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TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Rape in a M/S relationship?"
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Rape in a M/S relationship? (63)

This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board.

14 Jan 12, 3:13 AM
411-447-262
US(WA), 6 mths

Now, maybe this girl is a little off or more than usually kinky. I have been raped more than once. It did not turn me on. However I really want Master to roofie me and record it. All completely with my handwritten and video consent. I love play and even more violent than play rape. But this is all done with my Master, whom I trust.

just this girls two cents.

Slave Lilly

http://411-447-262.blogspot.com/

14 Jan 12, 6:08 PM
subjan1962
UK, 2 yrs
i chose to give my body to my Master 100% so in our relationship there is no such thing as rape.

i am His to be taken by Him or anyone else he chooses whenever He chooses, He owns me!

Tortured by pleasure, Pleasured by pain, liberated by enslavement.

16 Jan 12, 3:45 AM
chelle_Moon
US(CA), 3 yrs
This girl would love it from her Master. This girl trust her Master fully and where it would be rape it would not be because of the trust. The best thing that would make it the best would be just to come up and force her and not let her know what you are doing and see how she acts. Then tell her after it happens and if she likes it then do it from time to time as a new thing in Your and her relationship. chelle
22 Jan 12, 11:35 AM
741-757-000
GR, 7 mths
As a rape in an M/s relationship I would define the sexual act that happens unexpectedly, in a painful way and just for the relieve of the Master - I didn't mention "joy", deliberately. I cannot think of a slave unwilling to participate to sex with her Master, except if she is seriously ill, but I can think of one unprepared and dry, although in theory and sometimes in practise these things do not happen.

If this is the case, then from my point of view a rape of the slave in a M/s relationship is humiliation plus a certain amount of abuse and I have nothing against it, if the afterplay is o.k. and the slave feels well again because of the afterplay.

However, it seems to me a sensitive issue because a slave may feel that what is attacked is the core of her femininity and if she feels this way she may have difficulty to accept what has happened to her.

A lot of S/M games are elegant and have a beauty and a symmetry of their own. The slave feels honored that she was able to give herself to be part of them. She can enjoy the aesthetics of it, part of which is her pain itself.

I don't think that the same is true for a rape, but this is my personal taste and understanding of the issue.

Had it been the case, I would have accepted it once or twice in an M/s relationship, but no more.

26 Jan 12, 10:43 AM
Hawklord
UK, 6 yrs

741-757-000 wrote:
As a rape in an M/s relationship I would define the sexual act that happens unexpectedly, in a painful way and just for the relieve of the Master - I didn't mention "joy", deliberately. I cannot think of a slave unwilling to participate to sex with her Master, except if she is seriously ill, but I can think of one unprepared and dry,

As an experiment I had my no.1 in my bed this morning, pleasuring me, then I brought no.2 in and immediately used her without warning. She was unprepared and dry but took her position and did her duty as a good slave. The simulation failed. I don't believe rape is possible in M/s O/p.

Sic volo. sic jubeo. stat pro ratione voluntas

26 Jan 12, 11:20 AM
rahularrora
IN, 4 mths
Y!*
Well i am with sir Don opinion because a slave will only follow the the path of the mistress or master so if the master or mistress need at sometime and the slaves say no then that slave has no right to say no because slave has gives his or her soul and body to his mistress or master so it is not a rape if the slaves say no at that time the master or mistress has full right what to do at that time with a slave.

i am also a slave but till now i am not owned by mistress or master still i will give my whole life to them if they owned me.

4 Feb 12, 4:59 PM
subjan1962
UK, 2 yrs
There can be no such thing as rape in an M/s, O&P relationship. As a submisive or slave you give yourself completely to your Owner and as your Owner they can do as they wish. i have given myself to my Master, i get pleasure from His pleasure, He can take me whenever He wishes and as He also gets pleasure from seeing me used by other men then i will submit willingly.

Tortured by pleasure, Pleasured by pain, liberated by enslavement.

5 Feb 12, 11:00 AM
LordandMaster55
US(OH), 2 yrs
Y!*
Hawklord wrote:
741-757-000 wrote:
As a rape in an M/s relationship I would define the sexual act that happens unexpectedly, in a painful way and just for the relieve of the Master - I didn't mention "joy", deliberately. I cannot think of a slave unwilling to participate to sex with her Master, except if she is seriously ill, but I can think of one unprepared and dry,

As an experiment I had my no.1 in my bed this morning, pleasuring me, then I brought no.2 in and immediately used her without warning. She was unprepared and dry but took her position and did her duty as a good slave. The simulation failed. I don't believe rape is possible in M/s O/p.

While a true rape of the willing (slave) is not possible, it is possible to get the effect by instructing the slave to resist. The level of resistance can be varied. (saying 'no' and pushing you away like date might when unsure if she want to have sex but submitting with just a little 'convincing') to full resistance (maybe even offer her a reward if she can hold you off for x# of minutes).

I think the reason your simulation failed is she knows her duty is to submit, tell her to resist

5 Feb 12, 9:00 PM
Delirium
US(TX), 2 yrs
My Master has raped me on several occasions.

Usually when I have really upset him. Since I am his property, he has every right to use me against my will.

It's a really good motivator for me not to piss him off.

It is interesting to read other people's thoughts on this matter.

6 Feb 12, 11:26 AM
Tanos*
UK, 14 yrs
Y!*
As said on a previous thread, I think you can argue this three ways:
  • Sex is never rape in M/s because the slave has consented to sexual use when they agreed to be made a slave.
  • Sex is always rape in M/s because the slave can no longer give meaningful consent, due to the coercive environment that the owner maintains.
  • Sex is sometimes rape, sometimes not in M/s relationships, depending on what the slave feels at the time.

On the question of whether owners should insist on sex or even obtain it by force when the slave doesn't feel like it, then I would say that is part of the general rights over the slave's body which an owner has. There are very very few situations in which someone is so ill that sex is going to permanently harm them, and part of being owned is that the ultimate judgements about that are made by owners. Furthermore, I would say that repeated experiences of slaves saying "no, I just can't do it" but then finding that when forced to, yes, actually they can and their owner is right, is very helpful in building and maintaining enslavement.

:T:

www.tanos.org.uk

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