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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Collar suggestions" Collar suggestions (6) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 8 Dec 05, 6:30 AM SouthernGypsy US, 6 yrs My slave and myself are getting married with a vanilla cerimony for family. We're also having a collaring cerimony with our many lifestyle friends. I founded and have run the large BDSM D/s mailing list and group in our region since '98 so we have lots of friends. So all is grand, or should be... We are finding ourselves with a delima, my slave works in a VERY public vocation, one where any hint of kinkyness would be frowned upon and could potentially even cost her job. Both of us want a collar that is stylish, classy, very feminine, yet is strong and can be locked. We both like collars that lock and she loves the feeling that knowing she couldn't remove it without me even if she wanted to gives her. We'd like one that's all metal, preferably silver in color or silver with small amounts of gold for accent, maybe semi-polished or etched stainless steel or even white-gold. A requirment would be that it could be worn continuously without being removed, even during showering, swimming, sports, and sleeping. So we need one where the locking mechanism is well hidden and can pass for jewlery to her vanilla co-workers (and others she meets at work), friends, and family. Does anyone know of any collar designs that could fit our needs or links they could offer us to look at? - SouthernGypsy Edited Thu 8 Dec 05, 6:37 AM by SouthernGypsy 8 Dec 05, 8:17 AM Chastiser 12 yrs you could try this?? http://www.chastisersworld.com/auction/item.php?... Mike Let Me unchain your mind and your sexuality will follow. www.chastisersworld.com/auction The Kink Friendly Auction site that is free to buyer and seller. 8 Dec 05, 9:27 AM 834-652-458 US, 6 yrs SouthernGypsy wrote: My slave and myself are getting married with a vanilla cerimony for family. We're also having a collaring cerimony with our many lifestyle friends. I founded and have run the large BDSM D/s mailing list and group in our region since '98 so we have lots of friends. So all is grand, or should be... We are finding ourselves with a delima, my slave works in a VERY public vocation, one where any hint of kinkyness would be frowned upon and could potentially even cost her job. Both of us want a collar that is stylish, classy, very feminine, yet is strong and can be locked. We both like collars that lock and she loves the feeling that knowing she couldn't remove it without me even if she wanted to gives her. We'd like one that's all metal, preferably silver in color or silver with small amounts of gold for accent, maybe semi-polished or etched stainless steel or even white-gold. A requirment would be that it could be worn continuously without being removed, even during showering, swimming, sports, and sleeping. So we need one where the locking mechanism is well hidden and can pass for jewlery to her vanilla co-workers (and others she meets at work), friends, and family. Does anyone know of any collar designs that could fit our needs or links they could offer us to look at? - SouthernGypsy http://www.stockroom.com/b421plus.htm http://www.stockroom.com/b545plus.htm you can get a heart pendant to put on it and it has a heart lock you can get and you will have the key. Hope this helps and if its not what your looking for, i wish you well in your search. Congratulations to the both of you. 8 Dec 05, 9:34 AM 834-652-458 US, 6 yrs SouthernGypsy wrote: My slave and myself are getting married with a vanilla cerimony for family. We're also having a collaring cerimony with our many lifestyle friends. I founded and have run the large BDSM D/s mailing list and group in our region since '98 so we have lots of friends. So all is grand, or should be... We are finding ourselves with a delima, my slave works in a VERY public vocation, one where any hint of kinkyness would be frowned upon and could potentially even cost her job. Both of us want a collar that is stylish, classy, very feminine, yet is strong and can be locked. We both like collars that lock and she loves the feeling that knowing she couldn't remove it without me even if she wanted to gives her. We'd like one that's all metal, preferably silver in color or silver with small amounts of gold for accent, maybe semi-polished or etched stainless steel or even white-gold. A requirment would be that it could be worn continuously without being removed, even during showering, swimming, sports, and sleeping. So we need one where the locking mechanism is well hidden and can pass for jewlery to her vanilla co-workers (and others she meets at work), friends, and family. Does anyone know of any collar designs that could fit our needs or links they could offer us to look at? - SouthernGypsy I found more for you to look at http://www.bondagecollars.com/ theres are very very nice. ok i just love looking at collars, what can i say? im a slave... 9 Dec 05, 10:41 AM OrionStorm US(SC), 10 yrs £ SouthernGypsy wrote: My slave and myself are getting married with a vanilla cerimony for family. We're also having a collaring cerimony with our many lifestyle friends. I founded and have run the large BDSM D/s mailing list and group in our region since '98 so we have lots of friends. So all is grand, or should be... We are finding ourselves with a delima, my slave works in a VERY public vocation, one where any hint of kinkyness would be frowned upon and could potentially even cost her job. Both of us want a collar that is stylish, classy, very feminine, yet is strong and can be locked. We both like collars that lock and she loves the feeling that knowing she couldn't remove it without me even if she wanted to gives her. We'd like one that's all metal, preferably silver in color or silver with small amounts of gold for accent, maybe semi-polished or etched stainless steel or even white-gold. A requirment would be that it could be worn continuously without being removed, even during showering, swimming, sports, and sleeping. So we need one where the locking mechanism is well hidden and can pass for jewlery to her vanilla co-workers (and others she meets at work), friends, and family. Does anyone know of any collar designs that could fit our needs or links they could offer us to look at? - SouthernGypsy My slave and I also faced a similar dilema. A few months ago, I found a very stylish, fashionable collar on Ebay. Its design is labeled as that of a Gorean name ... "Turian Collar." Just do a search on Ebay under "kajira" and you will find it. It is quite simple, looks like any number of necklaces worn today, but it can be permanently sealed with a bit of superglue. My slave cleans her collar nightly. she has now worn it for nearly six months without curiosity nor comment. It comes with a ring for attaching a leash. So far the only comments My slave has received is that she should consider adding some charms to the collar. Congratulations on your pending nuptials. OrionStorm 14 Dec 05, 6:56 AM 406-767-238 US, 6 yrs SouthernGypsy wrote: My slave and myself are getting married with a vanilla cerimony for family. We're also having a collaring cerimony with our many lifestyle friends. I founded and have run the large BDSM D/s mailing list and group in our region since '98 so we have lots of friends. So all is grand, or should be... We are finding ourselves with a delima, my slave works in a VERY public vocation, one where any hint of kinkyness would be frowned upon and could potentially even cost her job. Both of us want a collar that is stylish, classy, very feminine, yet is strong and can be locked. We both like collars that lock and she loves the feeling that knowing she couldn't remove it without me even if she wanted to gives her. We'd like one that's all metal, preferably silver in color or silver with small amounts of gold for accent, maybe semi-polished or etched stainless steel or even white-gold. A requirment would be that it could be worn continuously without being removed, even during showering, swimming, sports, and sleeping. So we need one where the locking mechanism is well hidden and can pass for jewlery to her vanilla co-workers (and others she meets at work), friends, and family. Does anyone know of any collar designs that could fit our needs or links they could offer us to look at? - SouthernGypsy I wear a beautiful Eternity collar that my Master placed around my throat in March. It's a solid ring of steel, with only a hidden hinge and a screw that locks it closed. My collar is NEVER NEVER NEVER removed except to swap it with another slave's collar when I am swapped with one of my sister slaves for an evening or a weekend. I would utterly adore wearing a permanent collar for Him that could not ever be removed, I dream of Him welding it shut around my throat, but our Masters also like to swap their slaves and our collars, so no permanent collar for me. But my Master's Eternity collar passes everywhere on my throat, I have no choice, I am always collared everywhere I go. (They have a website, I don't know the actual address but just google Eternity collars.) PS... Congratulations!!! Edited 14 Dec 05, 6:58 AM by 406-767-238 14 Dec 05, 3:32 PM 000-671-955 CA, 7 yrs Y! 406-767-238 wrote: SouthernGypsy wrote: My slave and myself are getting married with a vanilla cerimony for family. We're also having a collaring cerimony with our many lifestyle friends. I founded and have run the large BDSM D/s mailing list and group in our region since '98 so we have lots of friends. So all is grand, or should be... We are finding ourselves with a delima, my slave works in a VERY public vocation, one where any hint of kinkyness would be frowned upon and could potentially even cost her job. Both of us want a collar that is stylish, classy, very feminine, yet is strong and can be locked. We both like collars that lock and she loves the feeling that knowing she couldn't remove it without me even if she wanted to gives her. We'd like one that's all metal, preferably silver in color or silver with small amounts of gold for accent, maybe semi-polished or etched stainless steel or even white-gold. A requirment would be that it could be worn continuously without being removed, even during showering, swimming, sports, and sleeping. So we need one where the locking mechanism is well hidden and can pass for jewlery to her vanilla co-workers (and others she meets at work), friends, and family. Does anyone know of any collar designs that could fit our needs or links they could offer us to look at? - SouthernGypsy I wear a beautiful Eternity collar that my Master placed around my throat in March. It's a solid ring of steel, with only a hidden hinge and a screw that locks it closed. My collar is NEVER NEVER NEVER removed except to swap it with another slave's collar when I am swapped with one of my sister slaves for an evening or a weekend. I would utterly adore wearing a permanent collar for Him that could not ever be removed, I dream of Him welding it shut around my throat, but our Masters also like to swap their slaves and our collars, so no permanent collar for me. But my Master's Eternity collar passes everywhere on my throat, I have no choice, I am always collared everywhere I go. (They have a website, I don't know the actual address but just google Eternity collars.) PS... Congratulations!!! Master had the same problem with finding a collar to fit our lifestyle, i too am aware of the vanilla world, and with my job and family did not want to arouse any questions that might cause problems. There are many jewellery stores that can accomodate your needs, Master found a beautiful collar that was open at the back, and that was large enough, but not to large as to attract to much attention. He had it modified by the jeweller as to accept a small silver lock, to which only he has the key. My hair is long enough that it hides the small lock, but even if noticed, it rarely brings up the question why, but usually i am asked where did i get such a unique collar. Their are many Lifestyle jewellery collars on the market, all excellent, but having Master choose one for me, and custom set for his slave so only he could remove with the key made it all that more special. i wear it always with pride and conviction, so that anyone who knows me is used to seeing me with it on, and never really notices it, i am sure if it was removed, there might be more questions as to its absence. Whatever Master decides what will work for your situation, you will always remember the day that you put it on and became Masters own. Congratulations on your Lifelong Journey. Master's "o"