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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Online slavery is..." 1 2 3 4 5 Online slavery is... (43) This post is on the Other Topics web board (moved from M/s D/s O&P). Fri 27 Jan 12, 7:06 AM 670-724-241 RU, 4 mths Good day A/all! How do you think online slavery is real? How long online relationship can be? Unfortunatelly, I am not believe. I was involved in online d/s relationship but they were terminated by the Domme. Probably online relationship is hard issue for a dominating partner. but... In any case i'd like to be an online slave, wanna do my best for an Owner and belive that someone would show me how online slavery should be Have Y/you got any ideas about online slavery? 670-724-241 27 Jan 12, 7:30 AM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs 670-724-241 wrote: Online slavery is... Good day A/all! How do you think online slavery is real? How long online relationship can be? Unfortunatelly, I am not believe. I was involved in online d/s relationship but they were terminated by the Domme. Probably online relationship is hard issue for a dominating partner. but... In any case i'd like to be an online slave, wanna do my best for an Owner and belive that someone would show me how online slavery should be Have Y/you got any ideas about online slavery? 670-724-241 *waves* welcome to tsr Slavery is as real as you want it to be. If you are in an online and you are dedicated to it with truth and trust and openness..well then it is real to you. People fall in love everyday on the net..never having even met. People are in M/s relationships that are online. It depends on the two people involved and how much they want to put into it and how much they expect to get out of it. i think one of the differences between online vs realtime is that with online you get all that is good and romantic. With realtime you have reality to kick you in the ass. Such as..online..you have each others complete attention. You cannot touch each other so you have to make up for this with intense mind games. It is all very high energy and everything goes perfectly because well its just words. In realtime..people are tired...grumpy..had bad days and so on. In realtime someone is actually kicking your ass and leaving marks. Everyone is face to face so maybe some of the romantic words are lost and replaced by actions.Altough nothing replaces the hand of your master on your throat..no amount of words can do this. i suppose it is what you need as an idividual at the time..do you need to carress the mind or the body. Online can certainly be satifactory to both involved if they put out the effort it takes. It is a very hard road with trust and patience...but like i said it can be very intense..just depends on the people involved. As far as showing you how to be..its simple..just be honest and open minded and communicate EVERYTHING. If you say you are kneeling...well you should be kneeling or all is lost. Good luck to you i hope you find what you are looking for *edited for an oops Take care, His naughtyslave Edited 27 Jan 12, 7:31 AM by naughtyslave 27 Jan 12, 8:05 AM Lizzard DE, 4 mths Hello. True I am quite new to this but so far i agree with naughtslave. It is what you want it to be. Even if Online is to some extent like pickin raisins out of the cake it is somewhat limited. "Is she/he online", "cam 2 cam or not", "Is she/he for real" questions that mit take the fun out of the excitement and then sometimes in can be the extra hot spice. Especially if you get turned on by the limitless control of your master. Maybe he is looking at you through the pc cam you have pointed at you at work.... For beginners it can also be a "safety precaution" because the masters hand is on the keyboard not on your skin. And the most powerfull tool for your pleasure is your imagination. regards Roger 27 Jan 12, 1:17 PM Slave_Fuckmeat UK, 2 yrs I totally agree with naughtyslave. Making a comittment to become a slave online is a real act of submmission and acceptance of your position. For me it has twice been the prelude to a physical relationship with a Dom but even when it is based solely on the internet it still represents the acceptance and submission of one person to another so I think it is real and can be fulfilling. Of course there are always the men who simply want pcitures of women in humiliating postions but these types are easily identifed 27 Jan 12, 4:46 PM slave_emma US(OK), 6 yrs Y! 670-724-241 wrote: Online slavery is... Good day A/all! How do you think online slavery is real? How long online relationship can be? No. I do not believe online relationships are real. It is a fantasy, just like playing a video game. It may be fun; it may give satisfaction emotional satisfaction but it is not real. Best wishes, slave emma Master Howard's little girl 27 Jan 12, 4:51 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs Online slavery is... NOT to be discussed on this board. The request to Admin has been made to move it. "We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin must be shed before a new one can come." ~ Joseph Campbell 27 Jan 12, 7:11 PM SeanT70 9 yrs 670-724-241 wrote: Online slavery is... Good day A/all! How do you think online slavery is real? How long online relationship can be? Unfortunatelly, I am not believe. I was involved in online d/s relationship but they were terminated by the Domme. Probably online relationship is hard issue for a dominating partner. but... In any case i'd like to be an online slave, wanna do my best for an Owner and belive that someone would show me how online slavery should be Have Y/you got any ideas about online slavery? 670-724-241 Posters above have said Online Relationships are what you make of them, which is true; I know this from experience. They can take a lot of work, and in some respects more work that a 'normal' 24/7 (live-in) or other dynamic because they aren't tangible so you (both - or more) have to keep that belief and trust that there is something remarkable for you happening. And there can be. I make no apologies to the bad ship 'Doubting Thomas', but it's true, unless you've been in it, or sailed on the boat that knows the course and trajectory of those seas, please, don't cast aspersions on people that believe they have something special. Their investment can be huge. Mine was. My Online relationship all that time ago was how my Barcode from this site came about for all the wrong reasons, but how I came to stay (here), subsequently, for all the right reasons. Some stories are short, sweet and indifferent, others are massively intricate, personal and endearing. We cannot afford to be quite so 'Carte Blanche' about such things. Have opinions, sure, of course. slave_emma wrote: 670-724-241 wrote: Online slavery is... Good day A/all! How do you think online slavery is real? How long online relationship can be? No. I do not believe online relationships are real. It is a fantasy, just like playing a video game. It may be fun; it may give satisfaction emotional satisfaction but it is not real. Best wishes, slave emma Have you been in such a relationship to know that they're fantasy emma? With respect, unless that is the case, you'll find if you spend enough time reading (here) about various people's OL Relationships, or talking to people about how they're affected every day of their lives, how they feel is very real indeed. And who are you (or I, now - at this juncture), to tell them different? If anything, the emotions felt in an OL'r are more intense because they are over-compensated for, over anticipated. Longed for. Wanted. Ached. Missed. Imagined. That imagination runs wild with something that cannot be touched, the intangible thing that a 24/7 Relationship has as an advantage over them. Of course, feel absolutely at liberty to be skeptical, but in no way, tell these people how to feel. It's not greatly fair, is it? Have a great day, Sean 27 Jan 12, 8:15 PM slave_emma US(OK), 6 yrs Y! SeanT70 wrote: Have you been in such a relationship to know that they're fantasy emma? With respect, unless that is the case, you'll find if you spend enough time reading (here) about various people's OL Relationships, or talking to people about how they're affected every day of their lives, how they feel is very real indeed. And who are you (or I, now - at this juncture), to tell them different? If anything, the emotions felt in an OL'r are more intense because they are over-compensated for, over anticipated. Longed for. Wanted. Ached. Missed. Imagined. That imagination runs wild with something that cannot be touched, the intangible thing that a 24/7 Relationship has as an advantage over them. Of course, feel absolutely at liberty to be skeptical, but in no way, tell these people how to feel. It's not greatly fair, is it? Have a great day, Sean No, I haven't had an online relationship in less of course you count teenagers messing with people on the internet at slumber parties. One of my friends had a guy she messed with for months before getting bored with it. There is absolutely nothing anyone can tell me to make me believe an online relationship is real. It is nothing more than fantasy like playing a video game or doing role play. All a person in an online relationship has to do at the end of a day is turn off their computer and go to bed. People in real time have a real relationship that cannot just be turned off. I do not feel the emotions are more intense in an online relationship than a real life relationship. In real life relationships, there are things that are missed, wanted, and desired. That is just part of life. If you've ever had an ill partner or had any other significant life event with someone in real life; it would be something you would understand. Sure, stuff in real life doesn't evolve around kink like every description of an online relationship I have ever read, but that doesn't mean that people in real life relationships are emotion-less drones going thru life. Best wishes, slave emma Master Howard's little girl 27 Jan 12, 11:07 PM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs slave_emma wrote: SeanT70 wrote: Have you been in such a relationship to know that they're fantasy emma? With respect, unless that is the case, you'll find if you spend enough time reading (here) about various people's OL Relationships, or talking to people about how they're affected every day of their lives, how they feel is very real indeed. And who are you (or I, now - at this juncture), to tell them different? If anything, the emotions felt in an OL'r are more intense because they are over-compensated for, over anticipated. Longed for. Wanted. Ached. Missed. Imagined. That imagination runs wild with something that cannot be touched, the intangible thing that a 24/7 Relationship has as an advantage over them. Of course, feel absolutely at liberty to be skeptical, but in no way, tell these people how to feel. It's not greatly fair, is it? Have a great day, Sean No, I haven't had an online relationship in less of course you count teenagers messing with people on the internet at slumber parties. One of my friends had a guy she messed with for months before getting bored with it. There is absolutely nothing anyone can tell me to make me believe an online relationship is real. It is nothing more than fantasy like playing a video game or doing role play. All a person in an online relationship has to do at the end of a day is turn off their computer and go to bed. People in real time have a real relationship that cannot just be turned off. I do not feel the emotions are more intense in an online relationship than a real life relationship. In real life relationships, there are things that are missed, wanted, and desired. That is just part of life. If you've ever had an ill partner or had any other significant life event with someone in real life; it would be something you would understand. Sure, stuff in real life doesn't evolve around kink like every description of an online relationship I have ever read, but that doesn't mean that people in real life relationships are emotion-less drones going thru life. Best wishes, slave emma i can totally understand why you might see things this way Emma...i really can. However, sometimes it is better to open your mind to things in which you have not experienced instead of locking down in an opinion. Having lived both and online and a realtime i can assure you, it is far from a video game or just a role play. my first Master and i were considered online. We did not consider ourselves that but others would. Maybe because W/we also used the phone instead of just the computer...maybe it is because we would log in over 4000 texts a month, over 3000 hours on our cell phones..this doesnt include my phone at work or computer time. Strict and i spent more time together in our "online" relationship then alot of realtime couples i know. He and i fell deeply in love and there wasnt a moment a day that He did not know what His slut was up to or how she was feeling. Never in my life had i experienced such a "soul mate" feeling as i did with Him. Never in my life have i loved another like i loved Him. It still effects me two years later...not like an video game i have ever played... We were lucky enough to have got to finally meet and spend some days together and because of our bond online,when meeting in person it was like i had known him my entire life. Now like in all situations and dynamics it depends on the people involved. For every role player/video gamer, there are true people out there experiencing real feelings with real relationships. i am sure there are many that are laying there saying "yes Master i am ramming a dildo in my ass and thinking of You" when they are truly laying there watching tv and stuffing ding dongs down their throats...but this is true in real time as well. They can just as easily say "no Master i haven't masterbated at all while you were at work",when in truth they just got done wiping 6 orgasims off their pussies. Whether it be online or realtime it depends on what the people involved are willing to put into it..how much of themselves are they going to dedicate to making it work. As far as it being wrapped around all things erotic...i had more rules about real life in online then i do in realtime. It just depends on the mind set of the Master involved... Not everything is black and white...how boring would life be without shades of grey and without rainbows... Take care, His naughtyslave 27 Jan 12, 11:12 PM SeanT70 9 yrs In a very unusual step for me, I've chosen to walk away from this thread with immediate effect for the sake of TSR. Enjoy yourselves. Sean. 27 Jan 12, 11:27 PM Mistress_Rebekah CA, 10 mths Y! SeanT70 wrote: In a very unusual step for me, I've chosen to walk away from this thread with immediate effect for the sake of TSR. Enjoy yourselves. Sean. I would still love a "like" button... but I digress... I just have to add my 2 cents and then I'll be out like a flash too... I first met my sub online... although, at that time he wasn't my sub. We were just "friends"... we talked about anything and everything from our thoughts on marriage to politics and what the weather was like (exciting stuff, I know... lol)... I became very "fond" of him but it was not until we met in person (and with that, there were no expectations... I decided to move away from Canada to Ireland and he offered to help find me a place to live, to collect me from the airport, etc.) that I become truly fond of him. Whatever feelings I might have had for him online were nothing like what I felt in person. Online can be a great way to start... if both people are honest with themselves and each other (but online that's always a big "if")... you can learn things about one another without any of the physical stuff getting in the way... but I don't believe it is a means to an end. I don't believe an internet relationship can (or should) go on indefinitely... I, personally, believe we all need interaction with others... even over the phone and webcam there are little things we can't pick up on... I feel, online, that we miss out on all of the "good" stuff... the stuff that makes a relationship real. I know our perception can become reality and that emotions can seem very real, but I refer to my previous statement. Anyway... good luck on whatever it is that you choose to do. If you find fulfillment, purpose and happiness I suppose that's what it's about at the end of the day. Cheers, M. Rebekah Edited 27 Jan 12, 11:43 PM by Mistress_Rebekah Next page