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TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "i need help"

i need help (4)

This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board.

Mon 11 Apr 11, 10:09 AM
991-235-402
US(WA), 20 mths
Y!*
i know this is on here a lot i just lost My Mistress after a year and im lost i have no clue what to do it hurts so bad i cant seem to bare it my mind wont focus what should this slave do
11 Apr 11, 11:30 AM
deaincaelo
US(VA), 17 mths
*hugs*

I'm sorry for your loss.

11 Apr 11, 11:56 AM
naughtyslave
US, 2 yrs

991-235-402 wrote:
i need help

i know this is on here a lot i just lost My Mistress after a year and im lost i have no clue what to do it hurts so bad i cant seem to bare it my mind wont focus what should this slave do

sorry for your loss! kisses

Take care, naughty

11 Apr 11, 4:26 PM
287-365-523
US, 14 mths
i am so sorry to hear this. i know it's hard to focus after something like this. It is easy to feel panicked, lost, or sad. In fact, it is normal.

Know that the way you are feeling now is normal. It might hurt like hell, but that pain is normal.

Healing from pain is a process. It will take time. Give yourself some time and space to mourn. Remember to take care of yourself. As a slave it is very easy to neglect ourselves when we are hurting this way and when we lack leadership. Drink plenty of water, eat something healthy, get some light exercise, and get plenty of sleep. you might not feel like doing these things, but try. An unhealthy slave is no good to anyone.

Continue to get support, here and anywhere else you feel is right.

This pain will get easier, day by day.

Best wishes, -523

28 Apr 11, 11:14 PM
Syrinx
UK, 13 mths
Loss can be extremely painful, and my heart goes out to you. 287-365-523 has given some sound advice - taking care of yourself is crucial, and it could help you to recover quicker.

If you think it appropriate, talking with a counsellor or some other professional may go a long way, as their listening skills and wisdom can be profoundly helpful.

Try and look for some beauty

 

 
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