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TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "slave training school"
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slave training school (23)

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9 Dec 05, 4:35 AM
139-715-032
US(MA), 6 yrs

000-698-044 wrote:
As for traning in a camp most Masters or Mistress would rather train them selfes,Most like a novice to train thier way,if you need help in protacol easy to get off line

Early on in our relationship, I showed my master the Butchmann's training protocol. He gave me a point by point description of why he didn't want me to do nearly every one of the things on the list. *laugh* He explicitly forbade me from using non-standard capitalization or more than one honorific per sentence. "Yes, Sir, My Master, Sir." is right out!

Different masters have different preferences. It can be nice to know the protocol of any local groups you spend time in, but I think that simply learning impeccable manners is a better use of a would-be slave's time.

However, two of the most useful skills a slave can learn are mindfulness and flexibility. Study any person or group's "protocol" and adapt yourself to it, and you'll learn something.

-- Joshua

9 Dec 05, 4:43 AM
139-715-032
US(MA), 6 yrs

000-649-879 wrote:
I am fairly new to the site and was wondering wheher there was such a place/places as slave training schools where would be slaves get trained - if so can anyone recomend one?

More to the original poster's point, in the North-East US I recommend the folks at The Estate - http://www.the-estate.com. My master thinks fairly highly of them. Email staff@the-estate.com or call 206-202-3537. While sexual service and SM are part of the training, they are not the main focus.

-- Joshua

Edited 9 Dec 05, 8:43 PM by 139-715-032

21 Feb 06, 8:09 PM
sl649879
6 yrs
I have still not found a Mistress to train me which is disapointing. Maybe I should give up looking?

22 Feb 06, 3:06 AM
999-436-665
6 yrs
sl649879 wrote:
I have still not found a Mistress to train me which is disapointing. Maybe I should give up looking?

sl649878

please dont give up, it takes time to find the person who can help you and train you.

As the saying go, good things cum to those who wait.

or is it good things come to those who wait? LOL :) any way both work for this girl

One can not find and instant Dom/Domme or sub/slave and if it happens to soon, well you have to wonder how good they are at what they claim to be.

hope that makes sense :)

blessings roni

Edited 22 Feb 06, 3:08 AM by 999-436-665

22 Feb 06, 4:43 AM
little_linnet
US, 6 yrs
sl649879 wrote:
I have still not found a Mistress to train me which is disapointing. Maybe I should give up looking?

What is your purpose in looking for someone to train you?

Are you using the word "train" to mean a relationship with someone in which you can explore your BDSM interests without making a longterm or lifetime commitment? In that case you would probably do best getting involved in your local Scene through munches and getting to know people you feel comfortable playing with.

Do you think some kind of training is necessary to make you desirable to the dominant you hope to have a longterm relationship with? In that case my advice would be to stop investing energy in looking for a "trainer" and get out there and look for the right woman! She will probably be more than happy to train you herself, exactly to her satisfaction.

In the meantime you can use the energy you were investing in looking for someone to "train" you to instead learn skills you're interested in, or skills you think would be useful to the right dominant woman for you. You don't need a kinky academy to learn these kinds of skills. Take a yoga class, or get a gym membership; study formal manners and the protocol a butler would follow; learn massage and cooking; read and learn about bdsm experiences you haven't had to get a good feel for what flips your switch ... and think a lot about what you want out of a relationship.

I am not a dominant but I expect that an intelligent, honest submissive with a clear idea of what they're looking for, good communication skills and some interesting/useful talents would be far more attractive to one than any amount of kinky "training".

Good luck!

Krista

Under my thumb / The sweetest / Pet in the world
www.xanga.com/proudflesh

22 Feb 06, 9:16 AM
Tanos*
UK, 14 yrs
Y!*
139-715-032 wrote:
in the North-East US I recommend the folks at The Estate - http://www.the-estate.com. My master thinks fairly highly of them. Email staff@the-estate.com or call 206-202-3537. While sexual service and SM are part of the training, they are not the main focus.

Do you know have many submissives have "completed their training" at the Estate, as they put it?

Regards,

Tanos

www.tanos.org.uk

23 Feb 06, 7:38 PM
000-624-517
NL, 9 yrs
I am of the mind of several here that the best training you can get is from the one you are going to serve. That being said and knowing how difficult it is to find the right person to serve, if you are ready to give up that easily perhaps you do not have the commitment you will need to undergo training. It sounds harsh but being sub or slave is not an easy thing to take on, nor is it something you can turn on and off at your whim if the Dominant in question requires your service and it falls within the boundaries of your agreement.
5 Mar 06, 6:44 PM
Tom6294
US, 7 yrs
Y!*
I have a friend in The Netherlands who is quite experienced and has a wonderful place in the north of the country in a small town. I talked to him about having about two-week or so session with about five female slaves (each with separate negotiated limits agreed by Wim, Master and girl) so I could send my girl. So far, I have gotten no response from anyone. If anyone is interested, let me know. Tom

5 Mar 06, 10:39 PM
000-280-218
US(PA), 8 yrs
£ Y!*
sl649879 wrote:
I am fairly new to the site and was wondering wheher there was such a place/places as slave training schools where would be slaves get trained - if so can anyone recomend one?

There is a "school" that is part of the Brotherhood of the Circle, A group of hetrosexual African American Dominant Men. Part of their school is for Dominants, called the Academy. There is a section called the gateway for submissives and slaves. It is located in tennessee.There website is www.thebrotherhoodofthecircle.com

butterfly

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