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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "HOW LARGE IS YOUR “NO-LIMITS”?" 1 2 3 4 HOW LARGE IS YOUR “NO-LIMITS”? (36) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 23 Sep 10, 10:08 AM bastets_daughter 2 yrs Back when i was younger, my 'no limits' put me in hospital with infected rope burn and a drastically bruised air-pipe thing (the bit in your throat) - and believe me, the lectures i got from the nurses over that were an exceeded limit all of their own. I'm not that dumb anymore.And I dont wash with the whole 'no limits' thing anyway. It doesnt make any sense whatsoever to use. Maybe, 'i have my Masters limits' or 'i have sane limits' but unless you're gonna chop off your limb or murder someone else because your Master told you to, i dont think 'no limits' is applicable. On the same token, if you were willing to do that, i'd suggest getting your head read :P (and no matter how often i mention this 'no limits' thing, i realise that im not gonna change anyone who still wants to use it. Before anyone argues, im aware that your Masters wouldnt ask you to lop off limbs or assasinate key members of parliament, and im not trying to offend how very devoted you are as a slave, i just hate the term) 23 Sep 10, 1:17 PM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs <Back when i was younger, my 'no limits' put me in hospital with infected rope burn and a drastically bruised air-pipe thing (the bit in your throat)> So how well did you know this person? Were you married to him? Lived with him? Owned by him for years? If not, than that may explain why some people responded differently. i realize if the term doesn't appeal to you than that's that you don't care for it, that's cool. But isn't it true that my Master won't ask me to injure any parliament members anytime soon? That is kind of an important distinction-real life versus "philosophical questions" of what someone may ask of their slave. i see your point but i could have lived without the choice of words you used here: I'm not that dumb anymore and here: how very devoted you are as a slave, cuz it comes off kind of condescending. However, if given the choice, i would say i have Master's limit's as opposed to "no limits" but no limits is just the verbiage most people use. 898-443-818 i am a slave-i have no rights, no safewords, i do not say "no" to my Master. i do not have "limits". i have entered into consensual slavery, so that may help explain the views in my post. 23 Sep 10, 2:10 PM bastets_daughter 2 yrs When i was younger....as in, i was 17. No, bizarrely, i was not married. This was a mistake i made when i was young, playing at 'no limits' - i even believed in the concept back then. The follies of youth. I've had so many people get all up in arms because i disagree with the term on the basis of common sense, (their argument being much as yours, again, that there master would never ask them so that somehow validates the use 'no limits') that i get a little touchy about it. I definitely did not mean to be condescending. I get what people mean. As a communication tool, the term will prevail, no matter how often i argue against its use. 23 Sep 10, 2:11 PM bastets_daughter 2 yrs When i said 'im not that dumb anymore' what i meant was that im not dumb enough to let some newby mess around with breath control. You took it the wrong way, sorry about that. 23 Sep 10, 8:41 PM slavegail UK, 6 yrs Y! when i joined my Owners over 6 years ago they told me i would have no limits except those they gave me. they told me what they were and they would be written in stone,the last time i made a decision of my own was to say yes Master/Mistress i accept your rules and agree to be your slave. the next decision i make will be if they ever break them. slavegail Property of NG1 24 Sep 10, 6:58 PM imdmb7 US(NY), 2 yrs Y! maby you will call me biased cause im an owner and not a slave, but i figure ill make a post here anyways personaly im a subscriber to the whole "'im a slave so i give up my control to you' 'im a dom and i except the responsibility that comes with that control'" thing i have many rules, and alot of them have to do with my safty and the safty of the house, i have strict policies that say how slaves must speak when in public, one happens to be that slaves may not speak in public, they are to speak to me then i shall relay it on to whoever we are talking to. maby that sounds extream but there are alot of dangers in the world, and some of the dangers are the cops, if one slave of my house gets found out to be a slave then everybody in the house will end up spending time in a federal prison, maby thats an extream case, but better safe then sorry i try my best to look at all possibilities and make sure things are safe BUT if i were to have a slave notice a friend in the mall who happens to be part of the lifestyle and i reminded him/her that s/he is not to speak aloud and s/he had a safeword s/he might decide thats a good place to use it then what could i do? i cant let them jeopardize their life or mine so no, i do not allow my slaves to have safewords, i do however let them have an uncomfyword, more like 'yellow' in the standard safeword line, but i figure if a slave needs 'red' then maby they arent ready to sign the contract, maby we need to spend more time talking, maby i need to spend more time gaining trust so they wont feel the need to have a safeword and they will feel quite adequate with just an uncomfyword on the same sort of line i dont allow limits, i do however have them tell me everything, if they have somthing that would be a limit then they tell me why it would be a limit and i will more likely then not tell them that they have nothing to fear and i probably will make a mental note that its somthing that wouldent be very good to do because of whatever very good reason it is they gave me, however it is not a limit, i would be fully able to do it, i would just choose to respect the issue as it stands and not do it i have limits myself, there are things that i wont do, if they have a limit thats the same as mine then lucky them, if its not a limit of mine then would better have a good reason, and even then, theres no guarentees (edited because my internet kicked out while sending and ended up loosing a couple paragraphs) Edited 24 Sep 10, 7:09 PM by imdmb7