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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Enforced Bisexuality" 1 2 3 Enforced Bisexuality (22) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 30 Nov 10, 6:35 PM Valyrian101 US, 18 mths I've had this discussion with my pet. she says she's warming up to the idea. she was much more open to it before she had to divorce her previous husband. he wound up being a very dishonest person. Thus the divorce. I know it's my job, and pleasure, to push her boundaries and limits to see where they are. Perhaps I'll have to pick someone for her to play with before she's really ready. But in all honesty, I like it when she's into something. And right now she says she is not. Sorry for bringing up so many older topics to the forefront. I'm new to the site and am enjoying responding to so many wonderful topics. Valyrian101 Respect is default. Communication is mandatory. Understanding is enlightenment. 4 Dec 10, 5:55 PM subjan1962 UK, 2 yrs As a slave and owned completely by my Master I would do anything He told me to do in the safe knowledge that He would never tell me to do anything unsafe. It is not unusual for him to invite others, both male and female to use me, i enjoy this as i know how much pleasure it gives Him. i wouldnt want it any other way, i gave my body to him freely. Tortured by pleasure, Pleasured by pain, liberated by enslavement. 5 Dec 10, 9:28 PM 779-061-353 US(MO), 4 yrs Y! i personally have an issue with this if it were me, as i cannot function with a female; my mind shuts down fully and my whole body freezes up. However just being uncomfortable probably meant it was something the girl in question needed to work out and her Master was giving her the opportunity to do so, in a way that lets her know that ;yes we are going to do this. Master Silver Wolf approves all this grl's posts they MUST pass his approval before posting 6 Dec 10, 5:37 AM T_M_Q_M_B US(WA), 2 yrs Y! Konstantin_01 wrote: Enforced Bisexuality I was at a BDSM themed dinner-party recently, with my two slaves, and the host ordered his slave girl to perform oral sex on another female slave, owned by someone else. She looked uncomfortable with this, and it was a little awkward watching it. Is that going too far, do you think? Is it a little unreasonable to demand this? Don't get me wrong, my slaves do as they're told, when they're told, but I can't imagine telling them to do something like that... Well for starters they are human with feelings, I was a master a long time ago, I never put my slave in a compromising potition. If you do that you will loose all trust and admiration that you attained. Safety security and well-being should be the first thing on a masters mind. They are slaves not door-mats. A master must give more then he takes to maintain order. Thats just how I roll.... 6 Dec 10, 5:50 AM 169-158-526 US(TX), 2 yrs M and his friend had me participate (after about a month of talking about it) with another female - something and someone I would never have done that with. About half way through I just couldn't do it, I got up and left the room. M came down to be with me, didn't chastise me in any way (although he did tell me it was hot to watch while it lasted), and his friend finished up with the girl so not all was lost for her. I know that in a way I let him down because I couldn't finish what I started. It doesn't mean it won't be asked of me again, but when i reached my limit (which was further than I thought) it wasn't pushed past to the point of breaking. I have always been thankful for that - because it could have been and that would have broken some part of my trust to take care of me. I have experienced so much at his guidance and trusting in him to know when enough is enough has taken me (us) through a lot of boundaries I didn't even know existed. 6 Dec 10, 6:14 AM T_M_Q_M_B US(WA), 2 yrs Y! 169-158-526 wrote: M and his friend had me participate (after about a month of talking about it) with another female - something and someone I would never have done that with. About half way through I just couldn't do it, I got up and left the room. M came down to be with me, didn't chastise me in any way (although he did tell me it was hot to watch while it lasted), and his friend finished up with the girl so not all was lost for her. I know that in a way I let him down because I couldn't finish what I started. It doesn't mean it won't be asked of me again, but when i reached my limit (which was further than I thought) it wasn't pushed past to the point of breaking. I have always been thankful for that - because it could have been and that would have broken some part of my trust to take care of me. I have experienced so much at his guidance and trusting in him to know when enough is enough has taken me (us) through a lot of boundaries I didn't even know existed. I bet you have a better trust now than ever, people should not be pushed. I am glad that there is some respect between the both of you.. 6 Dec 10, 7:30 AM princess_adela US(WA), 20 mths 333-528-841 wrote: Konstantin_01 wrote: It did, thank you for your response. I don't believe it was pre-arranged, but the host did seek permission of the slave's master beforehand. I guess since I'm relatively new to the scene, it was a little confronting. Is it fairly commonplace? Have you been ordered to do something similar? While some people may be comfortable being present at events like this, where anything could and does happen, there are others that find it does nothing for them. Just like anything else I suppose, it comes down to personal preference. I can only say that in some venues I am sure it is commonplace. A good friend and her husband like public events, play parties etc. They enjoy the buzz is gives them, so to speak as well as the voyeuristic aspect. Master and I do not go to this type of event as my Master has no interest in them. Our life involves the two of us only. I have never been ordered to do something similar and do not anticipate it happening any time soon. My Master has been asked to "share" from time to time, but chooses not to. Enjoy your evening. Which makes me curious... How many O/p relationships are monogamous? I'm sure there have been threads on this topic in the past but I'm just going to throw it out here now. Furthermore, if placed in this circumstance that we're discussing, and you're in a monogamous O/p relationship, how would a Master or slave react? Would one compromise to "save face"? 6 Dec 10, 9:09 AM Mistress_Dea UK, 3 yrs I have recently loaned my slave to another Mistress on three occassions. The first time She used him by giving him a thorough fisting ending by achieving two handed fisting. On the second occasion She gave him a session of ball busting with a serious kneeing and kicking. The third time whilst She was in the process of fisting him She called in her male slave and ordered my slave to give him a blow job. This he had to do whilst still being fisted so was being penetrated at both ends at the same time. My slave had been strictly heterosexual all his life and so I am proud that my training meant that he unhesitatingly obeyed the Mistress and did something he would never normally have considered. He returned to me in a state of shock at what had happened but I feel has learned more about himself and that is what the training is about. Edited to correct a typo. Edited 6 Dec 10, 9:11 AM by Mistress_Dea 7 Dec 10, 4:46 PM slaveheatherleigh US(DE), 4 yrs T_M_Q_M_B wrote: Konstantin_01 wrote: Enforced Bisexuality I was at a BDSM themed dinner-party recently, with my two slaves, and the host ordered his slave girl to perform oral sex on another female slave, owned by someone else. She looked uncomfortable with this, and it was a little awkward watching it. Is that going too far, do you think? Is it a little unreasonable to demand this? Don't get me wrong, my slaves do as they're told, when they're told, but I can't imagine telling them to do something like that... Well for starters they are human with feelings, I was a master a long time ago, I never put my slave in a compromising potition. If you do that you will loose all trust and admiration that you attained. Safety security and well-being should be the first thing on a masters mind. They are slaves not door-mats. A master must give more then he takes to maintain order. Thats just how I roll.... I couldn't agree with you more. For me if i was put in that position, being forced, i would loose all trust as i am extremely straight and just the thought of anything with another woman, other then friendship, totally shuts me down. I would hope the Master would understand that and not try to force something that would mentally damage me forever. There are those that bi acts are fine but then there are those of us that bi is something that turns our stomach. 7 Dec 10, 6:24 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs dagoberts_cunt wrote: Which makes me curious... How many O/p relationships are monogamous? I'm sure there have been threads on this topic in the past but I'm just going to throw it out here now. Furthermore, if placed in this circumstance that we're discussing, and you're in a monogamous O/p relationship, how would a Master or slave react? Would one compromise to "save face"? Currently MacCain and i are monogamous. This has more to do with logistics than anything else. When he collared me he was clear that if he choose to penetrate any other woman it was his right. He was clear at some point he would want a second, and i'd be with her as well to please him. Right now, with the baby, it is not the right time. If someone wanted their female slave to be with me, i'm pretty sure MacCain consider it. It is much more likely than him allowing a man to be with me. There are things much worse than being with a woman... and i've already pleased MacCain by doing things i found much more vial. Enforced bi-sexuality would be an easy hurdle. p Next page