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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Introduction" Introduction (7) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Mon 10 Oct 11, 7:15 PM 943-469-442 US, 8 mths i've been lurking for a while and just wanted to say hello and introduce myself. i've learned so much from this site. Thank You to everyone for Your insightful posts. i am grateful to be Master BennKar's kajira. We were lovers in college almost 30 years ago, but were too shy back then to reveal our non-vanilla desires. Jobs and moves and marriages separated us. Eventually Master searched for me, the timing was right, we were reunited, and life has never been sweeter. This time we were honest about what we both wanted. In finding Him again, i feel as though i have found myself. He is so intelligent and handsome, and exerts the most exquisite, subtle, yet powerful control over me. i love wearing His collar and serving and pleasing Him. He lives 3 hours away, and we see each other as often as possible. i hope to move into Master's castle sometime in the next year or two. He recently told me He wants me to wear His collar forever, which made me the happiest slut in the world! 10 Oct 11, 7:59 PM rhuafox CA, 19 mths Welcome to the sandbox! Most here play well together, occasional hissy fits and sand flinging, but a really great community. rhua rhuafox 11 Oct 11, 7:34 AM sassybutt UK, 4 yrs Hello, Welcome! Jump in with both feet and slide on in. Minoangirl~slave to MasterDX12 11 Oct 11, 12:14 PM 943-469-442 US, 8 mths Thanks Rhua! How are your nipples doing? Master has decided to have my nipples pierced, and i am excited about that, but neither of us know much about it, so he He told me to research it. We both like the look of rings, but don't know if there are pros and cons to rings vs. bars. Also need to find a good piercer. Yours look great! Edited 11 Oct 11, 12:15 PM by 943-469-442 11 Oct 11, 3:43 PM slaveboy_Alpha CA, 7 mths I have many piercings, so I can maybe help with that. When getting a new piercing, unless it is something like a sub dermal, I always recommend rings first. Once the piercing is healed, you can change it to bars if you prefer. The reason why I recommend rings is because while you are healing, keeping the piercings clean will be a major factor in how well and how fast you heal. Rings can be moved inside the whole a lot more than bars so when you are in the shower, you can move them around so that no yuk stays stuck inside. Apart from that, in the case of nipple piercings, it is really just a matter or preferences. I have both in my jewelry box, but Madame prefers the rings because she clips a split leash on them. If you tend to wear tight clothing and often go without a bra, the bars will be much more discreet. I can understand some apprehension if you are not used to piercing, even I still get a bit nervous before a new one. (I have one coming up oct.17) A few tips, make sure you eat well before you go, and drink plenty of water. It will make it easier for your body to deal with the shock. Don't drink alcohol, it will make you bleed more. It is perfectly okay to visit a piercer before you decide to use him. Look around how clean the place is. Don't hesitate to ask to see his equipment. Don't just book a time slot without having met the actual guy (or girl) who will be piercing you. Hint: lots of fancy and intricate tattoos are actually a GOOD sign. People with sleeves full of art are usually very conscientious about needles. In perfect love and perfect trust, Alpha 12 Oct 11, 1:47 AM 943-469-442 US, 8 mths Thank You Alpha, for your great advice! These will be my only piercings. Had my ears done many years ago, but let the holes close up. i think Master is looking forward to the extra fun he can have with them after they are pierced, whether it's decorating them with bells or other accessories, or torturing them a bit, or hooking a leash on them. Your split leash sounds nice. i'm hoping they will be more sensitive afterward, because they lost some feeling after several years of breastfeeding. i do wonder how noticeable they will be. i always wear a bra out of the house, as i am very full-chested. i work in a very conservative job, so i still want to be discreet. Will they set off the metal detectors in an airport? i am very allergic to nickel, so i need to make sure the rings don't contain that. After the piercing, Master has plans to have his mark tattooed on me, which would also be a first for me. He is in no rush though, and is taking some things slowly, as our journey together unfolds. He'll probably do the piercings in 2012. 12 Oct 11, 3:29 AM Celeste US, 3 yrs I've been pierced for a little over 3 years. The piercing was fast and really didn't hurt much - the thought of it was worse than the actual piercing. It took considerable aftercare to make sure they didn't get infected, but after about 6 months they were good to go. Playing with them can make them hurt, when Master bites them they REALLY hurt. He has me wear a nipple chain 24/7 and I'm pretty busty. But with a good quality bra with a bit of padding everything stays nicely concealed. Good luck. =) Wife of Blackhorse (new to TSR) 12 Oct 11, 3:41 PM slaveboy_Alpha CA, 7 mths 943-469-442 wrote: Your split leash sounds nice. Madame made mine for me (she is a jeweler after all) but you can find some at higher end pet shops. They are meant to walk 2 puppies at the same time (ha! puppies, get it) ... 943-469-442 wrote: i'm hoping they will be more sensitive afterward, because they lost some feeling after several years of breastfeeding. Well, of course I know nothing about the effects of breast feeding, but you should be aware that there are just about as many people who LOOSE some sensitivity as there are who gain some. And there are a bunch of other people who are just not affected. 943-469-442 wrote: Will they set off the metal detectors in an airport? i am very allergic to nickel, so i need to make sure the rings don't contain that. Proper piercing jewelry from a respectable piercer will be surgical steel. Surgical steel was invented for surgery, so no risk there. And no, they should not be setting off metal detectors. Still, take note of the airport laws. If ever they were to set off, you have 2 choices, take them off or just show them to an officer of your gender. (by the way, the first choice is usually not a good idea) I have taken planes many time and carry a lot of steel in me, and I have never set a detector off. 943-469-442 wrote: After the piercing, Master has plans to have his mark tattooed on me, which would also be a first for me. He is in no rush though, and is taking some things slowly, as our journey together unfolds. He'll probably do the piercings in 2012. The marks given to us by our Owners are wonderful things,(I cherish mine in the form of deep scars across my back) just make sure that when you reach that point you truly are ready for it. Piercings are wonderful in that, they can be removed and all but the extremely stretched holes will eventually close. Tattoo laser removal only works for small tattoos. I am sure plenty here can give you advice and info on tattoos so I will keep my expertise to piercings In perfect love and perfect trust, Alpha