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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "desperate masters" 1 2 desperate masters (17) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Tue 19 Apr 11, 9:02 AM 166-642-578 US(PA), 16 mths The s/m scene here in philly is pathetic.the only gay masters i find are men who are so hideous they realize the only way they can get laid is to have some sort of schtick.It is a sub/bottom city all hungry for a master so these fake masters get young hot bottoms making pretend they are masters. 19 Apr 11, 9:06 AM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs 166-642-578 wrote: desperate masters The s/m scene here in philly is pathetic.the only gay masters i find are men who are so hideous they realize the only way they can get laid is to have some sort of schtick.It is a sub/bottom city all hungry for a master so these fake masters get young hot bottoms making pretend they are masters. Wow, that really sucks but that is not just in the gay community. That is everywhere. Posers have found a loophole to putting out the normal efforts in getting laid. They strap on a title start beating their chests " i am Master hear me roar" and unfortunatly poor newbie submissives get taken advantage of. i am sorry about your frustration, but truly you are not alone. Take care, naughty 19 Apr 11, 9:21 AM lil_one_anjuli 20 mths The good thing is: we learn from the wrong wanna be masters. We spot them when we taste them once. Be confident and next time will be better. hugs 19 Apr 11, 9:43 AM 166-642-578 US(PA), 16 mths slave_snowy wrote: The good thing is: we learn from the wrong wanna be masters. We spot them when we taste them once. Be confident and next time will be better. hugs Is it to much to ask to find a dominant gay masculine man?I've always been told i am very masculine and up until i dropped acid a while ago i was a dom/master.While on the drug i felt incredibly vulnerable and found myself getting an erection from that feeling of vulnerability.Since then i've wanted to be dominated. 19 Apr 11, 12:27 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs You know what is amazing me about this conversation... for every wannbabe, poser Master... there is just such a wannabe, poser slave waiting to be taken as well. The lifestyle is rife with people posing in either role to get "laid" or a "date." We really should be careful who we point that wannabe, poser finger at. Lamenting that we can't find a "good" Master might actually have to do with our attitude and what said Masters' see lacking in us. "If I have been of service; if I have glimpsed more of the nature and essence of ultimate good; if I am inspired to reach wider horizons of thought and action; if I am at peace with myself; it has been a successful day." ~ Alex Noble 19 Apr 11, 12:55 PM SIR_Conwolf US(MA), 14 mths I apologize for your frustration. In all reality people in general just plain suck. I think it has less to do with the lifestyle than just people in general. One thing that occurs to me is finding yourself and being confident about that. If you are lost as a person you will attract people that feed on that. I hope this is some help. I feel for people in the gay community, especially dealing with emotions this deep. I want you to know that you always have friends here. S_C 19 Apr 11, 1:02 PM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs pet_ka_MJ wrote: You know what is amazing me about this conversation... for every wannbabe, poser Master... there is just such a wannabe, poser slave waiting to be taken as well. The lifestyle is rife with people posing in either role to get "laid" or a "date." We really should be careful who we point that wannabe, poser finger at. Lamenting that we can't find a "good" Master might actually have to do with our attitude and what said Masters' see lacking in us. You are absolutly right pet_k, when i answered the post i wasn't trying to ruffle any feathers. He was stating how bad the gay community was...i just meant to say "hey its not just the gay community". I have had many conversations with Doms that have the same frustration with posers as slaves. How they end up just looking for a free ride or a cheap thrill. i certainly wasn't trying to have a Dom bashing of sorts...guess i should be careful with answering posts late at night. Give more thought as to how others might view what i write.i cannot speak for the others in this conversation but i can tell you this was not my intention. So, sorry pet for the irritation...have a great day! Take care, naughty 19 Apr 11, 1:11 PM Mistress_K3 TT, 13 mths 166-642-578 wrote: desperate masters The s/m scene here in philly is pathetic.the only gay masters i find are men who are so hideous they realize the only way they can get laid is to have some sort of schtick.It is a sub/bottom city all hungry for a master so these fake masters get young hot bottoms making pretend they are masters. I am sorry for your troubles. I guess the good news is you're not alone, on either side of the fence, the bad of course is that you will have to wade through quite a few bad apples before you get your prize. If you are committed don't loose heart just be smart about it until you find what suits you besides anything worth getting is usually never easy. If it was what fun would that be? 19 Apr 11, 1:14 PM SIR_Conwolf US(MA), 14 mths NaughtySlave wrote: pet_ka_MJ wrote: You know what is amazing me about this conversation... for every wannbabe, poser Master... there is just such a wannabe, poser slave waiting to be taken as well. The lifestyle is rife with people posing in either role to get "laid" or a "date." We really should be careful who we point that wannabe, poser finger at. Lamenting that we can't find a "good" Master might actually have to do with our attitude and what said Masters' see lacking in us. You are absolutly right pet_k, when i answered the post i wasn't trying to ruffle any feathers. He was stating how bad the gay community was...i just meant to say "hey its not just the gay community". I have had many conversations with Doms that have the same frustration with posers as slaves. How they end up just looking for a free ride or a cheap thrill. i certainly wasn't trying to have a Dom bashing of sorts...guess i should be careful with answering posts late at night. Give more thought as to how others might view what i write.i cannot speak for the others in this conversation but i can tell you this was not my intention. So, sorry pet for the irritation...have a great day! Naughty, Your fresh and we all know that. That's why your so awesome. You are / would make an amazing slave to anyone. S_C 19 Apr 11, 6:20 PM GentleOwner CA, 2 yrs It is true that there are a lot of people out there that prey on others. It is a very sad situation, and one that tears apart the trust that holds communities and people together. I believe it shows more in this and in the kink community in general. I believe that the accepting and inclusive nature we have makes this so, but it is also that nature that gives us the extra strength to weather those storms. 19 Apr 11, 7:50 PM Ryu_Gabriev US(TX), 14 mths Y! I wonder if a member of the offending party in question should post. (oh wait I already am!!) This problem affects all folks, even the ones who are trying to figure out where they stand, Like me. I'll be hard pressed to 'develop' the right mannerisms and confidence to be what I think I should be, but it's also made doubly hard by the fact that since I'm a novice many subs wont trust me for a chance. so OP, I too feel for ya. Not being able to find someone is maddening. Also seems to get worse as time passes without success. Next page