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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "No BDSM ! what to do ? :o)" 1 2 No BDSM ! what to do ? :o) (12) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Mon 13 Feb 06, 12:09 PM indian_thrust IN, 6 yrs Y! Greetings A/all I hail from a country ( India/Asia ) where the expression of sexual act itself is a bit far fetched in public. BDSM is a even more unthought of story. I find lot of Indian folks who claim to be in BDSM and claim to be slaves/subs or Dominants. However when approached to interact in a realistic way, they usually disappear. Whatever little experience I obtained was through Online, and casual real life interactions with foreign people ( as I work in a tourism industry! ). This is getting frustrating now, as I dont come across anyone who is realistic from my own country. Is this a similar experience elsewhere on this earth as well ?? At times I feel that I was born somewhere wrong.. or I should not have indulged in the desires which are difficult to materialise in the land I belong to. I registered not too long back on this board, and similar sites as well. However I rarely see Indian people here. The ones I see are wankers.. On some sites I even see possibly fictitious profiles created by the webmasters !! Dont know what I look for, in response of this post.. but it was more of a rambling. thanks for reading :o) Thanks "even more" if you lend your point of view on this :o) P.S. I am a Dominant sraight Male from India ( asia ). Edited Mon 13 Feb 06, 12:13 PM by indian_thrust 13 Feb 06, 4:00 PM 902-660-194 US(PA), 6 yrs your life seems very difficult, or at least it seems very difficult to live your life. i would compare your problem along with telling your body it can not make use of the air anymore. no, not as extreme of a problem, but when youre keeping something from your body that it needs to be happy (your control of someone) its just as bad as keeping air or water from it. well.. i suppose that was my little rambling wisdom, at least in my own head i wish you the best of luck in finding someone. i am sure there are woman like you seek close by, just very cautious and scared, hiding their true natures. ~peace~ the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession. 14 Feb 06, 2:14 PM the_boi UK, 7 yrs £ Y! 902-660-194 wrote: your life seems very difficult, or at least it seems very difficult to live your life. i would compare your problem along with telling your body it can not make use of the air anymore. no, not as extreme of a problem, but when youre keeping something from your body that it needs to be happy (your control of someone) its just as bad as keeping air or water from it. well.. i suppose that was my little rambling wisdom, at least in my own head i wish you the best of luck in finding someone. i am sure there are woman like you seek close by, just very cautious and scared, hiding their true natures. ~peace~ Its impossible to say anything that will change the situation however You can not think that You are somehow wrong for being who You are, its how Your made and its how You will live, however a quote i grew up with worked for me! "the best thing comes to those who wait" Good Luck Sir the_boi 000-636-428 "where will your service take you today!" 16 Feb 06, 2:19 PM 753-706-935 NL, 6 yrs wow you are in a very difficult situation. you are not the only one. my Master come from Moldova he say there are many moldovans like that too. in holland even its is difficult to find someone good, let alone over there but its not you who is wrong but the mentality of people sometimes is i wish everyone would accept people as they are •●• 753-706-935 is the proud sex and pain slave of DanitoDominant •●• 15 Apr 06, 3:36 PM 615-715-976 MY, 6 yrs indian_thrust wrote: Greetings A/all I hail from a country ( India/Asia ) where the expression of sexual act itself is a bit far fetched in public. BDSM is a even more unthought of story. I find lot of Indian folks who claim to be in BDSM and claim to be slaves/subs or Dominants. However when approached to interact in a realistic way, they usually disappear. Whatever little experience I obtained was through Online, and casual real life interactions with foreign people ( as I work in a tourism industry! ). This is getting frustrating now, as I dont come across anyone who is realistic from my own country. Is this a similar experience elsewhere on this earth as well ?? At times I feel that I was born somewhere wrong.. or I should not have indulged in the desires which are difficult to materialise in the land I belong to. I registered not too long back on this board, and similar sites as well. However I rarely see Indian people here. The ones I see are wankers.. On some sites I even see possibly fictitious profiles created by the webmasters !! Dont know what I look for, in response of this post.. but it was more of a rambling. thanks for reading :o) Thanks "even more" if you lend your point of view on this :o) P.S. I am a Dominant sraight Male from India ( asia ). If it is any word of comfort is that you are not alone. I felt the same way too! I've looked and looked and looked and still looking someone who share the interest in BDSM in my country. I know they are out there ... but where? I just hope I will not be too old when I meet any of them. 8 Jul 06, 9:16 PM sweetie_bird_RML BR, 6 yrs Y! hon, that's not just india. I recently discovered there is only one BDSM club in the entire latin america. Well, it is near my house, in Brazil, but it sucks. S-u-c-k-s! big time. and well, same thing happens here - most bdsm folks are either goth (and dont have a clue of what is going on) or big time posers. luckily, that will change in time. best luck hon. 8 Jul 06, 9:27 PM mogroth UK, 6 yrs indian_thrust wrote: Greetings A/all I hail from a country ( India/Asia ) where the expression of sexual act itself is a bit far fetched in public. BDSM is a even more unthought of story. I find lot of Indian folks who claim to be in BDSM and claim to be slaves/subs or Dominants. However when approached to interact in a realistic way, they usually disappear. Hmm! I knew one sub in New Delhi, though we've lost touch a while back. She was aiming to go for total slavery, and was looking for someone train her. I can't promise anything, but I'll see if I can find a safe method of contact for both you and her. She did have a Yahoo profile inviting such contacts, but last I heard, she hadn't had any luck with meeting anyone in India, and was feeling a bit down about it. Kevin 5 Aug 06, 7:33 AM 273-083-387 IN, 5 yrs £ Y! Hi try me once I m a decent, sober n well eduaced bisexmale in new delhi (INDIA) i look for in India, can please u the way u like please have me u may direct me to other Goddess/Lord as u wish bushbearing@rediffmail.com ur servant n slave vikram 35 yrs 5'10'' 75 kgs 5 Aug 06, 7:33 AM 273-083-387 IN, 5 yrs £ Y! Hi I m a decent, sober n well eduaced male in new delhi (INDIA) i look for a goddess in India, can please u the way u like please have me u may direct me to other Goddess as u wish bushbearing@rediffmail.com ur servant n slave vikram 35 yrs 5'10'' 75 kgs 5 Aug 06, 7:35 AM 273-083-387 IN, 5 yrs £ Y! Hi I m a decent, sober n well eduaced male in new delhi (INDIA) i look for a goddess in India, can please u the way u like please have me u may direct me to other Goddess as u wish bushbearing@rediffmail.com ur servant n slave vikram 35 yrs 5'10'' 75 kgs 5 Aug 06, 8:54 AM MasterAkhnaton UK, 5 yrs Y! My ex-wife was from Asia. From all she told me about the culture in India/Asia I am not surprised that you are finding it very difficult to find anyone to openly admit that they are BDSM-orientated. It's not you that are fault - it's the narrow-mindedness of the public perception that needs desperately changing (though those who live in India/Asia don't realise it) Although my ex-wife had already been married before she met me, she knew very little about sex and I had to be patient with her, whilst training her to open her mind and body to receive sensual pleasures which had previously been denied to her. I wish you every success in finding someone who is genuine and with whom you can have a very positive interaction. Master Akhnaton 615-715-976 wrote: indian_thrust wrote: Greetings A/all I hail from a country ( India/Asia ) where the expression of sexual act itself is a bit far fetched in public. BDSM is a even more unthought of story. I find lot of Indian folks who claim to be in BDSM and claim to be slaves/subs or Dominants. However when approached to interact in a realistic way, they usually disappear. Whatever little experience I obtained was through Online, and casual real life interactions with foreign people ( as I work in a tourism industry! ). This is getting frustrating now, as I dont come across anyone who is realistic from my own country. Is this a similar experience elsewhere on this earth as well ?? At times I feel that I was born somewhere wrong.. or I should not have indulged in the desires which are difficult to materialise in the land I belong to. I registered not too long back on this board, and similar sites as well. However I rarely see Indian people here. The ones I see are wankers.. On some sites I even see possibly fictitious profiles created by the webmasters !! Dont know what I look for, in response of this post.. but it was more of a rambling. thanks for reading :o) Thanks "even more" if you lend your point of view on this :o) P.S. I am a Dominant sraight Male from India ( asia ). If it is any word of comfort is that you are not alone. I felt the same way too! I've looked and looked and looked and still looking someone who share the interest in BDSM in my country. I know they are out there ... but where? I just hope I will not be too old when I meet any of them. Master Akhnaton http://masterakhnaton.livejournal.com Next page