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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "How to break it to the family..." 1 2 3 4 5 How to break it to the family... (41) This post is on the O&P web board. 16 Oct 10, 2:46 AM 610-217-666 US(CA), 20 mths Lord_Uther wrote: 333-528-841 wrote: property_of_MacCain wrote: hehe... i'm picturing 333-528-841 in one corner talking to an imaginary poster, whilst you are on the opposite corner muttering. p hahaha, yeah and the sad thing is...I can picture it too. All to easily And just for old times sake... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHczl_TKMz4 OK, all I have to say about that video is this...it looks like my Mom may have lost it anyway...and I need not worry about explaining after all. I need to check on her more often... 610-217-666 16 Oct 10, 6:03 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs Lord_Uther wrote: 333-528-841 wrote: property_of_MacCain wrote: hehe... i'm picturing 333-528-841 in one corner talking to an imaginary poster, whilst you are on the opposite corner muttering. p hahaha, yeah and the sad thing is...I can picture it too. All to easily And just for old times sake... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHczl_TKMz4 Now you've done it. hahaha, Master will be playing the musical version all night now...again!!!! ROFL 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown 16 Oct 10, 9:21 AM DarkSado 4 yrs Lord_Uther wrote: 333-528-841 wrote: property_of_MacCain wrote: hehe... i'm picturing 333-528-841 in one corner talking to And just for old times sake... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHczl_TKMz4 HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! DarkSado 16 Oct 10, 9:45 AM Tanos UK, 14 yrs Y! 610-217-666 wrote: How to break it to the family... I'd echo what other people have said about whether that is necessary. Many people have an urge to tell everyone about this wonderful realisation they've had about what they're really like. It often answers so many questions and explains so much. But once told, people cannot be untold (we'll sell TSR-branded Neuralyzers as soon as they become available! ) For this reason, "Never tell vanillas things they don't need to know" is a good rule of thumb. That doesn't stop you telling them the practicalities (eg paying into your owner's bank account rather than having a joint one) and narratives about having a traditional relationship, or things "just working better that way" can help explain why. :T: www.tanos.org.uk O&P: Possession. Ownership. Consent. Responsibility. Respect. House. Service. Dignity. Authenticity. Rituals. 16 Oct 10, 10:59 AM 610-217-666 US(CA), 20 mths Tanos wrote: 610-217-666 wrote: How to break it to the family... I'd echo what other people have said about whether that is necessary. Many people have an urge to tell everyone about this wonderful realisation they've had about what they're really like. It often answers so many questions and explains so much. But once told, people cannot be untold (we'll sell TSR-branded Neuralyzers as soon as they become available! ) For this reason, "Never tell vanillas things they don't need to know" is a good rule of thumb. That doesn't stop you telling them the practicalities (eg paying into your owner's bank account rather than having a joint one) and narratives about having a traditional relationship, or things "just working better that way" can help explain why. :T: Thank you Tanos... Is there any possibilty you could also shed some light on the 666? LOL, just asking... 610-217-666 16 Oct 10, 11:58 AM Mark4market 19 mths 610-217-666 wrote: How to break it to the family... Already people close to me are seeing a shift and I find it difficult to explain why. This has been a bit of a shock because I am not even aware of carrying myself in a different manner. .. ... I believe I CAN Help You. .. I used to be a Prostitute,& as a man I found that I was faced with The SAME Problem as you. There are a couple of things to remember. Very Important Too. .First,, There will Always be some people who are going to be better off if They Don't Ever Know. It is up to you to work out who they are, & IF They can Handle Knowing. What you do is Start to talk 'Around the topic',to get THEIR Impressions first before you just blurt it all out!& "LISTEN" more than talk at this stage! For EXAMPLE:: When I tried to tell my Dad that I had become a Prostitute, I started talking to him one morning while HE was driving us to work.(see that meant he had to focus on the road but would hear what I said.) "Dad,when you were my age,did you ever use a prostitute?" Silence."Well,dad, what do you think of 'WOMEN' who make a living that way? I think that..." & Dad interupts telling me in no uncertain terms just what he thought about women like that! So it was clear to me,that Dad Could NOT Handle knowing that His Son was a Prostitute also! ... Dad died without me ever telling him. . When I told Mum the same thing, starting by skirting 'Around the issue',Mum's reaction was a bit different so I took it 1 step further! After talking & LISTENING for about 5 minutes, I ventured to tell mum that "well,what if I told you that I was "Thinking About" doing it myself?" (Remain Uncommittal Even Now.) Her response was "So What?", Now one Committs & says, "So mum, all of those Women are NOT Your Son. Mum,I have been working as an 'Escort' for about a month now." The word 'Prostitute'has a more Clinical & vulgar tone to it than "Escort" which Could also mean just a Dinner Part Date or Tour Guide! ... Remember to Ease into it slowly & GENTLY. . With Friends & Workmates, it's a bit different. With them, You can either come right out with it & just cop all the banter they WILL Give You,(& They don't care if Others Hear,even the Boss! so be careful on that one.) Or You can have a Quiet word with just 1 or 2 workmates/friends who have noticed something. .... in this case,, what you tell them is The Exact Opposite of the Role you Do! .... REMEMBER:: Slaves & Submissives ALWAYS Cop More Shit & even Harrassment than the Dominant people do! NO EXCEPTIONS HERE! .... So, You tell them quietly & NOT in detail that Privately, you like to tie people up & whip them,order them to do humiliating things,whatever you think of. But just "Keep it Simple". Their minds will be going into overdrive without you stepping on the accelerator! . Eventually, You might like to tell the Truth to just One of your very closest friends or workmates. BE WARNED:: You WILL Cop Truckloads of shit from them every day for Months, & then whenever They feel like unloading onto you! It NEVER STOPS! ... Understand This,,, It is the way we humans are, to use any piece of what WE consider to be "Dirt", to use against each other, even if only for amusement or to hurt that person! UNDERSTAND ALSO:: ANYONE Who you tell, Is going to think that it Is "Their Right" to tell Anyone They want to & at Any time, even after you have stopped doing it & have decided to live a different way! . .... There is NO 'Easy Way' to do what you have asked, & Everything I have said here to you "is from My Own Personal Experience." . I hope that this Helps You & answers Your Question. . "Kind Regards,,, Mark4market A.K.A 'Slave Mark'. 16 Oct 10, 6:13 PM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs WOW!!! Umm, Mark4market: You may want to learn how to use the quote thing properly. It looks like the OP wrote your whole reponse. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown 16 Oct 10, 7:47 PM 610-217-666 US(CA), 20 mths I will learn to use the quote thing better...lol, sorry. Learning? You all are so fun...thank you. 610-217-666 16 Oct 10, 9:27 PM LatexHer US(IL), 7 yrs Y! Re: How to break it to the family... I was honest with them when their questions were asked. We told them that we are engaged in D/s relationship to which some balked. We however do not care about what others or family think - it remains our life to live in the fashion we care to pursue! One thing about family - they have no choice in the matter - we are of the same blood! Live with it! 17 Oct 10, 3:23 AM naughtyslave US, 2 yrs 333-528-841 wrote: WOW!!! Umm, Mark4market: You may want to learn how to use the quote thing properly. It looks like the OP wrote your whole reponse. Damn girl,you are on a roll lately! Your killing me! Take care, naughty Next page