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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Do owners/masters get punished??" 1 2 3 Do owners/masters get punished?? (24) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 27 Jan 12, 8:44 PM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs naughtyslave wrote: i think it would depend on what you mean by punishment....i would not walk in and tell Him lay across the bed...it's time to pay for your mistakes. That would be quite funny to see the expression on His face though.. But...would you consider a cooling off from a slave punishment so to speak? What i mean is..when a slave feels unhappy with something, the actions of the slave reflect it. Such as the stary eyed look goes missing for a bit. The slave will most likely still perform it's duties but not with the same mind set. Kind of like how a Master will show ignorance to an over needy, non listening slave. i do believe the same "cold shoulder" from the slave could be viewed as a sort of punishment to the Master. Now before everyone loads their shot guns..i don't mean the slave is topping from the bottom. i am talking about simple human nature. it would be natural for a slave to work silently doing her service if she was upset and less lovey towards her Master... It reminds me of fishing actually...He does something and she drifts out a bit..He steps it up and she comes towards the shore again. None of which is intentional...just life.Trick i guess would be do not put to much tension on the line from either side or it will snap with the end result being her swimming up stream and free again. ***stepping away to grab bullet proof vest*** I'll come fishing with you anytime naughty and you'll only need a life vest when with me..( from all the shooters, don't wanna drown, ) I like your analogy to fishing and I also like your comment ...just life. One of the replies mentioned that a slave should have no expectation of their Master being perfect...or words to that end.... But, yup there's that word, while Masters are not perfect, either are slaves, subs, pets, property or whatever other word you want to use. We are all human and as such feelings can get hurt, emotions can run over and that too is ... Just life. Good communication can make this easier but it does happen and I think in the real world that should be expected by both sides of the equation otherwise they are not being honest with themselves. After all we are not clones or robots are we? So I do Agree with what you said naughty and while no, D/O/M's do not get punished in the sense an s type may, they could conceivably be punished in other ways as well as by themselves. Have a great day. ( naughty I may have to join you and we might need a boat) Ps please excuse any errors as I sent this from my phone. Disclaimer: My thoughts and writing style may differ from yours. I take no responsibility for your perception. Read at your own risk. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown 27 Jan 12, 9:14 PM 000-734-445 US(DE), 8 yrs We recently had an issue. I wrote down everything that bothered me about it and why. He listened to me without interruption and took everything into consideration. He apologized. We're fine now. Communication is key in -any- relationship. I've been in relationships where I was expected to be a doormat and to never question anything. They inevitably fail. I use capital letters as they are meant to be used in proper grammar. No disrespect is intended or meant. 28 Jan 12, 10:26 PM mastersgirl3 US, 5 mths his_girl1438 wrote: Do owners/masters get punished?? I apologize head of time if I offend anyone with my question. I am merely trying to understand how others feel about this. My question is: Do owners/master every get punished for being "less than perfect"? If your owner does something that upsets you or you don't agree with how do you handle it? I would like to hear from both sides how you handle this situation in your relationships. Thank you everyone!!! Best Wishes, His_girl hum, no my Master does not get punished and when he has done wrong i have been silenced. i find it better to leave him alone for a while and then we talk, but that is the best i can do... oh and i can only talk as long as he is not bothered by it. 28 Jan 12, 10:29 PM mastersgirl3 US, 5 mths Dagobert wrote: This is an interesting question and my answer to it --based on my experience-- is "kind of". If I am a complete asshole, which believe it or not happens from time to time , Adela can easily "punish" me by ignoring it and being sickly nice to me. The end result is that I feel like even more of an asshole and it usually auto-corrects my behavior. Most of the time when people act out they are desperately seeking a negative reaction. When none is forthcoming it tends to short-circuit them. You make a good point. i do feel my Master auto corrects too based on my behavior.