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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Could you pass an obedience test?" 1 2 3 4 Could you pass an obedience test? (33) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 25 Nov 11, 10:31 PM 822-492-813 US(KY), 17 mths pet_ka_MJ wrote: Could you pass an obedience test? FIRST TEST: Do you ask for reasons when your request is turned down? SECOND TEST: Do you stop what you are doing when given instructions? - Yes, unless stopping would cause some type of physical hazard. THIRD TEST: Do you smile when you are told to do something? - Most times. I agree with slave_emma here. I am human and not always smiling. FOURTH TEST: Do you ever give reasons why you cannot do a job? - No. FIFTH TEST: Have you ever had to be reminded to do little tasks? - In the begining as I have ADD, but I have learned to manage my condition better with lists and memory tricks. SIXTH TEST: Do you ever have to re-do a job you did the wrong way? - No. I am a Virgo and perfection is a deep drive. I have actually been stopped in tasks that I took too much time on trying to get that last 0.001 % SEVENTH TEST: Do you ever think that a job is "stupid?" - No. If Mistress wants it there must be a reason. EIGHTH TEST: Do you ever seek another "authority" after your Master said, "No?" - NO! In my mind this would be disrespectful. NINTH TEST: Do you ever plan another activity while finishing your tasks? - Always. ADD again Split focus is a way of life. [like going over shopping list in head while doing dishes] TENTH TEST: Do you obey whatever you are told to do? - Yes. This took time and working through trust issues. Releasing myself to her total control is what it is all about for me though. Peace 822-492-813 25 Nov 11, 10:33 PM 822-492-813 US(KY), 17 mths OMG ! that is so funny. I guess I do screw up tasks. Missing answer to Q#1 No I never ask why Mistress denies a request. embarassed property 822-492-813 2 Dec 11, 6:06 PM Masters_dirty_slut UK, 10 mths FIRST TEST: Do you ask for reasons when your request is turned down? YEP SECOND TEST: Do you stop what you are doing when given instructions? SOMETIMES THIRD TEST: Do you smile when you are told to do something? SOMETIMES FOURTH TEST: Do you ever give reasons why you cannot do a job? I TRY FIFTH TEST: Have you ever had to be reminded to do little tasks? ALL THE TIME SIXTH TEST: Do you ever have to re-do a job you did the wrong way? ONCE SEVENTH TEST: Do you ever think that a job is "stupid?" MOST OF THE TIME EIGHTH TEST: Do you ever seek another "authority" after your Master said, "No?" NO NINTH TEST: Do you ever plan another activity while finishing your tasks? YES TENTH TEST: Do you obey whatever you are told to do? NOT ALL THE TIME 2 Dec 11, 10:37 PM mistressK CA, 16 mths If I may. . .and this might explain why I could never have the strength to submit, incidentally: FIRST TEST: Do you ask for reasons when your request is turned down? YES SECOND TEST: Do you stop what you are doing when given instructions? NOT IF I DON"T HAVE TO THIRD TEST: Do you smile when you are told to do something? NO FOURTH TEST: Do you ever give reasons why you cannot do a job? YES. OR SHOULD I ADMIT, ROUTINELY? FIFTH TEST: Have you ever had to be reminded to do little tasks? NOT OFTEN, BUT I KEEP LISTS. SIXTH TEST: Do you ever have to re-do a job you did the wrong way? YES. SEVENTH TEST: Do you ever think that a job is "stupid?" ABOUT 90% OF THINGS I AM SUPPOSED TO DO IN LIFE ARE STUPID. EIGHTH TEST: Do you ever seek another "authority" after your Master said, "No?" OH YEAH. I"D GO TO THE QUEEN IF IT"D HELP MY CASE. NINTH TEST: Do you ever plan another activity while finishing your tasks? YES. TENTH TEST: Do you obey whatever you are told to do? NO. - K ------------------- "I guess it comes down to a simple choice, really. Get busy living or get busy dying." (Shawshank Redemption) Seeking single gay/straight male or slave couple for 24/7 O&P adventure of a lifetime. 15 Dec 11, 1:09 PM 998-978-777 US(TN), 23 mths Y! pet_ka_MJ wrote: Could you pass an obedience test? Many slaves on TSR, myself included, have said that obedience is their sole duty to their Master. Yet, there are probably as many definitions and/or interpretations of obedience as there are slaves due to the needs and requirements within individual M/s dynamics. I would also venture to guess that there are just as many ways to measure obedience within individual dynamics as well. I make this observation based on a recent discussion I had with several slave friends. While we could agree in general terms on a definition of obedience, we did not agree (and quite heatedly so) on specifics. When the discussion ventured toward how to measure or test obedience we again found there was broad disagreement, but we were able to agree generally to the following measurement/test. It was discovered that we were all on a continuum of obedience and that being obedient was not as cut and dried as we first anticipated. For those that might be interested in the discussion, I have provided our "obedience test" below. How does your understanding of obedience fit with the following "test"? Which question(s) give you the most trouble? Why? Are there times when there are exceptions? FIRST TEST: Do you ask for reasons when your request is turned down? SECOND TEST: Do you stop what you are doing when given instructions? THIRD TEST: Do you smile when you are told to do something? FOURTH TEST: Do you ever give reasons why you cannot do a job? FIFTH TEST: Have you ever had to be reminded to do little tasks? SIXTH TEST: Do you ever have to re-do a job you did the wrong way? SEVENTH TEST: Do you ever think that a job is "stupid?" EIGHTH TEST: Do you ever seek another "authority" after your Master said, "No?" NINTH TEST: Do you ever plan another activity while finishing your tasks? TENTH TEST: Do you obey whatever you are told to do? Our group agreed that there were no right or wrong answers to any of the questions as they would be highly dependent on the individual dynamics. We, therefore, tasked each other to discuss our "findings" with our Masters. FIRST TEST: Do you ask for reasons when your request is turned down? Not usually, but Master has ordered that if there is even an inkling of question in my head that I am to express it. This is due largely to the fact that all my life I have been told to shut up and do as told and so I have troubles expressing myself through speech. SECOND TEST: Do you stop what you are doing when given instructions? Unless what I am doing is for my child yes, because Master has ordered that this is so. THIRD TEST: Do you smile when you are told to do something? YES! FOURTH TEST: Do you ever give reasons why you cannot do a job? if there is a valid physical reason why I can not. Such as if told to use a tool I do not have. FIFTH TEST: Have you ever had to be reminded to do little tasks? yes frequently, this is my single biggest failing to my Master. My hardest bit of obedience is telling him my feelings. I am so used to bottling them up I have a hard time expressing them SIXTH TEST: Do you ever have to re-do a job you did the wrong way? Occasionally SEVENTH TEST: Do you ever think that a job is "stupid?" no, I realize that there is a reason for EVERY task given me by my Master EIGHTH TEST: Do you ever seek another "authority" after your Master said, "No?" Never NINTH TEST: Do you ever plan another activity while finishing your tasks? Only if I have a list of tasks TENTH TEST: Do you obey whatever you are told to do? yes, to the best of my ability....discounting plain old human failure Master Sol's beast. He is my guiding light, the inspiration for my breaths and all the moments that take my breath away. I love you my Master, may your beast never leave your side! 15 Dec 11, 5:41 PM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs mistressK wrote: If I may. . .and this might explain why I could never have the strength to submit, incidentally: FIRST TEST: Do you ask for reasons when your request is turned down? YES SECOND TEST: Do you stop what you are doing when given instructions? NOT IF I DON"T HAVE TO THIRD TEST: Do you smile when you are told to do something? NO FOURTH TEST: Do you ever give reasons why you cannot do a job? YES. OR SHOULD I ADMIT, ROUTINELY? FIFTH TEST: Have you ever had to be reminded to do little tasks? NOT OFTEN, BUT I KEEP LISTS. SIXTH TEST: Do you ever have to re-do a job you did the wrong way? YES. SEVENTH TEST: Do you ever think that a job is "stupid?" ABOUT 90% OF THINGS I AM SUPPOSED TO DO IN LIFE ARE STUPID. EIGHTH TEST: Do you ever seek another "authority" after your Master said, "No?" OH YEAH. I"D GO TO THE QUEEN IF IT"D HELP MY CASE. NINTH TEST: Do you ever plan another activity while finishing your tasks? YES. TENTH TEST: Do you obey whatever you are told to do? NO. - K Mistress K...Your killing me..You are so freakin funny! The 8th test made me spit coffee... Take care, His naughtyslave 15 Dec 11, 8:55 PM 444-596-593 US(PA), 16 mths Y! My'an Owner wishes me to respond. She knows where I was trained and the differences between obedience (do what a Free Person says) submission (do it quickly, especially if Her beast disagrees) and training (learn what They want, beg to serve that way. She knows when I duck my head and say "Yes, Mistress" I don't want to, but my discipline overrides my wishes. My submission tells Her I know and Obey. I was sub first, because They all knew I was untrained. Mistress is very indulgent of Her beast's ignorance, and it isn't disobedience. I've been tamed and although I have some spirit to amuse Her that I obey, I'm not willful. Thanks for bothering to read. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me! 16 Dec 11, 7:24 AM MasterMetal US(GA), 19 mths I think this thread is really funny, but at the same time it made me realize that I never really had any completely obedient slaves. Seeing how most of the women I seem to attract are new to this whole thing I spend the majority of my time training them... This means that they almost always question me for starters (which is annoying) hesitate a lot! I don't really care about the whole smiling thing, if it shows that they're happy to do a task for me that's great. If they can't do a task that's no problem, but if they won't do a task (like some in the past I've known have fought with me for no reason about it) that is an issue. Jeez... I don't really know what else to say about the subject lol. I don't think I'm too hard a Master. As a Master I must ensure my slave is protected, cared for and train them to the best of my ability. As my slave you must submit completely to my will and forever be mine. 17 Dec 11, 1:13 PM 741-498-880 4 yrs FIRST TEST: Do you ask for reasons when your request is turned down? yes. SECOND TEST: Do you stop what you are doing when given instructions? sometimes.... if he makes me or I can't listen to what he's saying while i'm doing whatever else it is i'm doing. THIRD TEST: Do you smile when you are told to do something? uhm... depends on what it is. FOURTH TEST: Do you ever give reasons why you cannot do a job? yes. LOL sometimes there are things that he should be aware of, like a sick baby, or whatever else so he can make informed decisions when it comes to our life... I make sure he has that information. FIFTH TEST: Have you ever had to be reminded to do little tasks? yes... i'm easily distracted. LOL SIXTH TEST: Do you ever have to re-do a job you did the wrong way? erm... no. SEVENTH TEST: Do you ever think that a job is "stupid?" yes. LOL EIGHTH TEST: Do you ever seek another "authority" after your Master said, "No?" not applicable.... ;o unless the cat counts. NINTH TEST: Do you ever plan another activity while finishing your tasks? erm not sure how to answer this question - do you mean do I make decisions? when he's not home and I finished his list, I make all sorts of "decisions" and plan activities to amuse or entertain myself until he gets home from work.... LOL If he's home, I ask first if it's okay with him since it affects him for me to do most of the things I like, like reading a book, taking a bath, playing video games, etc. TENTH TEST: Do you obey whatever you are told to do? Nope... I'm stubborn and sometimes I pout.... but he cares more about being in control than he does if I look like a perfectly obedient slave... I tend to end up doing everything he wants, when he wants, how he wants... it's just sometimes the getting there is a little rougher than the average Master might prefer. 19 Dec 11, 2:57 AM mischievousslave US(OR), 14 mths Y! If it's my owner asking ANY of the above he gets instant compliance -- period! If my owner instructs me to grant the same to another then they too shall get instant compliance. If it is left in my hands, being the analytical bitch that I am I question everything :P I am after all a published author of bdsm erotica novels, thus I question everything :P Next page