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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "new to this website and needing advice" new to this website and needing advice (8) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Wed 25 Jan 12, 7:56 PM shawn_roach US(KY), 5 mths Y! Well iam new to being a master and would like to thank tsr for being here for people of our life style and would really be open to ideas from the other masters and even the slaves. 25 Jan 12, 8:45 PM Pet_Girl US, 14 mths First of all, welcome Second, what kind of ideas are you looking for? One thing we here are never short on is ideas so it's best to narrow your question a bit or else no one will know what direction to go with their ideas so they'll either go all over the place or nowhere. 26 Jan 12, 1:56 AM ChaosxSeduction US(CA), 2 yrs Y! There is plenty out there for submissives to learn from( I.E submissive guide), but what is out their for Dom/Domms? If you need any advice, tips, or tricks you are more then welcome to message us with questions. My Master has 11 years in the lifestyle, and lots of experience in training, and caring for a slave/submissive. shawn_roach wrote: new to this website and needing advice Well iam new to being a master and would like to thank tsr for being here for people of our life style and would really be open to ideas from the other masters and even the slaves. 26 Jan 12, 2:33 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs Welcome to TSR. There are many older threads accessible through the search feature that will have plenty of ideas, or as others mentioned, ask. Some advise I give to those new to this life, whether Dominant or submissive, is to read, read and read some more. There are great resources both online and in books. Find a local group and attend their munches and talk to other D/O/M,s, discuss and ask your questions. You may find a mentor at one of these casual get togethers. Tanos has some very good info and articles through his sites and there is a book link at the bottom left of the page. There is some good info on the following site as well. As I said above, there are many great resources out there but I have this one bookmarked on this particular pc. http://www.seekers.org.uk/dom.htm All the best to you. Disclaimer: My thoughts and writing style may differ from yours. I take no responsibility for your perception. Read at your own risk. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown 26 Jan 12, 6:20 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs Welcome to the site. You've kind of asked a very ambiguous question there, it's kind of like saying 'what are your ideas on science?' As others have said there's plenty to read out there, a good jumping off point would be to have a browse through the menu bar on the left. Tanos (the owner of the site) as posted up some very interesting articles and the site Wiki gives some great definitions. If after reading through all that's recommended ask away any questions that you have. You're going to get lots of varied answers to your questions and things can get excitable on here, just read through the posts, take what you need and leave the rest...as my old man would say. My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! 28 Jan 12, 10:37 PM mastersgirl3 US, 5 mths Welcome! happy to hear there is a new Master searching for ideas and help. Here are a few websites you might find helpful. http://www.freewebs.com/silvertrainingmanual/ http://www.submissiveloving.com/101things.html http://bestslavetraining.com/TrainingTech.htm 29 Jan 12, 4:24 AM shawn_roach US(KY), 5 mths Y! One of the main questions i have is has any of you as masters felt like you may be pushing it to far onto your slaves. There has been a few times that i have felt like i may be over doing it with my #1 pet that is also my wife. How do you know for sure if you are? 29 Jan 12, 9:58 AM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs shawn_roach wrote: One of the main questions i have is has any of you as masters felt like you may be pushing it to far onto your slaves. There has been a few times that i have felt like i may be over doing it with my #1 pet that is also my wife. How do you know for sure if you are? ask her....talk about everything afterwards and before..making sure she is completely open. Take care, His naughtyslave 29 Jan 12, 10:07 AM ChaosxSeduction US(CA), 2 yrs Y! Communication is everything. Talk to her, learn her limits, if she feels comfortable try to push them a little. A slave can feel overwhelmed a lot of the time. A simple "I love you, you are doing a wonderful job and are a good girl." Can mean the world to a over worked or over whelmed slave or submissive. shawn_roach wrote: One of the main questions i have is has any of you as masters felt like you may be pushing it to far onto your slaves. There has been a few times that i have felt like i may be over doing it with my #1 pet that is also my wife. How do you know for sure if you are?