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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "searching for Master" searching for Master (10) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board (moved from Internal Enslavement). Fri 27 Aug 10, 12:55 AM RupiniBoy US(FL), 17 mths Hi Hi, Like many other slaves, i am looking for a Master to care for this slave and teach me new things. Sadly i live in a small town called Winter Haven where there is not much to choose from. There is even less for this slave because i am gay and in search of a male Master. Are there any websites other than this one that can help this slave with his problem... even if it is just for chatting. 27 Aug 10, 1:24 AM Sprite US(OH), 2 yrs This girl can say you could try: www.fetlife.com www.informedconsent.co.uk/ and www.collarme.com hope this information helped a little bit, and best of luck in your search. -Master's pet Always- 27 Aug 10, 7:31 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs Try www.recon.com ...it's the main gay site. My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! Edited 27 Aug 10, 7:32 AM by Lord_Uther 27 Aug 10, 8:09 PM RupiniBoy US(FL), 17 mths Thank you! i have already visited half the sites and very happy, but need to step out for a bit. This slave still has a few questions: When contacting a potential Master should i act myself or should this slave be in slave mode 24/7 even when he is not owned? This slave's second question is to know if he has said too much about himself in his profile or needs to explain more in certain areas? If so which ones? Greatly appriciate any help being that this slave is very new. 28 Aug 10, 2:36 AM RupiniBoy US(FL), 17 mths yes... yes it is. i have anxiety problems about pleasing my future Master. 28 Aug 10, 8:49 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs Rupiniboy...I do feel and understand your frustration. In my experience most of those that are gay & into this 'lifestyle' are just in it for hardcore abusive sex. I have found it extremely difficult to find a slave that is into this as a lifestyle and is willing to do more than talk the talk. Unfortunately I have no answers except to persevere. RupiniBoy wrote: Thank you! When contacting a potential Master should i act myself or should this slave be in slave mode 24/7 even when he is not owned? IMO you should do what makes you feel comfortable, but a submissive, respectful tone should be applied. The person doesn't own you and has no authority over you until you hand it to them, as slow/fast as you/He decide. This slave's second question is to know if he has said too much about himself in his profile or needs to explain more in certain areas? If so which ones? I'm of the belief that you should supply as much info about you as you can to help a Master assess your suitability, but don't feel pressure to supply on a public forum more information than you care to be made public about you, you can always discuss those things in private. My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! Edited 28 Aug 10, 8:58 AM by Lord_Uther 28 Aug 10, 2:26 PM SirSeven 2 yrs RupiniBoy wrote: When contacting a potential Master should i act myself or should this slave be in slave mode 24/7 even when he is not owned? I would recommend showing only basic, common courtesy to any potential master. For your safety, I would not recommend "slave mode" until you know the person you are dealing with well enough and trust them. Acting as a slave to potential masters, or complete strangers, can be very risky. RupiniBoy wrote: This slave's second question is to know if he has said too much about himself in his profile or needs to explain more in certain areas? If so which ones? I think your profile is good but you should consider telling more about your specific talents/skills and what you can offer any potential master. Good luck. To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing. -Elbert Hubbard 29 Aug 10, 12:20 AM Master4536 US(IL), 19 mths I agree with SirSeven. True Masters that seek a slave as permanent property are less interested in a slave's likes and dislikes (seeing it as arrogance on the slave's part to think a Master should care about such things), and expect more about what the slave can offer the Master. Being a Master takes a lot of work and planning in the slave's care and training, so the Master wants to know why he should take your masturbating-to-bondage-porn addicted ass as his personal property. I mean, c'mon, do you really think a real Master gives a shit that you don't like South Park? Do you think this is a fuckin' Miss America pageant and you're trying for Miss Congeniality? Not only does it make you appear high maintenance, but it also wastes the Master's time reading it. From what I can see, you spent a whole lot of time thinking about yourself. Wait until you are naked and kneeling with the Master's collar and he asks you directly if you want to watch South Park, THEN you can let him know you dislike it. If you are sincere about being owned for life, market yourself as a slave, not as someone's bff text buddy. Specifically target the type of Master you have been fantasizing about and beating off to. Any Master that has been around for a few years obtaining and training slaves, is aware that it's not what a slave says, but what he did not say. You don't like South Park... that's too fuckin' funny! I'd kick you in the nuts with steel-toed boots if I thought it might increase your IQ... and I weren't laughing so hard! Good luck on our quest, boy. Edited 29 Aug 10, 12:24 AM by Master4536 29 Aug 10, 6:29 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs Master4536 wrote: I agree with SirSeven. True Masters that seek a slave as permanent property are less interested in a slave's likes and dislikes (seeing it as arrogance on the slave's part to think a Master should care about such things), and expect more about what the slave can offer the Master. Being a Master takes a lot of work and planning in the slave's care and training, so the Master wants to know why he should take your masturbating-to-bondage-porn addicted ass as his personal property. I mean, c'mon, do you really think a real Master gives a shit that you don't like South Park? Do you think this is a fuckin' Miss America pageant and you're trying for Miss Congeniality? Not only does it make you appear high maintenance, but it also wastes the Master's time reading it. From what I can see, you spent a whole lot of time thinking about yourself. Wait until you are naked and kneeling with the Master's collar and he asks you directly if you want to watch South Park, THEN you can let him know you dislike it. If you are sincere about being owned for life, market yourself as a slave, not as someone's bff text buddy. Specifically target the type of Master you have been fantasizing about and beating off to. Any Master that has been around for a few years obtaining and training slaves, is aware that it's not what a slave says, but what he did not say. You don't like South Park... that's too fuckin' funny! I'd kick you in the nuts with steel-toed boots if I thought it might increase your IQ... and I weren't laughing so hard! Good luck on our quest, boy. Now now let's be nice. He's new to the scene, has admitted he has had minimal contact and probably has no idea how to go about this. We all had to start somewhere and at least he's been intelligent enough to know this and ask for advice. There's no need to be nasty about this. My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! 31 Aug 10, 5:57 AM bastets_daughter 2 yrs Master4536 wrote: I agree with SirSeven. True Masters that seek a slave as permanent property are less interested in a slave's likes and dislikes (seeing it as arrogance on the slave's part to think a Master should care about such things), and expect more about what the slave can offer the Master. Being a Master takes a lot of work and planning in the slave's care and training, so the Master wants to know why he should take your masturbating-to-bondage-porn addicted ass as his personal property. I mean, c'mon, do you really think a real Master gives a shit that you don't like South Park? Do you think this is a fuckin' Miss America pageant and you're trying for Miss Congeniality? Not only does it make you appear high maintenance, but it also wastes the Master's time reading it. From what I can see, you spent a whole lot of time thinking about yourself. Wait until you are naked and kneeling with the Master's collar and he asks you directly if you want to watch South Park, THEN you can let him know you dislike it. If you are sincere about being owned for life, market yourself as a slave, not as someone's bff text buddy. Specifically target the type of Master you have been fantasizing about and beating off to. Any Master that has been around for a few years obtaining and training slaves, is aware that it's not what a slave says, but what he did not say. You don't like South Park... that's too fuckin' funny! I'd kick you in the nuts with steel-toed boots if I thought it might increase your IQ... and I weren't laughing so hard! Good luck on our quest, boy. I should think a 'True Master' would be interested in learning how his slave ticked - including the mundane stuff like whether or not that slave likes watching South Park. I would say any Master who is inclined to see arrogance in a new submissive for being as detailed as they can about themselves might be projecting just a tad. 31 Aug 10, 10:50 PM RupiniBoy US(FL), 17 mths i only thought that there are some Masters who like to have conversations with their slaves to "see what makes them tick". This slave does not feel that he would be good at having conversations with a Master who has a differnt view of South Park if that was the desired topic. Yes, i have been told i come off as arrogant online. This slave is just programmed that way through teaching but doesn't mean to be. his main focus is on being cute in public. As far as skills, this slave is good at drawing, taking notes, house cleaning, minor in English, major in Art, make plans, serve, and just likes to remember weird facts. Willing to learn whatever his Master forces, or tells him to do. Don't have a father so i am lacking alot of skills in that area of teaching. This slave is not looking for a father figure, just explaining. this slave is liking recon the most out of the sites recommeded, so thank you.