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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Slaves hitting their Master" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Slaves hitting their Master (96) This topic is now full - if you want to reply, please make a new post on the board itself. This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 29 Dec 10, 12:20 AM DarkSado 4 yrs Oye! Such legs this topic has! DarkSado 29 Dec 10, 2:00 AM seresse US(PA), 23 mths Y! the dancing centipede 29 Dec 10, 3:19 AM Adak43 US(OR), 5 yrs Lord_Uther wrote: Slaves hitting their Master A question I've just seen on FL I thought I'd bring over here (expand a bit) and check out the responses... For the slaves, have you ever hit your Master? & Masters, how would you react if your slave hit you? I had a slave once tell me that if I randomly hit him the balls again he would hit me in the balls back. To which I promised him it would be the last thing he ever did. Sure enough a few days later I was feeling frisky & decided to hit him in the balls & he retaliated. I went to deck him, but he turned to dodge & it landed square between his shoulders. He promptly crumpled on the floor in pain doubting my legitimacy & using other profanities, that I was out of order & shouldn't have hit him there that hard etc., I just told him i was man of my word & he knew the consequences. If he hadn't have tried to dodge & just took his punishment I wouldn't have hit him where I did. So come on guys I've shown you mine, now you show me yours as I used to say in the playground Obviously, all of this depends, to some extent, upon the dynamics of the relationship, and the intent of the strike. If one was in play, and, maybe harder than intended, O.K.- maybe a light punishment, at most. If it were intended, serious, hard, etc., then they'd better be ready to take some real punishment, if not banishment, or both. It's about like shooting a cop - you'd better not do it, period! 29 Dec 10, 9:28 AM lil_one_anjuli 20 mths DarkSado wrote: Oye! Such legs this topic has! LOL without quoting anyone else anymore...because really it gets into my eyes...quote of the quoting of the quoting of the someone that just says well said....at one point the one that just repeats well said...gets a bit...obtuse....and that just annoys me. Quote and say well said...doesnt add anything interesting...but that is my opinion of course. i just saw that the people that disagreed with us...are not slaves...and they used the word playground somewhere. They forget some people are in the lifestyle and BDSM is 5% of our whole life. We were not discussing the CBT or tit torture or clit torture.... as far as i know if hitting balls is bad.....hitting tits is also bad practice....who knows if we can get cancer bcs of this! Of course...i am not sadist...not going to hit balls or hit tits....but while this makes me wince i recognize the problem was not the hitting thing but yes the slave's reaction and beligerant attitude.... i say slave....not a sub or a bedroom sub for 2 hours in a playground. i am stubborn and i think people went offended with a practice when there are many more bdsm practices that is much much more edgy than hitting balls or tits. The kind of edgy play that makes all the playground's users to run away....pretty fast. And sooo with such comments...i will laugh to myself and enjoy the thread 29 Dec 10, 12:26 PM GerardVanDam NL, 4 yrs seresse wrote: 727-021-835 wrote: 442-982-954 wrote: slave_snowy wrote: 442-982-954 wrote: 727-021-835 wrote: slave_snowy wrote: 727-021-835 wrote: 442-982-954 wrote: You are not supposed to hit on the balls period. It doesn't matter whether you are a master or a God. It's just Not a good practice. Well said nope not well said....if he has limits he is NOT a slave...just a submissive with limits.. a slave has no say about the limits...they are almost inexistent....of course everyone human has limits, phobias...but a slave is at the mercy of Master...and so He dictates if He will respect it or not. Most of the cases they do respect and they are understanding but it is not a requirement. I think all slaves have limits ...they are based on physical,legal.moral and Social ...and I believe that the Masters understand this which is why they do not push the limits that they know will end with a polite no OR retaliation. Its just common sense which unfortunately is not very common in some cases. Very well said Thank you! geeez....nope not well said. of course every human has limits...and of course the submissive choose the Owner that is in harmony with her limits.... before i was submissive i have phobias to needles, so i am NOT going to a owner that does needles!!!! What is there You dont understand? The choice is what matters but after you choose and submit to Your choice you stop to have choices!. Common sense enters here. The slave Lord Uther referred said he didnt like to be hit in the balls...maybe he should consider to not submit to Lord Uther instead! if that was such an hard limit!!!!! WWhen Lord uther said what he would do if he retaliated he should have asked and in case of impasse the slave should leave. Master do push the limits....where it says Master cannot push limits???? What you talking about is a submissive with a big contracts of do and not do, and so so...and stop when i say purple because i want to scratch my leg! This is submissive and not a 24/7 submissive. We talking about slaves!...something very different! and honestly the problem was more the reaction of the slave. He should never retaliate...never. It was a disrespect and he knew what would happen if he retaliated and still he accepted the relationship. What he should do was saying a safe word if such thing existed in their dynamics...and if it didnt exist....this is again slaves fault....** he accepted the conditions, not the master**. Common sense... I really don't get your attitude. She could say "well said" to anybody. I could say "well said" to any opinion I like. I am not saying that you or the Master who posted are wrong in any way. I am just saying my opinion, and I think that anyone could do so. There is something called freedom of thought. I don't find any point of this forum if you will say something, then you'll get attacked just for saying your humble opinion. You can call this common sense Thank you x i would normally not get involved any further in this, but it occurs to me that there may be a difficulty in presentation. We seem to have had this issue before in other threads, due to pretty much the same thing. If the original statement had been "i don't like CBT and think it is a very bad practice," then this is a clear statement of personal opinion. No argument. You are absolutely entitled to your opinion and feelings about anything and everything you have opinions and feelings on. But what you said was "You are not supposed to hit on the balls period. It doesn't matter whether you are a master or a God. It's just Not a good practice." This comes across clear as day as you telling us what is acceptable and what isn't. And pretty much, people don't appreciate that sort of thing. Who are you to impose your values and preferences on anyone else? So if you wish to simply present an opinion, then do that. But don't assume that we will be able to tell that is what you are doing if you use words that say something else. Words are all we have on this site, so use them carefully and say what you mean. i happen to feel the same as you that it is not a practice i understand or am comfortable with - but i would never presume to tell anyone they should never do it, or that it is bad. And, as Lord Uther has said repeatedly, that wasn't even the issue He presented for discussion. Okay, i've said my piece and will stand down. No offense meant and am hoping to just clear things up a bit as i don't believe anyone meant to offer insult. seresse If it were only a question of inflicting severe pain there would be no problem. Definitionc of "sub" or "slave" do not matter here. Think outside of this box. The laws forbid. Hitting the balls can damage a man severely (more than, say, breaking a leg). That is why no Master has the right to do it. Period. English is not my first language. For many here it is difficult to express their feelings. If I make mistakes, please tell me. 29 Dec 10, 12:30 PM DarkSado 4 yrs seresse wrote: the dancing centipede I'm picturing this now DarkSado 29 Dec 10, 7:52 PM aria01 US(MO), 18 mths Y! Lord_Uther wrote: Slaves hitting their Master A question I've just seen on FL I thought I'd bring over here (expand a bit) and check out the responses... For the slaves, have you ever hit your Master? & Masters, how would you react if your slave hit you? I had a slave once tell me that if I randomly hit him the balls again he would hit me in the balls back. To which I promised him it would be the last thing he ever did. Sure enough a few days later I was feeling frisky & decided to hit him in the balls & he retaliated. I went to deck him, but he turned to dodge & it landed square between his shoulders. He promptly crumpled on the floor in pain doubting my legitimacy & using other profanities, that I was out of order & shouldn't have hit him there that hard etc., I just told him i was man of my word & he knew the consequences. If he hadn't have tried to dodge & just took his punishment I wouldn't have hit him where I did. So come on guys I've shown you mine, now you show me yours as I used to say in the playground i have to say that i have hit my Master. i still do. Now, of course, it is out of play. However when i throw my fits (i am very much still learning. my past means that i never really grew up correctly, and Master says i'm in the rebellious teenager stage with Him) i do hit Him. i've thrown fits before (in my child stage...) where i've hit, punched, kicked, scratched, bitten my Master. usually when i hit or kick Him, my reply afterwards is "OW! Look what You did! You hurt me! *crying on the floor*" So... yea. He just laughs and calls me a stupid slave and kisses me and asks if i've learned my lesson. aria. Lord Xultar's little lion: Forever and Ever, Soldier. Even WITH Your silly name. :P <3 29 Dec 10, 11:48 PM Agent_954 US(VA), 20 mths slave_snowy wrote: DarkSado wrote: Oye! Such legs this topic has! LOL without quoting anyone else anymore...because really it gets into my eyes...quote of the quoting of the quoting of the someone that just says well said....at one point the one that just repeats well said...gets a bit...obtuse....and that just annoys me. Quote and say well said...doesnt add anything interesting...but that is my opinion of course. i just saw that the people that disagreed with us...are not slaves...and they used the word playground somewhere. They forget some people are in the lifestyle and BDSM is 5% of our whole life. We were not discussing the CBT or tit torture or clit torture.... as far as i know if hitting balls is bad.....hitting tits is also bad practice....who knows if we can get cancer bcs of this! Of course...i am not sadist...not going to hit balls or hit tits....but while this makes me wince i recognize the problem was not the hitting thing but yes the slave's reaction and beligerant attitude.... i say slave....not a sub or a bedroom sub for 2 hours in a playground. i am stubborn and i think people went offended with a practice when there are many more bdsm practices that is much much more edgy than hitting balls or tits. The kind of edgy play that makes all the playground's users to run away....pretty fast. And sooo with such comments...i will laugh to myself and enjoy the thread I think you are missing the point again and again. Actually this comment was for you: "I really don't get your attitude. She could say "well said" to anybody. I could say "well said" to any opinion I like. I am not saying that you or the Master who posted are wrong in any way. I am just saying my opinion, and I think that anyone could do so. There is something called freedom of thought. I don't find any point of this forum if you will say something, then you'll get attacked just for saying your humble opinion. You can call this common sense." So it's not about the subject any more, but it's rather about your offensive attitude. You just used the word "obtuse" as well in describing somebody's comment. I find it very judgemental. 30 Dec 10, 2:01 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs So.... maybe I have the wrong end of the stick here.....But...... I THOUGHT, the topic of this thread was asking if slaves had ever hit their Masters and how Masters responded to this? That is what is written in the OP anyways.... I know that is what I responded to. When did it turn into a critique of how the OP conducts his own dynamic? Who decided that how he punishes his slave is wrong? Who became the expert on how/when/why/where and anything the OP does? Who is the magician that can be everywhere and actually see what happens in any household of members here? Hmmm, so is there someone I should be asking if MY or MY MASTERS Kink is OK to do or even to talk about on here? Is there a List of safe topics or someone I should memo to check with beforehand? Where would I find this "Top Ten things you should never do because the safety police say it is bad" list? Come on people!!! Get over yourselves and your indignation. What started as an interesting topic has turned into a public service announcement on safety while playing. The majority of members on here are not stupid, naive or lacking in common sense! Many have been involved in WIITWD for many years and have much experience. The majority also live this as their life, not a hobby, where they "play". They don't need the safety police to inform them that something in the past is wrong or to get a slap on the hand. Maybe it doesn't work for you but it does for others. If all of us can't share and be honest about our lives,especially on this site, where does that leave everyone? There is a difference between stating your opinion and basically telling others that the way they live or the things they do are wrong. Sure, if someone says they go around raping people or cutting them up for kicks fine, I'd expect to see some opposition, but come on, I am reading a totally different topic to what was started and it seems to be happening more and more lately. Enough already!!!!! I do apologize to the OP and to those who have nothing to do with this but frankly, the boards over the past month or so are turning into something that could be seen on CM or some other crap site and it's becoming more frequent! *I also want to remind people, that the written word is read differently by everyone. That means the perception can be different from the intentions of the person writing it so it might b a good idea NOT to take things personally and get your knickers in a knot about a word or phrase someone may use or how it may be written. That's all I have to say on the subject that this thread has turned to. Have a nice day. Edited to correct some spelling and add a bit (*). 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown Edited 30 Dec 10, 2:07 AM by 333-528-841 30 Dec 10, 5:20 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs 333-528-841 wrote: I do apologize to the OP... 333: I can't think of anything you'd do that you'd need to apologise to me for. x My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! Next page