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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Wearing your collar in public" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Wearing your collar in public (70) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 18 Aug 11, 10:23 PM MasterShack US(TX), 4 yrs My slave always wore his heavy chain collar proudly and usually kept the top buttons of his shirt open so it would show. One day he was waiting in line at the grocery store and an old man in front of him kept peeking back at the collar. When the old man had finished checking out he grabbed up his groceries and pointed to the collar and said lodly, "I know why you are wearing that." As he started to move away he said with a smile, "to keep your head on!" Master Shack of The BearPair www.BearPair.com 19 Aug 11, 3:43 AM kanens_hana US(KS), 12 mths Y! i wear my day collar with pride. it's a leather strand with a Master lock holding it together. it never comes off. Yes, a few ppl in my community have called me out on it, but i will NOT take it off. 19 Aug 11, 5:52 AM 730-438-941 CA, 9 mths i also have two collars...one i wear out and about and sometimes as i work...also in the public eye. It's a simple leather collar with two steel hoops which could pass for a choker while my proper cunt collar is a heavier, wider much softer and much more appropriate beautiful collar. i love the smell of my cunt collar, i love the feel of it around my neck and i especially love it when my cherished Master takes it off for whatever reason...i then have the mouth watering pleasure of feeling His very large hands placing it around my neck, fastening it then commanding me to continue pampering Him. i have been questioned about it, stared at by both men and women and have had plenty of winks in recognition of what it symbolizes. i also have a dog collar which my Owner purchased and i wore until He felt i earned the right to wear a leather one... lovingly and obediently, His cuntslave 19 Aug 11, 8:06 AM 766-003-205 US(CA), 11 mths Y! BelovedMaster wrote: Wearing your collar in public Does your slave wear a collar in public that people in the know would recognize as such? How did you arrive at the decision to do so? Have you had any negative (or positive, even) experience in doing so? We choose not to go this route. We live in an extremely Bible Belt part of the country where everyone knows us since childhood. Any gossip at all would be stuck to us forever. Furthermore, the web means that a lot of the general public now knows what this stuff means (We're too old to pretend to be Goths). And of course, we worry about horny, unfulfilled Dom-guys sort of sticking to us like glue once they pick up the perv scent. We love the whole locked on permanent collar IDEA, but dreary reality and its various downsides trump it. What say you? i have a 24/7 collar that PERHAPS someone "in the know would recognize" at least after meeting at a munch- but it is very safe. i wear it at work etc and no one knows. (Pic is on profile at fetlife) otherwise i wear a more radical collar in private or at a bdsm party. Black Harley Davidson dog collar. i live in a Bible belt area too only in N.Calif. coming from the Bay Area we never guessed there WAS a Bible belt here- but yes there is. Yeah have to be careful, a lot of unChristian like Christians running around happy to ruin a life or two. 19 Aug 11, 10:33 AM 462-604-379 AU, 9 mths Y! I have 2 collars that I can wear. Both of these I have bought while in training after requesting permission from my trainer. I did it as a sign of my respect for my master and as a demonstration to my trainer of my pride as a slave-to-be. One collar, a rolled steel slave ring, I wear in public, including to family gatherings. The only time that I remove this collar is for work. The second collar, a flat steel collar, I wear at home for my master. 19 Aug 11, 9:27 PM 634-446-622 US(IN), 20 mths Y! i wear my collar everywhere and i wear it proudly --Sir said he girls are not allowed to remove their collars 20 Aug 11, 4:43 AM 000-844-137 US, 7 yrs Y! i drive a truck cross country and starting about 1 April this year i started wearing my collar almost full time. The only times i take it off are when i have to pickup or deliver shipments to our customers and when i'm around the company. i do highly value my job and unfortunately most of these people just would not understand my collar. Other than that, the collar stays on night and day. There is a photo of it in my profile. Truthfully i really LOVE wearing my collar. i love the way it looks and i love the way it feels around my neck. If only the vanilla public were a little more accepting i would have my collar welded shut so i could never take it off. In chains i feel free Edited 20 Aug 11, 3:15 PM by 000-844-137 20 Aug 11, 7:40 AM 824-438-765 US(ND), 9 mths i have just recently crocheted a chocker and was talking to both my doms about having a collar. my primary dom suggested that the chocker i had made, to consider it a collar until he can afford to buy me one. my secondary dom had agreed and told my primary dom that it was a really good idea. my collar that i have now is just a crocheted chocker, but it gives me the good sense that i have on a symbol of my relationship with my dom 20 Aug 11, 10:26 AM 103-173-721 FR, 2 yrs Y! Last week, I had a walk in the center of Paris, near the Seine, with my collar and o ring on a t-shirt. I looked some smiles on some women's faces, but that's all. In my family, some of members asked me what it is. I answered : " it's a collar". They seemed satisfied. Perhaps because they use to see me massaging the feet of my Wife or serve her ... 20 Aug 11, 11:00 AM RulerBen2092 US(WI), 10 mths Well I have a dress code for my slave for public wear and private wear. Public is just Collar, A thin T-shirt and the shortest shorts she can find. This only applies during the summer and spring. During winter and fall they can wear what ever keeps her warm as long as she has a collar. But that just me it is up to you. Also you can just get a smaller collar for her to wear outside so that way it can be covered up by a shirt or one of those thin pull over coats.