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	TSR : Web boards : Website help : "Preferential status on TSR" Preferential status on TSR (2) This post is on the Website help web board. Thu 19 Aug 10, 3:35 AM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs This is an off-shoot of the "Online, live in, LDR..." thread. caoimhe wrote: If caoimhe may point something out. While W/we all have the right to free speech (as long as those of us owned are given permission)it seems to me that part of the problems with these angry threads are that some submissives, pets, properties have a tendency to push issues even after a Master/DOM/Owner has asked for the post to stop. Is this really the behavior of a bottom? Master would light up this girl's world if she continued on after Another requested for the post to end. That is just ettiquete. They may not own caoimhe but she is to always be on her best behavior, especially in speaking or posting publicly whether Master is around or not. The point is that just because Someone on here is not your Master/Dom/Owner, does not mean that you should ignore their requests, reiterate, or argue the point. If you wish to discuss the differences in memo away from the forums, caoimhe will be happy to talk with you since she has lived all three with her Master. (Emphasis mine) I've read nothing in site policy that requires or even expects that d-types be shown preferential status by s-types. Speaking for myself, I don't equate identification as a d-type on TSR with authority as regards myself and I think logically it should a choice left to the individual(s) concerned. To your questioning of the personal integrity of any s-type who doesn't share your beliefs in the matter, again I can speak only for myself. I've been a slave for several years now and I (and my owner and those who know me well) believe I'm honest, genuine and authentic - both as a person and a slave. Eva (I did read Meluth Tur's comments here and in the "Respect IMO" thread. But, as I would have in our last exchange, I prefer to address my comments on those posted by you, directly to you.) (The property formerly known as Camille ) Edited Thu 19 Aug 10, 3:36 AM by EvaMaria 19 Aug 10, 6:50 AM slave_emma US(OK), 6 yrs Y! How would we actually know if someone's dominant asked them to stop posting on a topic, in less they actually post in the topic for their s-type to stop? I really think it is up to the s-type's owner to make a determination if someone is out of line, not random people identifying as Master/Dom/Owner and etc. A lot of topics would end very quickly if no s-type could comment after any M-type says stop. I suppose this really goes back to if you have an issue with the behavior of an s-type then talk to their M-type about it. However more often, I think people interject their own emotion into what people are writing rather than what they are really saying. When someone takes someone else's life experience as an attack on their household or way of life; this really isn't the submissive/slave/bottom's fault. This is more of a misunderstanding. I think it is important to remember that everyone has different life experiences and different opinions and it's not something to be taken offensively. People discussing their different opinions, if done in a civil manner can lead to a great discussion or debate. Not everyone is going to agree on every subject. I think it is important not to take what other people say personally. Best wishes, slave emma Master Howard's little girl 19 Aug 10, 7:16 PM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs This slave agrees with you, Eva. She guesses it's just Caoihme's opinion. -Bina Always the curious one ~ His bina