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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Scheduling and Time Control" 1 2 3 Scheduling and Time Control (24) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sat 2 Oct 10, 11:36 PM Dagobert US(WA), 21 mths I have recently created a detailed calendar of items for my cunt to perform every day with a list of goals to be met by the end of the month. These items are a mixture of exercise (running, situps, etc...), sexual tasks, and personal enrichment tasks. cunt can now look at the calendar and know, for example, that on Mondays she will go for her run, review her journal with me, and train her ass with the buttplug. At first I was skeptical about this sort of fine-grained scheduling but cunt seems to be adapting to it very well. The end goal of all of this is to keep her on track with all of her goals without me having to constantly remind her. Now she knows exactly what she is to do every single day and what the punishment is if she does not follow the protocol. I am curious to hear from others that may have instituted or been party to such a thing. Does it work? Is there something lost when removing the element of surprise? I am the proud owner of dagoberts_cunt. She lives to serve me in all ways until the end of her days. 2 Oct 10, 11:45 PM 250-140-386 US(NV), 20 mths Structure is almost always a good thing. Knowing what to expect out of your day is a great feeling, for me anyways. Master is working on a schedule for both me and the kids, it is a work in progress but i am looking forward to when it is finished. 2 Oct 10, 11:54 PM Dagobert US(WA), 21 mths Interesting. I am a person that may appear to be very structured to others but internally rely solely on the chaos theory...it just happens to all work out in the end! So, by setting forth a schedule for cunt I am in fact not only guiding her but myself. It's therapy in a way, I guess. I am the proud owner of dagoberts_cunt. She lives to serve me in all ways until the end of her days. 3 Oct 10, 1:04 AM 250-140-386 US(NV), 20 mths Dagobert wrote: Interesting. I am a person that may appear to be very structured to others but internally rely solely on the chaos theory...it just happens to all work out in the end! So, by setting forth a schedule for cunt I am in fact not only guiding her but myself. It's therapy in a way, I guess. i have always had a hard time with dealing with chaos. i thrived in the U.S. Navy, having almost all my time scheduled was great. i like knowing exactly what to expect out of my day and change from that is very stressful. Granted, not everyone would do well with a very strict routine but i feel that i get kind of lost without one. i haven't had a good routine in a while and i feel that i never have enough time to do anything, which is why Master is working with me to create a schedule where i can get what i need done and have goals. 4 Oct 10, 2:22 AM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs i always excel when i have a schedule in place. Because my Master sets a schedule for me, not Himself, i have enough surprise and individuality in each day to make it not boring (He owns His own business and i work for Him, so very little is routine). i love having a schedule. We do not however schedule sexual items-this is soley to His discretion. i personally feel it would dampen the excitement of sex if it were scheduled. i do what Master wants me to do (or done to me) on His timeframe whether i am interested or not, lol. It would be too weird to have that scheduled. This may seem like micromanaging to some people and i suppose it may be-but once the initial scheduling is complete there is little for Master to do but enforce it which shouldn't be too hard, and answer questions about it. i know for us the benefit far outweighs any inconvenience. As with most things life sometimes gets in the way but i love schedules. i also love clear cut things: lists, rules, etc 898-443-818 i am a slave-i have no rights, no safewords, i do not say "no" to my Master. i do not have "limits". i have entered into consensual slavery, so that may help explain the views in my post. 4 Oct 10, 11:19 AM MarkMyWord 5 yrs In the past I have found that schedules and lists are very important when the training of a slave begins. She needs to know what is expected of her and when. As she learns how to serve and what pleases her Master most then these things tend to diminish in importance. They remain as the basis of the structure of the relationship but because she has learnt to serve they are less obvious. Sometimes it can take a year or two for a girlto learn all of her new life, sometimes she never fully learns. 4 Oct 10, 1:35 PM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs MarkMyWord wrote: In the past I have found that schedules and lists are very important when the training of a slave begins. She needs to know what is expected of her and when. As she learns how to serve and what pleases her Master most then these things tend to diminish in importance. They remain as the basis of the structure of the relationship but because she has learnt to serve they are less obvious. Sometimes it can take a year or two for a girlto learn all of her new life, sometimes she never fully learns. i personally would say it's more a time management issue. i have so many things to get done (mostly vanilla regular parenting and business running items) and focus isn't my strong point But the items must get done & are part of my job as a slave. i understand where You are coming from though-that a schedule could also be used early on as tool and some Master's would rather this be drawn back upon learning the routine. 898-443-818 i am a slave-i have no rights, no safewords, i do not say "no" to my Master. i do not have "limits". i have entered into consensual slavery, so that may help explain the views in my post. 4 Oct 10, 4:27 PM Dagobert US(WA), 21 mths Well, today is cunt's first full day of operating on her scheduled tasks. I was very pleased that she woke up on her own for her morning run. We'll see how the rest of the day goes. I am the proud owner of dagoberts_cunt. She lives to serve me in all ways until the end of her days. 4 Oct 10, 5:48 PM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs Dagobert wrote: Well, today is cunt's first full day of operating on her scheduled tasks. I was very pleased that she woke up on her own for her morning run. We'll see how the rest of the day goes. As someone who has lived this way a while i would say the biggest tool in Your arsenal is reinforcement. A minute thing that will keep her in her schedule 898-443-818 i am a slave-i have no rights, no safewords, i do not say "no" to my Master. i do not have "limits". i have entered into consensual slavery, so that may help explain the views in my post. Edited 4 Oct 10, 5:49 PM by 898-443-818 9 Dec 10, 12:36 AM Pooh_Bear US(NH), 18 mths Y! 250-140-386 wrote: Structure is almost always a good thing. Knowing what to expect out of your day is a great feeling.... I agree that structure is a good thing...especially for those of us who have always been planners. IMO it keeps a slave focused. My Master has a routine that I must follow but also allows me some freedom. 10 Dec 10, 1:35 AM crystalredroze US(OH), 4 yrs Y! i have a similar structure and i must say that the more Master adds to it the more i enjoy it. i like looking at the schedule at the end of the day and seeing what i accomplished. It has even helped me with my self esteem issues a bit as i see what ive been able to accomplish by the goals given to me. i wish you mush luck with it and i hope your slave enjoys it as well Next page