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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Does age matter?" 1 2 3 4 5 6 Does age matter? (53) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 16 Sep 10, 6:32 PM CraigDMCdom UK, 3 yrs Y! Personally speaking, age is not a problem, I have found however, that the younger sub tends to respect the older Dom/Domme. I admit, that I would prefer a younger slave, but as I am 58 now that is not really much of a surprise, a slave over 60 will need to lose a lot of habits they have gained over the years. So I would be looking for young untrained fresh flesh. 16 Sep 10, 7:37 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs Dagobert wrote: I am in a possibly rare position, being 4 years younger than cunt. On the surface it may seem absurd for a younger Master to completely and totally own an older slave but the reality is that it works great! Every relationship has a different dynamic, of course, but my experience says that age is not important; being compatible is. I am 5 years older than my Master and it makes no difference whats-so-ever. I do not think it is absurd at all... age is just a number counting time spent on this planet it does not in anyway translate to responsibility, maturity or intelligence. With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. - Keshavan Nair 17 Sep 10, 7:36 AM Jondeviant AU, 21 mths Y! Mistress_Of_Fate wrote: Hey i don't think age is improtant however i personally find it easier to dominate somone younger although i have dominated an older sub as well. part of it for me its because their younger that i feel i have more power over them I can understand that, however, part of me wonders if younger subs are easier to dominate simply because it's easier to know what's going on in their head. Because you've been there, you remember what it was like at that age. Is this cheating on the whole Dom thing perhaps? Short cutting on the point of the exercise so you don't need to put the effort in? Don't feel like I'm trying to make insult, I'm sure I've done it myself. Merely asking as a hypothetical. 17 Sep 10, 8:17 AM 347-926-367 US, 3 yrs 333-528-841 wrote: I am 7 years older than my Master. It really makes no difference to us, the only time age ever even comes up really is birthdays. In the big scheme of things, we are a good fit, I feel safe, loved and cared for, plus, to be honest, Master is more mature in some aspects then I am. thats all that matters!! 17 Sep 10, 3:11 PM Sir_A_Griff CA, 3 yrs I suppose very important age differences matter to some subs or Masters because they feel the relationship might not last very long for biological reasons. But there is the vanilla example of Charlie Chaplin and Oona O'Neil who had a 36 year difference but were still married 34 years. Nef and I had a 14 year age difference and we had different experiences which helped in Our discussions but we knew we at least liked each other and we were going the same road. So I think the character and background fit is more important than the age difference. Griff 18 Sep 10, 2:57 PM karmakitten US(WI), 20 mths Y! Age has truly never been an issue for me, per se, as I would not exclude someone, if I were unowned, on the basis of age. With that said, my path in life for some reason or other has matched me with older men. My master is 52 and I am 39. We are, however, people, not numbers. It was His intelligence, His imagination, His outlook on life, His comfort-level with Himself, and things of that nature that attracted me to Him. His age, well I just found that a coincidence that has occurred in my life, that I'm attracted to men older than myself. MastrJ45's slave, karmakitten 19 Sep 10, 2:49 AM MeluthTur US(TN), 6 yrs £ Y! Age has never been that important to Me over the years until recently. I had trained many that were between 22 and 36 and of course since I was much older, enjoyed the control of the younger ones. I guess it is more a man thing that went along with it. I have had a few that were up to 10 years older, and that was fun indeed and had no problem with it at all other than one tended to bruise very easily. As far as ownership goes, I have had a couple that were some 28, and 20 years younger and found that it did not work out. The weird thing was the one that was 28 years younger I believe was more mature and committed to our relationship than the older one however I felt the need to find another Master, younger and more suitable for her. And she is very happy today but still does not understands why I did it. Even tho at the time age played a part the change was more of a compatability issue. But as it went for finding one to settle with in the life style, I was looking for someone closer to My age to give us more in common. But I soon found out that age was relative on several levels once I met Kim. She IS My "caoimhe" and always will be. She is also 13 years younger than I which as it turns out, does not matter in the least. So when I search for an addition to the house, age will not be a factor. Age is what you make of it, but I would hope you make nothing at all out of it. Respectfully MeluthTur 27 Sep 10, 3:36 AM tia1982 AU, 2 yrs Age is definitely just a number, however my Sir is older than me (by 19yrs) and I couldn't ever think of being sub to someone my own age (28). We are both in the same place in our lives (divorced, one child each) so we don't want more kids and that suits us fine. I think age is irrelevant if you are at the same point in your lives and are looking for the same things. I wouldn't wish to be with anyone else, the chemistry is amazing and having his support, protection and guidance (and experience) is a blessing. 27 Sep 10, 2:23 PM 254-963-103 6 yrs Both of my owner's were 1-3 yrs. older than I was. I think being submissive, the older owner has certain assertive and authoritative advantage. 27 Sep 10, 6:05 PM 209-766-636 US(MA), 3 yrs i am older than JD, and it isnt a problem for us Next page