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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Spanking, and how it helps the slave" 1 2 3 Spanking, and how it helps the slave (29) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 10 Nov 10, 10:22 PM mutable 2 yrs I am absolutely no masochist, yet spanking is something he and I really enjoy. I seem to be a bit anal about my bottom (sorry, couldn't resist) and by this I mean that this is where my pleasure appears to be focussed, more so than other parts of my body. Rarely is my bottom used for punishment. Sometimes, if I cannot sleep, he strokes it and I'm snoring within 5 mins. Other times we have long spanking sessions, where the stroke is built up in intensity, but this is for the pleasure of us both. And yes, it is a pleasure because everything fades away to just he and I; skin on skin, heat, a little pain, a soft whisper and a LOT of pleasure. Can't beat it. 'We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are' Anais Nin 10 Nov 10, 11:14 PM 978-291-889 2 yrs mutable wrote: Rarely is my bottom used for punishment. Sometimes, if I cannot sleep, he strokes it and I'm snoring within 5 mins. Other times we have long spanking sessions, where the stroke is built up in intensity, but this is for the pleasure of us both. And yes, it is a pleasure because everything fades away to just he and I; skin on skin, heat, a little pain, a soft whisper and a LOT of pleasure. Can't beat it. Snipped by me cos i think the above by mutable is a really beautiful discription of it... it sounds so perfect and so familiar I'm a bit of a masochist though The cuffs and ropes might have to be removed in the morning... but the bonds of love stretch as far as 2 people can roam. 11 Nov 10, 6:13 PM kittenUK UK, 19 mths Spanking and caning and so on do they relax well for me yes they do not at the time of the punishment being given no as they hurt like hell but its afther the punishment is done i get relaxed i relax in to my Mistress arms and drop into sub drop its a wonderfull place to be. so yes in my mind you can be relaxed by spanking 12 Nov 10, 12:25 AM 143-983-458 US, 6 yrs Y! Typing from my phone so please forgive typos- i spend an incredible amount of time worrying about my inadequacies and about all the small mistakes everyone makes every day. Even though I am spanked for pleasure not punishment I still accept it as what I deserve for erring. having been punished and forgiven I am accepted. the slate has been wiped clean. Also while discussing bondage with a good mostly-vanilla friend we have concluded that bondage feels safe because its pretty hard to do anything Wrong while bound and gagged. in the same way when I am being flogged not only can I not screw up but am already being punished for any wrong I may commit. Apart from thathat its hard to worry about anything but being able to take just one more swat. Hope this resonates with anyone else. taking my pleasure in His 17 Nov 10, 1:36 AM MeluthTur US(TN), 6 yrs £ Y! I do use spanking, crops, and flogging a couple times a week to keep caoimhe's muscles and back from going awry. She fell from a helicopter when in the military and screwed her back up pretty good. Before we met she would go to chiropractor weekly. I have been doing this with her for 3 years and she has not had to go once in that time. And is more flexible than before. The spanking is more for used to avert attention from her back while keeping the endorphs up. This allows her back a few minutes to rebound and recover before continuing. Do not get me wrong! It is not what you use but how you use it. I also use My floggers and crops for punishment as well. Got a nice neo flogger that cuts very easily if desired. Respectfully MeluthTur 17 Nov 10, 3:14 AM 347-926-367 US, 3 yrs actually, i do tend to relax a bit more while being spanked.. it relaxes me so i can brace myself for whats yet to come 17 Nov 10, 6:06 AM Konstantin_01 AU, 19 mths Spanking to me seems too kinky to be an effective punishment... a light flogging (with a thin stick, don't want to cause too much pain/damage!!!) just above the backside seems to do the trick quite well. However. for roleplay etc, it's quite a bit of fun :P Edited 17 Nov 10, 6:07 AM by Konstantin_01 17 Nov 10, 6:36 AM 148-609-889 NL, 19 mths i like to be spanked. It's not a punishment for me. It makes me horny. 17 Nov 10, 6:57 AM Konstantin_01 AU, 19 mths 148-609-889 wrote: i like to be spanked. It's not a punishment for me. It makes me horny. Thanks for illustrating my point. It just feels too intimate, too much fun for both parties. No lessons learnt. 17 Nov 10, 7:00 AM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs Hmmmm... so how does this work if someone has a very high pain threshold and does not feel pain? A nerve has to be physically severed before I will even begin to feel a twinge of pain. So other than the feel of my Master's hand on me... I do not register pain... eventually I will feel heat... but no pain. Master has on occassion slapped my bare ass to get my attention. In these cases, it is the sound of the slap that garners my attention not any pain sensation generated by the slap. 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