This page sponsored by JT's Stockroom    [other banners]

	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Things You Do That Result In Punishment" Things You Do That Result In Punishment (8) This post is on the Other Topics web board. Wed 1 Sep 10, 4:48 PM Glinda UK, 2 yrs I've been following the thread "The Principles & Purposes of Punishment" and I've found it really interesting. It has made me wonder what sort of things slaves do wrong that cause punishment to take place. Do you get punished for things that would not be considered wrong or bad in the vanilla world or do you have to do something really extreme to receive it? Does the punishment depend on the mood your master/mistress is in at the time (you know like if he/she has had a bad day his/her tolerance level may not be as high so things that may usually be overlooked will result in punishment or the punishment being more severe)? Or is your master/mistress always careful about when to carry out the punishment so it doesn't go too far? Has your master/mistress ever regretted a punishment they've given you afterwards and if so have they tried to make amends in some way? I'm not talking about punishments that are really just for 'play' like a playful spanking, I mean the kind that you really don't like and try to avoid. 1 Sep 10, 5:39 PM 978-291-889 2 yrs Glinda wrote: Things You Do That Result In Punishment I've been following the thread "The Principles & Purposes of Punishment" and I've found it really interesting. It has made me wonder what sort of things slaves do wrong that cause punishment to take place. Do you get punished for things that would not be considered wrong or bad in the vanilla world or do you have to do something really extreme to receive it? Glinda, i really think you should try this lifestyle you'd learn a heck of a lot more... you might even enjoy it We get punished because we have displeased our Owner. Each Owner is unique in their rules and expectations - just like some children will be punished for going over the edge of the paper when colouring and marking the table ... other kids can get away with scribing their name in the side of dad's new car with their penknife... Glinda wrote: Does the punishment depend on the mood your master/mistress is in at the time (you know like if he/she has had a bad day his/her tolerance level may not be as high so things that may usually be overlooked will result in punishment or the punishment being more severe)? Or is your master/mistress always careful about when to carry out the punishment so it doesn't go too far? Does the way you interact with people depend on your day? Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesnt. How are you when you have PMT? Tired? Do you cope well and remain calm? Everyone will answer this differently. I would hope EVERY Master/Mistress is careful that a punishment doesnt go too far... Please remember Glinda, we are precious to our Owners, punishment should be used as correction (IMO) and our wellbeing should be foremost. Glinda wrote: Has your master/mistress ever regretted a punishment they've given you afterwards and if so have they tried to make amends in some way? I'm not talking about punishments that are really just for 'play' like a playful spanking, I mean the kind that you really don't like and try to avoid. I can't speak on behalf of Master and i wont try - but i know He has never tried to 'make ammends' - it is a punishment, it isnt meant to be pleasant. I know He considers His punishments carefully and trys to ensure they fit the 'crime'. A while ago, i lost the privilege my dressing gown and slippers for not putting a cigarette butt down the drain, it remained on the drain cover and Master found it... I consider myself to be very fortunate that Master didn't make me stop smoking. Do you consider that to be 'wrong' or 'bad'? That said, I only care what Master considers to be 'bad'. He is the one who sets the rules i am to follow. If you think that the punishment didn't fit - it was my last cigarette at night, without my dressing gown and slippers (and no permission to get dressed), i was unable to go outside to smoke The cuffs and ropes might have to be removed in the morning... but the bonds of love stretch as far as 2 people can roam. 1 Sep 10, 8:02 PM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs <Do you get punished for things that would not be considered wrong or bad in the vanilla world> When i get punished it is almost always because i have played with myself without express permission. i have a really high sex drive Sometimes, i can't sleep without it. Also, if life has been hectic, and i feel my behavior isn't being monitored and i feel a little too much freedom, i guess it's a way for me to "act out" although it's embarrassing to admit such. Many times Master wouldn't know but i always confess. i can't keep things from Him, that induces more guilt & emotional discomfort than the punishment. <or do you have to do something really extreme to receive it?> i don't really do anything extreme how boring lol. <Does the punishment depend on the mood your master/mistress is in at the time (you know like if he/she has had a bad day his/her tolerance level may not be as high so things that may usually be overlooked will result in punishment or the punishment being more severe)?> No, but i would say, He may be quicker to dole out punishment depending on the mood He is in. Most slaves here have probably made a "joke" in the wrong moment & regretted it later at least i have.... <Or is your master/mistress always careful about when to carry out the punishment so it doesn't go too far?> yup <Has your master/mistress ever regretted a punishment they've given you afterwards and if so have they tried to make amends in some way?> No 898-443-818 i am a slave-i have no rights, no safewords, i do not say "no" to my Master. i do not have "limits". i have entered into consensual slavery, so that may help explain the views in my post. 4 Sep 10, 2:34 AM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs Glinda wrote: Do you get punished for things that would not be considered wrong or bad in the vanilla world or do you have to do something really extreme to receive it? It's a rare thing for me to get punished at all, but punishable acts for us are similar. The only exceptions would be things in the area of choice/approval - clothing, conversations/friendships and that. (And of course rather than acceptance or argument, I get a punishment.) Other things like spending his money without permission, careless destruction of his possessions (I've been punished on both accounts - putting a new pc system on his account, grossly exceeding my own budget, repeatedly flooding the mudroom, shattering a 14x6 foot area of windows while "engineering"... BUT I have learned!) and/or not complying within a reasonable time (those too) aren't much different than the conventional world. In fact, my boundaries are pretty much the same as his sons' - I just have a few more, too. Glinda wrote: Does the punishment depend on the mood your master/mistress is in at the time (you know like if he/she has had a bad day his/her tolerance level may not be as high so things that may usually be overlooked will result in punishment or the punishment being more severe)? As I've said, I don't get punished often but it's a very true thing that the happier C is at any given moment, the more tolerant he is as well. I think most people are that way. That's not to say he'll punish more severely than I could have expected - but I have been given unexpected "waivers" from time to time. Glinda wrote: Or is your master/mistress always careful about when to carry out the punishment so it doesn't go too far? He does have a mighty temper. But we've resolved this through time-outs that can be called by either of us. I have a large cage with my bed in it. If I've been sent there, I don't leave without permission but it's a "safe" zone for me as well - no angry or painful behaviours allowed. If he is too angry to discuss/make the best decision or if I believe that he is, we take an hour (minimum) to cool down and I spend it there. Then, we approach the matter again. Glinda wrote: Has your master/mistress ever regretted a punishment they've given you afterwards and if so have they tried to make amends in some way? He has. I think most persons in hindsight have things they believe they could have handled better. But the "damage" has always been minimal, he's apologized and I've forgiven. Works well. Eva (The property formerly known as Camille ) 3 Oct 10, 3:55 AM jilly_His_slave US(TN), 20 mths i don't really get punished much at all, playfully Master will spank me daily, usually i might get too cheeky in a cute way, a quick wack of a bamboo cane usually lets me know that this will turn into something ugly if i don't quit, When Master has seriously punished me He usually does by ignoring me or telling me i have disappointed or upset him, either of these absolutely crushes me, to my knowledge i don't tend to make the same mistake again so i do learn from it. i know Master hates to punish me seriously so i don't let myself get out of hand but more so the last thing i ever want to do is upset or disappoint Him. Read & Posted with Permission of Master A slave is one who waits for someone to come and free her. Ezra Pound 29 Dec 10, 6:12 AM kris2010 5 yrs i think i maybe severely punished this weekend i told my master i gave myself pleasure on his answering machine he hates when i cant cum for him 29 Dec 10, 7:17 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs kristian wrote: i think i maybe severely punished this weekend i told my master i gave myself pleasure on his answering machine he hates when i cant cum for him I'd be pretty pissed too if you'd spunked all over my phone! My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! 29 Dec 10, 7:46 AM bastets_daughter 2 yrs Lord_Uther wrote: kristian wrote: i think i maybe severely punished this weekend i told my master i gave myself pleasure on his answering machine he hates when i cant cum for him I'd be pretty pissed too if you'd spunked all over my phone! Rofl. The same thing ran through my mind. 29 Dec 10, 4:50 PM lil_one_anjuli 20 mths Glinda wrote: Things You Do That Result In Punishment I've been following the thread "The Principles & Purposes of Punishment" and I've found it really interesting. It has made me wonder what sort of things slaves do wrong that cause punishment to take place. Mostly is when i didnt follow an order or i forgot some rule or etiquette. Glinda wrote: Do you get punished for things that would not be considered wrong or bad in the vanilla world or do you have to do something really extreme to receive it? really extreme. Punishment is not something easily done...and frankly i dont forget the rules because i am in the mood....so punishment seldom exist.... What exist are quick corrections..which has not the lenght nor the heavy environment of the punishment... Glinda wrote: Does the punishment depend on the mood your master/mistress is in at the time (you know like if he/she has had a bad day his/her tolerance level may not be as high so things that may usually be overlooked will result in punishment or the punishment being more severe)? Or is your master/mistress always careful about when to carry out the punishment so it doesn't go too far? He is careful...and tried to decide using the Head not the heart or mood. Glinda wrote: Has your master/mistress ever regretted a punishment they've given you afterwards and if so have they tried to make amends in some way? no, but He always tells me He loves me . Glinda wrote: I'm not talking about punishments that are really just for 'play' like a playful spanking, I mean the kind that you really don't like and try to avoid. nor do i...sometimes i do give Master excuses for Him to spank me as punishment in a playfully way... Playful pusnihment is something that is done and it happens very frequently. Edited 29 Dec 10, 4:55 PM by lil_one_anjuli