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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "How did you meet your significant other?" 1 2 3 How did you meet your significant other? (25) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 1 Feb 12, 6:52 PM 124-154-556 US(TX), 4 mths I met my first Master by accident. I was dating his best friend when I first met him. We both thought the other was vanilla. I had never heard of BDSM before. He had hinted at this lifestyle before, but I could never coax it out of him to tell me all of the truth. Finally one night he let it slip that he had trained this girl once to be a slave. I cornered him and made him tell me what he was into. Turns out it was exactly what I have always wanted. We clicked soon after that and, even though i was dating his best friend, we talked about this every chance I got. I soon broke it off with his friend and started messing around with my "then" soon to be Master 2 Feb 12, 10:48 AM 923-655-018 UK, 4 mths Sir found me on a site called tvchix, which is a contact site for tvs/cds/etc. i appeared on a search He did one day as i am quite local to Him. We talked via email exchange for about six months about all sorts of ideas and needs. After my first visit to Him, (where nothing kinky happened), He asked me to be His. louise (923-655-018) 2 Feb 12, 10:07 PM 543-816-943 UK, 5 mths 766-003-205 wrote: i was hitchhiking to Berkeley, CA to live in the streets and be a revolutionary and help overthrow the US government.(i was 18 and it was 1972) i decided being in relationships were a distraction so i was NOT going to get involved with anyone. So, this guy Dave picked me and my BGF up and mentioned he wanted to stop at a friend's house to get him as he wanted to go to Berkeley too. i thought Dave was kind of cute and being the slut i was, forgot all about the "frivolous distraction of romance" and out the make on him. So we started chatting each other up. i really didn't plan to take it farther than that- well maybe a quick lay, but NO MORE. Viva la revolution' So we waited outside for a while and then he said his friend wasn't ready, would we come on in. We rolled our eyes, (probably a line to get us into bed) and thought well- why not? We might have a good party in there, as this friend and i had done 4-somes before. (i am NOT kidding i was one big slut- it still lingers LOL) We went inside the dark house. Indian blankets all over the ceiling and walls- very "in" in those days. i could not see the friend in the dark very well just an outline. He stood up and spoke. He was very tall, and had the deepest voice i think i'd ever heard. i got up from where i was sitting by Dave, dropped the poor guy like a hot rock and walked over and sat down next to Richard. The rest is history. He was 30. We have been together 39+ years. Many ups and downs. We started off in a VERY TPE relationship- we had no idea what it was or that we were doing it. He controlled literally everything. i was never alone, He even went into the Dr's with me, He controlled every aspect of everything. i did argue sometimes, but He usually won. (Well, except i refused to accept the circular universe, i said and still say it is spiral shaped) Then He had some head injury issues and i learned to manage it all. Did for about 15 years. Worked jobs that also demanded i become more aggressive- though i noticed even now people sense that i am "easy". Grrrr LOL. But- about 1 year ago i realized i wasn't me. i was not comfortable being dominant and it was very stressful and disconcerting to me. Also VERY asexual. i can not be Dominant AND sexual at the same time. You know what THAT meant. nada. There were many factors including social pressures, politics etc we had muddying things. We had changed a lot through necessity but neither of us liked it. i figured it out first and did some research did online for a while with a Master who was totally aware i was "testing" and training. He was a wonderful guy and let me go when i asked when it was time and Master Richard agreed to Master me. No problems with it. Although i have been formally collared since last May-2011, we are going to have a collaring ceremony anniversary for our friends AND another 24/7 collar that will be locked on with pliers. i am probably going to design it myself with his input (i make jewelry)as we can't find a suitable stealth one that also locks on and not noticeable by a savvy vanilla. That's my story and i'm sticking to it. LOl Now you should be good and sleepy congrats....enjoyed reading it i totally agree it is so hard being dominant and sexual at the same time!! ;* 4 Feb 12, 12:01 AM 000-772-096 US, 7 yrs 000-734-445 wrote: Prolixitys_Saphira wrote: "I wanted to see the universe, so I stole a Time Lord and I ran away. And [he was] the only one mad enough." *laughs* Love you SO HARD for this! I love you both so hard for this! I'm guessing he always takes you where you need to go In the summer of 1999 when my ex and former owner decided he no longer wanted the responsibility of a slave, a wife or children he sent me forth to find a new owner. I ventured onto the internet to have the widest possible range of new people to meet. I met Master on IRC (either dal.net, aust.net or bondage.net - I don't recall where first) in various chat rooms. He was in need of a slave and I was in need of an owner. Arrangements were made to transfer me to him. We lived 1000 miles apart so he came and sampled my serving, cooking and sexual abilities then took me home with him. I use the terms Master(male) & slave(female) because that is who we are. Insert all possible disclaimers - my thoughts, my opinions, my experiences, my words. Your mileage should vary. I'm one of "those people." Above all - I believe in Master. I find it's hard to stumble when you are on your knees. 7 Feb 12, 8:15 AM Be_loved US(AR), 23 mths Daakshi_Pet wrote: How did you meet your significant other? I'm just curious and I can't fall asleep tonight, so I thought I'd pose the question. My story is that Tamuru and I lived in the same townhouse block as kids and I used to pick on him. We lost touch for a long time, and then we met again in high school. What about you? Master and I met in a sociopolitical forum. We first became friends because at the time we first met, he was ending a relationship and I was in the middle of a bad one myself. We were very good friends for 2 years before anything flourished between us, and what first interested us in each other was the idea of dominance and submission we both shared. "Everything that Is and Was will cease to Be."- Old Irish Proverb