am not the slave for them. P/people can have many loves in their life, some good some bad, but it remains with Y/you always. At least all mine have even if the person was really bad to me. A part of them will always reside in my heart. A new relationship i will tell them about these people, and while i will never ever not love my Master, i could probably grow to love a new One in a different manner. Each love is separte and unique and none are invalidated by having another. If someone cannot accept this, then i am not the right person for them. And i will never be ashamed of being Owned by my Master no matter what happens. slave giolla Owned by Master Wildheart 22 Jul 06, 5:36 PM 000-512-739 US(MD), 7 yrs essclavo wrote: Has anyone else had tattoos like this and if so how did you feel before and after ? When we decided to change our marriage to 24/7 Femdom, one of the things I agreed to was a permanent mark. The first thing we did was check out a book on tattoos from the library. (this was before we had internet access) The book suggested to check out several tattoo studios before deciding on one. So when my wife, Mary, told me we had an appointment with a tattoo artist I thought this was the first of many places we where going to check out. Imagine my surprise when we walked in and the girl behind the counter (Liz) said “Hi Mary I've got some drawings for you to look at.” Turns out Mary had already done all the leg work and my appointment was to get tattooed. While Mary and Liz talked about the final design, Mary made it very clear that I had no say in what was being tattooed on me. A fact that Liz seemed to really enjoy. Mary decided on a black rose with the words “property of Lady M” to be put on my right butt cheek. (you can see a picture of it on my profile) I had to sign a consent form and we were off to the back room where I met another girl named Robin, the actual tattoo artist. That where I had to drop my pants and Mary told her exactly where to place it again making sure Robin knew who was in charge. the best part of it all was when we were leaving the two woman did tease me a little about being a marked man My only regret about the whole thing is we didn't bring a camera to record the moment. And as for the future, I figure that I'll always be into the FD lifestyle, and if I ever find myself with a new owner, my tattooed butt will belong to her and she can either live with it, have it covered up, or have it lasered off. 22 Jul 06, 7:44 PM submissiveheart US(NY), 6 yrs 631-535-398 wrote: submissive heart, This girl agree with you totally. i do have a tatto on my right butt cheek. It is still healing so i am very recent on how it felt. If my Master were to die (which with O/our medical problems is a posibility as it is for me as well) i would never regret it. i have loved Him with all my heart and soul. ...P/people can have many loves in their life, some good some bad, but it remains with Y/you always. At least all mine have even if the person was really bad to me. A part of them will always reside in my heart. A new relationship i will tell them about these people, and while i will never ever not love my Master, i could probably grow to love a new One in a different manner. Each love is separte and unique and none are invalidated by having another. If someone cannot accept this, then i am not the right person for them. And i will never be ashamed of being Owned by my Master no matter what happens. slave giolla Owned by Master Wildheart That was very kind. Thanks for your post. 24 Jul 06, 12:47 AM whoreevelyn US, 6 yrs Y! essclavo wrote: My mistress wants me to have one or two tattoos on my arse maybe something like "PROPERTY of MISTRESS SUE" on one cheek and "SUE'S SLAVE" on the other cheek. I have no other tattoos and although part of me is excited at the thought of being marked part of me is not too sure about it. I have agreed with my mistress to go to tattoo parlour remove my pants and allow tattooist to put whatever my mistreess wants on my arse and I will only know what it is when I return home and allowed to look in the mirror. Has anyone else had tattoos like this and if so how did you feel before and after ? My Master has had me get his cunt tattooed his cunt now says worthless whore and his whores inner thigh says wide cunt, He has shown everyone and is very proud of what he has done to his slave i wouldnt have it any other way whoreevelyn, 27 Oct 07, 5:32 PM 350-251-395 US, 4 yrs My Mistress and Her slave discussed putting Her mark on Her slave. We talked about branding. She had one of the mail order brands for using on a steak - wide letters - about 3/16th of an inch wide and about 1 or 1 1/2 inches high- an "M" and an "A". She mentioned using it a few times, but had never used it on anyone. Then again, she didn't have too many subs who could be permanently marked either, or that She would want to mark as Hers. From what I read on BME and this board, it would appear that doing that would result in essentially a two big blobs of scar tissue which would not be either very readable or attractive. If you look at the pictures of brands done, most are difficult to really read and spread out over time. To get nicely formed readable letters with heat branding, it appears you have to use very narrow metal with multiple 'hits'. To get a letter "A" which has enclosed areas is problematic - any skin completely cut off is likely to die, and just become part of the blob - in inside part of the A. So it might take many times to do it gradually. Even then, the result is questionable. What good is a big unreadable blob? My mistress did not also feel comfortable doing it without expert supervision or having a mentor show Her the way it is successfully done. So nothing happened for a while. (Not that She would have any problem inflicting that level of pain!) Then finally She decided it was time. She wanted a very readable unique mark on her slave. She arranged to work with a local female tattoo artist to design a 'pretty tattoo'. At the appropriate time, we went to the tattoo studio, and I received Her pretty mark - which turned out to be a 5x6 inch tattoo of a border of large red roses and green intertwined vines with sharp thorns - and 3/4 inch high back script letters inside. She watched intently for the 2 hours it took to do the tattoo and enjoyed every moment while Her slave felt the sting of the tattoo needle. So now I proudly wear Her pretty tattoo which "Mistress Alex's slave bob" on my left butt check. Of course, I would have willingly accepted whatever way She wanted. In reality, a large very colorful tattoo is a lot harder to explain than a big 'blob' of unreadable or barely decipherable letter or two - not that I would dare to violate her trust and see anyone else. You also have to be careful as to what color and type of bathing suit you wear - a white bathing suit when wet will show all, as will many solid color nylon suits. OK if you are in kink friendly place, but hard to explain to family members! Edited 27 Oct 07, 5:53 PM by 350-251-395 28 Oct 07, 3:24 AM slave_of_George US(AR), 4 yrs i have a tattoo right now but no ownership marks yet (had this before we met). Master plans a few tattoos to go along with my various piercings but nothing more specific than an ideograph for 'slave'. Master also likes a woman with butterflies on her and has envisioned a fairly large one across my mons from thigh to thigh. i'm not too sure about the aftercare of that one but as long as Master is there to hold my hand while its being placed everything will be all right. 29 Oct 07, 6:19 PM ravenkaldera US(MA), 6 yrs 350-251-395 wrote: We talked about branding. She had one of the mail order brands for using on a steak - wide letters - about 3/16th of an inch wide and about 1 or 1 1/2 inches high- an "M" and an "A". She mentioned using it a few times, but had never used it on anyone. Then again, she didn't have too many subs who could be permanently marked either, or that She would want to mark as Hers. From what I read on BME and this board, it would appear that doing that would result in essentially a two big blobs of scar tissue which would not be either very readable or attractive. If you look at the pictures of brands done, most are difficult to really read and spread out over time. One correction to this. With strike branding, there is indeed the issue of it becoming blobby and unreadable. I do cautery branding, and I've never had this happen on any of the people I've done it to. The worst that has happened with cautery branding is that it faded too much and had to be "touched up", and none of my clients minded that. Cautery branding is done with an electrocautery pen - the sort of medical equipment that doctors use to cauterize small blood vessels. (My first experience with a cautery pen was as a teen, when they used it on my nose for a burst blood vessel that was giving me continuous nosebleeds.) It's kind of like an extremely fine woodburning tool, and it can do delicate traceries and make fine lines. Most BDSM people like strike branding largely for the effect - the metal strikes, the person screams, the flesh hisses, and it's over. Fast and dramatic. Cautery branding is more slow and finicky work, and the person has to hold very still for it. (The last one I did, the individual had a friend there to sit on her and hold her down, and I was sitting on her leg (it was on her thigh) to keep everything still. For really delicate work, it's good to do it twice - once very lightly, just to see how the skin in that area scars up, and then again deeper if it doesn't look strong enough. But that's just my artist's opinion. Most of the pro branders in my area do cautery as well as strike branding. I don't do strike branding, but then I'm not a "pro" as in working in a shop, advertising, etc. I simply know how to do it, and I hire it out privately for people who want it done, usually in a ritual context. But if a body mod shop has a brander, a good one will know how to do both sorts. You do have to avoid closed shapes, because the blood supply in the middle will be cut off and it will fill in with scar tissue. That goes for both sorts. -Raven Kaldera 29 Oct 07, 6:52 PM Gavriel US(GA), 6 yrs "You do have to avoid closed shapes, because the blood supply in the middle will be cut off and it will fill in with scar tissue. That goes for both sorts." I've seen this asserted in several places, but it doesn't seem compatible with my understanding of biology. Blood supply to the skin is fed from the deeper flesh, not along the surface. Edited 29 Oct 07, 6:56 PM by Gavriel Next page