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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Slaves pleasure" 1 2 3 Slaves pleasure (24) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 20 Apr 11, 3:41 AM lil_one_anjuli 20 mths i am curious if there is a Master that really doesnt like to pleasure in terms of sex a slave for his pleasure. And also...i do think there are the rewards. Prior of having a romance with my Master ( He was just my Mentor) i did have my rewards, compliments...and so on. I do also think....that why Master owns something that He doesnt like? There should be a minimal affection and even the most ruthless owner knows how to praise a dog. There is a bond that is hard to avoid and hard to ignore. As easily comes the punishment, rewards also comes easily. Really lolz....i would be curious to know if there are really Masters that really dont care....well....even a wanna be i knew online...cared! Let me say....i knew a guy that ddint care and we were in vanilla type, although some contours that he was definetely the Top. This made lots of scars in my heart...as he not only didnt care as he usually aggravated it by calling me frigid when i couldnt cum * bcs i never could with him*. Pain in sex was too much unbearable e and sometimes penetration was totally impossible, no matter how much force he would use. his remarks went even to the point he was with me bcs i wouldnt find anyone else that would like me...and he was with me for pity. I thought i was finally living a clear Top/bottom relationship so i endured until he decided to twist my arm. Thanks to TSR i realized he was not a true dom. I came in a long path with my actual Master to prove myself that nothing was true in the past...and that is a hard journey. Penetration is still painful but i feel finally some pleasure and sometimes i do quite enjoy the pain. And yes i do orgasm if He allows me <giggles> It is quite hard to imagine a good Dom even if he is not all romantic with slaves....to behave in such manner as i lived. My actual Master is a live proof of it. Romance came later and He kept the same as He was although with more romance and nice talk. Edited 20 Apr 11, 3:47 AM by lil_one_anjuli 20 Apr 11, 8:09 AM princess_adela US(WA), 20 mths NaughtySlave wrote: Slaves pleasure i was just curious. For the Masters that don't have a romantic connection to or with their subs/slaves...does her/his pleasure matter to You? Or are they there strictly for Your pleasure. If they are simply property does what they need matter? Well, just in reply to the original post. No, Master doesn't care if i receive pleasure (sexually or masochistically) through HIS desire to draw pleasure from me. However, if He detects i am enjoying something He immediately requires formal thanks and gratitude... As if it was a gift he didn't intend to give. It's not His top priority. dc spelling only. Edited 20 Apr 11, 8:10 AM by princess_adela 20 Apr 11, 12:58 PM another_wannabslut81 13 mths Yes.. it is said that the Master's needs are first and foremost. And this is most certainly true...But a slave whose needs continually go unmet is a slave who eventually loses her surrender. 20 Apr 11, 9:59 PM Hausor 13 mths anotherbenson wrote: my tuppence worth. ~If a slave did not find pleasure in serving he/she would not be seeking in the first place. so it follows a slaves pleasure comes from his/her service. any other pleasures encountered is a bonus. Exactly. There is nothing an owner/master can do to deny his or her slave/submissive's pleasure, because the slave/sub gets pleasure from pleasing and serving the master/owner. Some owners/masters seem to be uncomfortable with that notion (that they don't and cannot exercise absolute control over their slave/sub's pleasure), but that's just tough cheese for them. 21 Apr 11, 1:44 AM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs Hausor wrote: anotherbenson wrote: my tuppence worth. ~If a slave did not find pleasure in serving he/she would not be seeking in the first place. so it follows a slaves pleasure comes from his/her service. any other pleasures encountered is a bonus. Exactly. There is nothing an owner/master can do to deny his or her slave/submissive's pleasure, because the slave/sub gets pleasure from pleasing and serving the master/owner. Some owners/masters seem to be uncomfortable with that notion (that they don't and cannot exercise absolute control over their slave/sub's pleasure), but that's just tough cheese for them. Maybe i need to be a little more direct with this question. i can relate to what both of you are saying because i am a pleasure slave. i get off on giving pleasure. What i am asking (please forgive my vulgerness) is do You as the Master care about her "getting off" do You ever lay her down and caress her or give her oral. Or do You just drop the slave to her knees, treat her like a cumdump and think to yourself its fine...she is here for my pleasure? This is what i was after...but i didnt want to offend anyone Take care, naughty 21 Apr 11, 1:58 AM Hausor 13 mths NaughtySlave wrote: Maybe i need to be a little more direct with this question. i can relate to what both of you are saying because i am a pleasure slave. i get off on giving pleasure. Let me preface this with I characterize myself as a switch. I am in a committed relationship, and for the purposes of my discussions here, it is not important whether I am the dom or the sub. When I am submissive, I also get off giving pleasure. So I can very much empathize with how you feel, that burning NEED to please one's dominant and shuddering with pleasure when (in my case) she says "You have pleased me." What i am asking (please forgive my vulgerness) is do You as the Master care about her "getting off" do You ever lay her down and caress her or give her oral. Or do You just drop the slave to her knees, treat her like a cumdump and think to yourself its fine...she is here for my pleasure? This is what i was after...but i didnt want to offend anyone When I am dominant, I derive pleasure from seeing my submissive writhe and moan in pleasure (or scream in pain if that is what we are after at the time). So, yes, I do enjoy performing oral sex on (and rimming) my submissive. I do not enjoy objectification as a dom. A woman is a person in my eyes before she is a submissive. If I knew she enjoyed it, I could TREAT her as a cum dump, but I could never VIEW her as one. Is that answer helpful, or does it wander around too much? 21 Apr 11, 2:06 AM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs Hausor wrote: NaughtySlave wrote: Maybe i need to be a little more direct with this question. i can relate to what both of you are saying because i am a pleasure slave. i get off on giving pleasure. Let me preface this with I characterize myself as a switch. I am in a committed relationship, and for the purposes of my discussions here, it is not important whether I am the dom or the sub. When I am submissive, I also get off giving pleasure. So I can very much empathize with how you feel, that burning NEED to please one's dominant and shuddering with pleasure when (in my case) she says "You have pleased me." What i am asking (please forgive my vulgerness) is do You as the Master care about her "getting off" do You ever lay her down and caress her or give her oral. Or do You just drop the slave to her knees, treat her like a cumdump and think to yourself its fine...she is here for my pleasure? This is what i was after...but i didnt want to offend anyone When I am dominant, I derive pleasure from seeing my submissive writhe and moan in pleasure (or scream in pain if that is what we are after at the time). So, yes, I do enjoy performing oral sex on (and rimming) my submissive. I do not enjoy objectification as a dom. A woman is a person in my eyes before she is a submissive. If I knew she enjoyed it, I could TREAT her as a cum dump, but I could never VIEW her as one. Is that answer helpful, or does it wander around too much? Thank You Sir, it didnt wander at all Take care, naughty 21 Apr 11, 2:08 AM True2life US(ID), 19 mths NaughtySlave wrote: Hausor wrote: anotherbenson wrote: my tuppence worth. ~If a slave did not find pleasure in serving he/she would not be seeking in the first place. so it follows a slaves pleasure comes from his/her service. any other pleasures encountered is a bonus. Exactly. There is nothing an owner/master can do to deny his or her slave/submissive's pleasure, because the slave/sub gets pleasure from pleasing and serving the master/owner. Some owners/masters seem to be uncomfortable with that notion (that they don't and cannot exercise absolute control over their slave/sub's pleasure), but that's just tough cheese for them. Maybe i need to be a little more direct with this question. i can relate to what both of you are saying because i am a pleasure slave. i get off on giving pleasure. What i am asking (please forgive my vulgerness) is do You as the Master care about her "getting off" do You ever lay her down and caress her or give her oral. Or do You just drop the slave to her knees, treat her like a cumdump and think to yourself its fine...she is here for my pleasure? This is what i was after...but i didnt want to offend anyone My two cents... Yes, I care about her "getting off", I suppose it is an ego thing for me, I like knowing I can give that shudder, that squirm, and that that feeling she is having is from me, is my pleasure to give, and my pleasure to withhold on occaision. For myself, to "give" an orgasm is power...taking my own pleasure along the way is simply satisfying my own lust. 21 Apr 11, 2:15 AM Hausor 13 mths True2life wrote: Yes, I care about her "getting off", I suppose it is an ego thing for me, I like knowing I can give that shudder, that squirm, and that that feeling she is having is from me, is my pleasure to give, and my pleasure to withhold on occaision. For myself, to "give" an orgasm is power...taking my own pleasure along the way is simply satisfying my own lust. It's interesting how for me, the same activity takes on a whole different meaning depending on whether I am dom or sub. For example, performing oral sex. When I am submissive, I am serving her. When I am dominant, I am allowing her to feel pleasure. 21 Apr 11, 3:55 PM 000-671-955 CA, 7 yrs Y! another_wannabslut81 wrote: Yes.. it is said that the Master's needs are first and foremost. And this is most certainly true...But a slave whose needs continually go unmet is a slave who eventually loses her surrender. Master's needs are always met first, which doesn't mean that i can't recieve a mutual feeling of satisfaction while doing this for Him. He teaches and leads me into things that i know will please Him and not myself as much, and He teaches things that i can recieve pleasure and comfort as well as Himself. Master allows me to try things that i hope will please Him, that i have learned on my own through other sources, but always first asking His permission. This is always pleasing to Master, as He see's that i am committed to the Lifestyle, and have taken the time and effort to try and fulfill something that He has started. Being married i feel has its advantages, as i understand His way of thinking and Trust His methods and applications over the years. Master knows when i enjoy what He has set before me to perform, and knows when i will use my resolve to complete what He has set forth for me, this i feel is what makes the relationship that much stronger, We both have a goal in mind, and He is in control and i am there to help Him achieve it. Master's "o" 671955 Next page