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	TSR : Web boards : Internal Enslavement : "Advice" Advice (6) This post is on the Internal Enslavement web board. Mon 21 Nov 05, 3:52 PM kitia1 UK, 6 yrs i'm looking for some advice. i know i'm submisive, always have been. Have limits, the main being am lesbian and won't go with men at all. Want to find out just how far i can accept power exchange and am fairly sure it is a very long way. But am not sure of the best and safest way to explore this. All advice welcomed. Edited Tue 22 Nov 05, 1:16 AM by kitia1 21 Nov 05, 4:00 PM 902-660-194 US(PA), 6 yrs kitia1 wrote: I'm looking for some advice. I know I'm submisive, always have been. Have limits, the main being am female and won't go with men. Want to find out just how far I can accept power exchange and am fairly sure it is a very long way. But am not sure of the best and safest way to explore this. All advice welcomed. hi, im not sure i really understand just what you are saying, you wont be with men because you are female? but, since you mentioned safety, i would suggest that when you are exploring how far you will/can go, you set up a safety word, even if you dont use it during a scene, it can be a sign that you dont wish to go any further. good luck the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession. 21 Nov 05, 6:08 PM Chastiser 12 yrs kitia1 wrote: I'm looking for some advice. I know I'm submisive, always have been. Have limits, the main being am female and won't go with men. Want to find out just how far I can accept power exchange and am fairly sure it is a very long way. But am not sure of the best and safest way to explore this. All advice welcomed. do you mean you are a lesbian? if so it would be a good idea to put such plainly on your profile to avoid unwanted contact from males. in addition, put as much info on your profile as you can, so that those that can help you will contact you. Mike Let Me unchain your mind and your sexuality will follow. www.chastisersworld.com/auction The Kink Friendly Auction site that is free to buyer and seller. 22 Nov 05, 1:02 AM kitia1 UK, 6 yrs Chastiser wrote: kitia1 wrote: I'm looking for some advice. I know I'm submisive, always have been. Have limits, the main being am female and won't go with men. Want to find out just how far I can accept power exchange and am fairly sure it is a very long way. But am not sure of the best and safest way to explore this. All advice welcomed. do you mean you are a lesbian? if so it would be a good idea to put such plainly on your profile to avoid unwanted contact from males. in addition, put as much info on your profile as you can, so that those that can help you will contact you. Mike Thanks both and yes I do mean I am lesbian. Will amend my rpofile accordingly 28 Nov 05, 3:24 PM s_sunny_tx US, 6 yrs Y! kitia1 wrote: i'm looking for some advice. i know i'm submisive, always have been. Have limits, the main being am lesbian and won't go with men at all. Want to find out just how far i can accept power exchange and am fairly sure it is a very long way. But am not sure of the best and safest way to explore this. All advice welcomed. I think the safest way to explore this is the same for man or woman, lesbian, bi, straight, nilla or BDSM or D/s. Finding the right person to explore your interests is kin to dating. Collaring is kin to marriage. We start out by getting to know people and discovering common interests, like minds, and slowly developing trust. This requires a lot of time an patience. Use more than one source in your search. I suggest real life BDSM clubs or groups in your own local area. slave sunny "what have you done for One today?" Edited 29 Nov 05, 8:21 PM by s_sunny_tx 1 Dec 05, 10:40 PM Prunesquallor UK, 6 yrs kitia1 wrote: i'm looking for some advice. i know i'm submisive, always have been. Have limits, the main being am lesbian and won't go with men at all. Want to find out just how far i can accept power exchange and am fairly sure it is a very long way. But am not sure of the best and safest way to explore this. All advice welcomed. I think the safest way it can be explored is ... slowly. If you wish to deepen your submission, wait until you have the trust for your partner that you need to be able to place your life in their hands. 4 Dec 05, 7:57 AM slavegail UK, 6 yrs Y! Prunesquallor wrote: kitia1 wrote: i'm looking for some advice. i know i'm submisive, always have been. Have limits, the main being am lesbian and won't go with men at all. Want to find out just how far i can accept power exchange and am fairly sure it is a very long way. But am not sure of the best and safest way to explore this. All advice welcomed. I think the safest way it can be explored is ... slowly. If you wish to deepen your submission, wait until you have the trust for your partner that you need to be able to place your life in their hands. might this slave also advise that unless it is meant to be there you take the(£) from your profile most are here because we are proad to serve our Owners it is what we are we seek no reward a happy Owner is reward enought a well done slave and a gentle slap on the butt works wonders for me at times. (Smiles well mabe not always on the butt) slavegail property of NG1