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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Help for new trainer" Help for new trainer (7) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 22 Dec 05, 1:57 PM NewTrainer UK, 6 yrs I have a woman interested in becoming my slave. She has read a bit about the subject and we are going through a list of 'rules'. I have had a slave before, she was very part time and quite some time ago. I would ask here, what would you suggest as a training programme for her (me as well for that matter of course). she wants to be dominated by her master and have him lead in the training, so it seems that I must know more before I bring it to our discussions on the subject (maybe I am wrong about this). Is there a good source of reading materinal for our situation? Comments? 22 Dec 05, 7:58 PM nmart384000 UK, 6 yrs NewTrainer wrote: I have a woman interested in becoming my slave. She has read a bit about the subject and we are going through a list of 'rules'. I have had a slave before, she was very part time and quite some time ago. I would ask here, what would you suggest as a training programme for her (me as well for that matter of course). she wants to be dominated by her master and have him lead in the training, so it seems that I must know more before I bring it to our discussions on the subject (maybe I am wrong about this). Is there a good source of reading materinal for our situation? Comments? masters do the leading and the training ,slaves do the learn and obey part, this slave is going to be pretty miffed when she sees how little you know ... read the weblogs and learn 22 Dec 05, 9:11 PM pirate528x US(LA), 6 yrs Y! NewTrainer wrote: I have a woman interested in becoming my slave. She has read a bit about the subject and we are going through a list of 'rules'. I have had a slave before, she was very part time and quite some time ago. I would ask here, what would you suggest as a training programme for her (me as well for that matter of course). she wants to be dominated by her master and have him lead in the training, so it seems that I must know more before I bring it to our discussions on the subject (maybe I am wrong about this). Is there a good source of reading materinal for our situation? Comments? Hi,I started learning to be a Master at age 16 from my father,that was 27 years ago.There's no magic pill or program.Unfortunately no one offers "on the job training". pirate528x 23 Dec 05, 9:20 AM Chastiser 12 yrs i think the answer here is to keep it simple. while you are re-familiarising yourself with what you need to do, and, she is learning from you, if you over complicate things, you will get caught up in the process and lose sight of what you are trying to achieve. perhaps at first, instead of a definite list of rules, try coming up with a list of objectives? bolt on a couple of hard and fast rules that are easy to remember and off you go. it may be well to give yourself fixed review points too, which will allow you to see more clearly where you have got to, and then you can modify your route to suit what changes have occurred so far. Mike Let Me unchain your mind and your sexuality will follow. www.chastisersworld.com/auction The Kink Friendly Auction site that is free to buyer and seller. 23 Dec 05, 9:41 AM NewTrainer UK, 6 yrs cheers 23 Dec 05, 2:40 PM Sluggo55555 US, 6 yrs Y! NewTrainer wrote: I have a woman interested in becoming my slave. She has read a bit about the subject and we are going through a list of 'rules'. I have had a slave before, she was very part time and quite some time ago. I would ask here, what would you suggest as a training programme for her (me as well for that matter of course). she wants to be dominated by her master and have him lead in the training, so it seems that I must know more before I bring it to our discussions on the subject (maybe I am wrong about this). Is there a good source of reading materinal for our situation? Comments? I think real information is really valuable. 3 sourses come to mind: 1. http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/site_map.htm 2. Don't be put off that this is the wrong orientation or kink these people really have the're shit together. http://www.thedoghouse.org/index.htm 3. This one is mostly a porn review website but I think they also review sex information websites. Again these people really have the're information together. http://www.janesguide.com/ Happy reading! 28 Dec 05, 10:38 AM NewTrainer UK, 6 yrs Thanks 28 Dec 05, 7:54 PM babalon US, 6 yrs NewTrainer wrote: I have a woman interested in becoming my slave. She has read a bit about the subject and we are going through a list of 'rules'. I have had a slave before, she was very part time and quite some time ago. I would ask here, what would you suggest as a training programme for her (me as well for that matter of course). she wants to be dominated by her master and have him lead in the training, so it seems that I must know more before I bring it to our discussions on the subject (maybe I am wrong about this). Is there a good source of reading materinal for our situation? Comments? Some folks may laugh at me for suggesting it, but you may want to look at Lady Abernathy's Slave Training books. It at least helps you think about what you really want, what you care about and what you don't. Don't feel like you have to train her about everything you read. If you don't care about positions - then don't bother training those. If you don't care about household service, don't bother training that. Also, keep in mind that there are specialists to train specific areas such as massage, bellydance, etc. Never hesitate to send her to a specialist for certain things. The main thing is: you need to think carefully about what *YOU* want her to know, to do, to not do. Don't set a rule if you're not willing to follow through and correct her on it. If you want her to remember to address you as Master, then you need to pay attention to whether she does and correct her each and every time (with increasing levels of "correction" over time) that she forgets. You're both working on building up habits. You - the habit of being addressed as Master (or whatever), her- the habit of addressing you that way. This is why it's really helpful to start with things you really care about and only adding one rule or two rules at a time. Good luck with it. babalon