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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "desperate masters" 1 2 desperate masters (17) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 19 Apr 11, 7:55 PM Sir_Aldric 5 yrs 166-642-578 wrote: desperate masters The s/m scene here in philly is pathetic.the only gay masters i find are men who are so hideous they realize the only way they can get laid is to have some sort of schtick.It is a sub/bottom city all hungry for a master so these fake masters get young hot bottoms making pretend they are masters. It it obvious you wrote this maybe at an impulse while feeling highly frustrated. But still, you link "so hideous" immediately with being "fake". That seems quite superficial to me. My first thought while reading your post: is that it? Is that all of importance to you? The looks? Looking at your profile looks are important. However don't get lost on just appearances else you indeed will end up feeling frustrated the rest of your life. Give the less-attractive and yourself a chance to discover if there is more hidden under the surface. Maybe even something longer lasting than just looks.. Happy hunting, Sir Aldric 20 Apr 11, 4:48 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs Sir_Aldric wrote: 166-642-578 wrote: desperate masters The s/m scene here in philly is pathetic.the only gay masters i find are men who are so hideous they realize the only way they can get laid is to have some sort of schtick.It is a sub/bottom city all hungry for a master so these fake masters get young hot bottoms making pretend they are masters. It it obvious you wrote this maybe at an impulse while feeling highly frustrated. But still, you link "so hideous" immediately with being "fake". That seems quite superficial to me. My first thought while reading your post: is that it? Is that all of importance to you? The looks? Looking at your profile looks are important. However don't get lost on just appearances else you indeed will end up feeling frustrated the rest of your life. Give the less-attractive and yourself a chance to discover if there is more hidden under the surface. Maybe even something longer lasting than just looks.. Happy hunting, Sir Aldric Very well said and so true. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown 23 Apr 11, 4:05 AM deaincaelo US(VA), 17 mths There's a lot of factors other then just looks and desperation. While there are a lot of 'phonies' in any dating situation, what may be wrong for you may be right for someone else. I've known submissives I couldn't dominate melt for others and vice versa. Besides. no one really goes out and just buys a slave. a cynical person might say we're all phonies. It's just something to scream into the wind about and move on. 23 Apr 11, 4:18 AM Master_Brisbane AU, 13 mths Y! as the most are saying, we live in a world of pretenders......but keep looking.......for every Master, there is a submissive and once the union is made, both know it is not fake........... 23 Apr 11, 7:07 AM mugglez UK, 15 mths pet_ka_MJ wrote: We really should be careful who we point that wannabe, poser finger at. Lamenting that we can't find a "good" Master might actually have to do with our attitude and what said Masters' see lacking in us. pet_ka_MJ, you are so right there with your words of wisdom. we all need to look at ourselves, inside and out. i always look forward to when you give advice there too. 25 Apr 11, 3:43 PM 166-642-578 US(PA), 16 mths SIR_Conwolf wrote: I apologize for your frustration. In all reality people in general just plain suck. I think it has less to do with the lifestyle than just people in general. One thing that occurs to me is finding yourself and being confident about that. If you are lost as a person you will attract people that feed on that. I hope this is some help. I feel for people in the gay community, especially dealing with emotions this deep. I want you to know that you always have friends here. S_C Philly had a thriving s/m bar for years called the bikestop.The original owner was old school.He ordered his bartenders to mix strong drinks.The drinks were cheap.Petting and such was allowed in the bar.Sorry to say he died from cancer in the mid 90's.The general manager of the bar ran the place into the ground.Weak drinks.high prices.He milked a loyal customer base and a place that was bumpin' on just about every night of the week became a ghost town.There just isn't anyplace to go in the city any longer where you can find a master.I prefer to meet people in person.I don't really like using the internet to meet new people.....Fkae pictures are my number one complaint...If it is them it was taken 15 years ago....I've gotten to the point where i've just about stopped looking. 25 Apr 11, 3:45 PM 166-642-578 US(PA), 16 mths Sir_Aldric wrote: 166-642-578 wrote: desperate masters The s/m scene here in philly is pathetic.the only gay masters i find are men who are so hideous they realize the only way they can get laid is to have some sort of schtick.It is a sub/bottom city all hungry for a master so these fake masters get young hot bottoms making pretend they are masters. It it obvious you wrote this maybe at an impulse while feeling highly frustrated. But still, you link "so hideous" immediately with being "fake". That seems quite superficial to me. My first thought while reading your post: is that it? Is that all of importance to you? The looks? Looking at your profile looks are important. However don't get lost on just appearances else you indeed will end up feeling frustrated the rest of your life. Give the less-attractive and yourself a chance to discover if there is more hidden under the surface. Maybe even something longer lasting than just looks.. Happy hunting, Sir Aldric Avereage and masculine is a fine catch.Hideous......no thank you.