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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Creative and Original Humiliation" 1 2 Creative and Original Humiliation (14) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sat 17 Sep 11, 11:39 PM Lady_Lygo CA, 8 mths Hello! I've just found out this board existed and it seemed to me like an ideal place to get some feedback on the various issues I occasionally encounter with my property. I wasn't sure if I should answer to other threads before posting my own, but I figure it might be better to ask for opinions first than throw mine around at people who have no idea who I am.. So, I currently own 3 slaves; Alpha, baby and bitch. My relationship with at least 2 of them relies heavily on humiliation. However, both my husband and I have the potential to be recognizable public figures in mainstream society (not famous in anyway, just possibly recognizable), and therefore, we cannot risk being seen at lifestyle events. This means that I can only display and humiliate my slaves in public within extremely private and small groups. I was hoping someone around here might have some creative and original ideas for humiliation tactics that do not involve a risk of me being spotted as an Owner in public. I'm looking forward to getting to know people around here, though I admit I am nervous about doing something that is frowned upon. I can be quite wordy if I'm trying to express something very specific. Also, is it appropriate to ask multiple unrelated questions in the same post, or should I start separate threads for them? Thank you Lady Lygophiliac Lady Lygophiliac, Just Lady or Lygo for friends and equals, or "Madame" for slaves... Edited Sat 17 Sep 11, 11:42 PM by Lady_Lygo 18 Sep 11, 12:40 AM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs Welcome Lady Lygo, i really havent any ideas for humiliation but am giving it some thought as i enjoy writing punishments ideas...ALOT! However, i did want to say hello As far as the posts and questions...Doesn't matter how You do it...people will still answer... Again welcome to tsr take care His naughtyslave 18 Sep 11, 8:53 AM Master_IanNZ NZ, 2 yrs I find some simple things to be good humiliation (but obviously that depends on situation); * having slave accompany me out to a cafe/restaurant in skimpy dress, while having a used condom placed in slave's mouth - and then being made to order food for their Master (with condom in mouth). * always making decisions about what slave will eat (if they happen to be with me while out) and making slave earn their food by performing a task. * having slave open and close the car door for Master all the time, this can be quite humiliating for some * fitting slave with a butt plug and making them run through the supermarket to get groceries for Master (while holding the butt plug in)... I sometimes watch from a distance, quite entertaining! It's about thinking a bit laterally, and finding things that will humiliate slave (a 'mind' thing) without crossing that line of being overtly public. Let us know how you get on. Master Ian NZ 18 Sep 11, 1:42 PM Mistress_Dea UK, 3 yrs You don't say what gender your slaves are and that makes it more difficult to know what may be humiliating for them. 18 Sep 11, 2:23 PM Hawklord UK, 6 yrs Lady_Lygo wrote: Creative and Original Humiliation I was hoping someone around here might have some creative and original ideas for humiliation tactics that do not involve a risk of me being spotted as an Owner in public. Hi Lady_Lygo I see the problem. Whatever you do can only be minor but clearly needs to be hidden. I am assuming your slaves are girls, I don't know why. You also don't say if you go out and about with all of them at once or leave some at home. All the obvious things are excluded. As a Master of 2 girls I have a similar problem depending on the location, for example I have to be careful in my small market town. But I have some hidden protocols. In a restaurant or cafe my girls may not sit until indicated by me. If observed I think it is seen as a quaint respect. When sent to shop by themselves, upon meeting up again they stand head bowed and palms forward. Not much of a humiliation and may even be too much for you. One idea I have might be to create some humiliation while not in your presense. For example you could tell her to stand still in one place, hands on her head while you go elsewhere. Naughty: I don't think LL is looking for punishment, rather humiliation in public that serves to reinforce the slavery. Master IanNZ: yes your ideas are in the right direction I think. It's a hard one, and one I should have some answers to but I will do some thinking.... Edit: I just saw that at least one of your properties is male but I think the approach is the same. Sic volo. sic jubeo. stat pro ratione voluntas Edited 18 Sep 11, 2:31 PM by Hawklord 18 Sep 11, 2:53 PM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs [/quote] Naughty: I don't think LL is looking for punishment, rather humiliation in public that serves to reinforce the slavery. [/quote] Yes Sir, that is why my mind is blank... @Master Ian, i am so glad You posted. It made me smile thinking damn Master is so good to me. When He decides that He wants to "show off His property" because He approves of my dress. He will take me out to dinner. He orders for me....He opens doors for me and i will get scolded if i try to do it for myself. i am to slip my hand in His arm while walking...He treats me like a lady, which NO man has ever done.. So, all though i am grateful each and every day that He has allowed me to be a part of His life...it is posts like this that reinforce that gratefulness....i am such a lucky girl!Ty for posting that. @Lady so sorry for the side step... take care His naughtyslave 18 Sep 11, 3:31 PM Hawklord UK, 6 yrs naughtyslave wrote: When He decides that He wants to "show off His property" because He approves of my dress. He will take me out to dinner. He orders for me....He opens doors for me and i will get scolded if i try to do it for myself. i am to slip my hand in His arm while walking...He treats me like a lady, which NO man has ever done.. He does what??? I think my slaves would feel really uncomfortable I did that. lol they would look at each other and wonder if I had lost my mind! But I can see your Master is proud of his property and it is a way of showing you off. However you might please him more if you showed deference to Him in public. Just a suggestion. Sic volo. sic jubeo. stat pro ratione voluntas 18 Sep 11, 3:39 PM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs Hawklord wrote: naughtyslave wrote: When He decides that He wants to "show off His property" because He approves of my dress. He will take me out to dinner. He orders for me....He opens doors for me and i will get scolded if i try to do it for myself. i am to slip my hand in His arm while walking...He treats me like a lady, which NO man has ever done.. He does what??? I think my slaves would feel really uncomfortable I did that. lol they would look at each other and wonder if I had lost my mind! But I can see your Master is proud of his property and it is a way of showing you off. However you might please him more if you showed deference to Him in public. Just a suggestion. what do You mean,Sir? take care His naughtyslave 18 Sep 11, 4:11 PM Hawklord UK, 6 yrs naughtyslave wrote: Hawklord wrote: But I can see your Master is proud of his property and it is a way of showing you off. However you might please him more if you showed deference to Him in public. Just a suggestion. what do You mean,Sir? I mean that it might please him to do small things to make him feel like a Master when out and about, like bow your head as you pass through the door he is opening. I am the last one to interfere with someone else's lifestyle and I am probably out of order. It just struck me as being in contrast to my own lifestyle. I'm actually pleased you are happily owned at last. Sic volo. sic jubeo. stat pro ratione voluntas 18 Sep 11, 4:41 PM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs Hawklord wrote: naughtyslave wrote: Hawklord wrote: But I can see your Master is proud of his property and it is a way of showing you off. However you might please him more if you showed deference to Him in public. Just a suggestion. what do You mean,Sir? I mean that it might please him to do small things to make him feel like a Master when out and about, like bow your head as you pass through the door he is opening. I am the last one to interfere with someone else's lifestyle and I am probably out of order. It just struck me as being in contrast to my own lifestyle. I'm actually pleased you are happily owned at last. ahhhh yes Sir i am quite submissive at all times. In the presence of Him, i do keep my head down alot. i speak when He engages me into conversation. He is training this "slut" to behave as a lady but never do i think i am at His level and i show my submission regardless of the situation i am in...smiles... Thank You so much for Your kind words... Again, my apologies to the Lady for the interruption.. take care His naughtyslave 18 Sep 11, 5:20 PM Sir_H_302 UK, 18 mths Master_IanNZ wrote: * having slave open and close the car door for Master all the time, this can be quite humiliating for some Something you might consider adding to this suggestion is having your slaves kiss the seat where your ass has been sitting once you have climbed out of the car. This is a demonstartion of respect. From a distance it can look as if the slave is simply bending over to pick something up from the floor. If you find this amusing you can introduce it as a permanent rules within your house, when ever you stand up the nearest slave kisses the spot! My leather strap is not a threat sweetheart....its a promise! Next page