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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Online, live in, LDR..." 1 2 3 4 Online, live in, LDR... (33) This post is on the Other Topics web board. 18 Aug 10, 6:13 PM SeanT70 9 yrs SeanT70 wrote: *space reserved for reply to td..* I would write it now, having read yours, but have a busy day and don't have time; Sean. Coming back now to write the aforementioned post; No-one is suggesting you should agree with anything 'anyone' says, it is a free society where everyone is entitled to their own opinion; if we, in our own lil dark corner of that free society started curtailing others opinions, then we'd subscribe to how the masses find us wrong for living in our own skin. That is not a contradiction to what I said before, it's further to. But that isn't what this is about. The simple one fact remains, and Owned&Loved amongst others mentioned this, you didn't, in your OP set out to discuss the realm 'of' a subject - the subject being the difference between OL/LDR and 24/7 relationships. That discussion which is what this thread 'should' have been about, really need not have involved any reference in any slightest detail to any thread of the past at all. You suggest that others, including me, I suspect, have a hard time getting our heads round your posts, but what part of leaving that thread alone and making a new productive thread didn't you get your head round? Fine, ultimately this has come from a very bad lack of communication skills, but the problem is, the intent of your OP was picked up as bad by many, not just one. Think about it and try again, perhaps - there is still room to talk about 'your' lifestyle, which ultimately *I* don't and many wouldn't have any qualms with; but right now, seeing the woods for the trees is a problem. I do 'woodwork' me, and I will cut anyone down to size that needs it. The thing of agreeing about an issue is neither here nor there. I'm done with this thread now; not because I wanted a last word, but because I have better things to do than push a misunderstanding backwards and forwards all over again. I've said 'where' the error is; only you, td, can rectify it; apparently you can't see that you should. Oh. That is not to suggest that I have any kind of disliking for you, nor the principal content of your posts - that is by the by and not even why I'm so fed up. Agreeing to disagree, and remaining civil is key I think (how we each go about 'that' varies from person to person, we get that) Regards to all, Sean. 18 Aug 10, 8:04 PM tainted_desire UK, 7 yrs Well I'm bout done with this post myself me reckons. The original intent was not to stir up any bad feelings from previous posts, I merely stated that it got me pondering about the topic itself. td SeanT70 wrote: SeanT70 wrote: *space reserved for reply to td..* I would write it now, having read yours, but have a busy day and don't have time; Sean. Coming back now to write the aforementioned post; No-one is suggesting you should agree with anything 'anyone' says, it is a free society where everyone is entitled to their own opinion; if we, in our own lil dark corner of that free society started curtailing others opinions, then we'd subscribe to how the masses find us wrong for living in our own skin. That is not a contradiction to what I said before, it's further to. But that isn't what this is about. The simple one fact remains, and Owned&Loved amongst others mentioned this, you didn't, in your OP set out to discuss the realm 'of' a subject - the subject being the difference between OL/LDR and 24/7 relationships. That discussion which is what this thread 'should' have been about, really need not have involved any reference in any slightest detail to any thread of the past at all. You suggest that others, including me, I suspect, have a hard time getting our heads round your posts, but what part of leaving that thread alone and making a new productive thread didn't you get your head round? Fine, ultimately this has come from a very bad lack of communication skills, but the problem is, the intent of your OP was picked up as bad by many, not just one. Think about it and try again, perhaps - there is still room to talk about 'your' lifestyle, which ultimately *I* don't and many wouldn't have any qualms with; but right now, seeing the woods for the trees is a problem. I do 'woodwork' me, and I will cut anyone down to size that needs it. The thing of agreeing about an issue is neither here nor there. I'm done with this thread now; not because I wanted a last word, but because I have better things to do than push a misunderstanding backwards and forwards all over again. I've said 'where' the error is; only you, td, can rectify it; apparently you can't see that you should. Oh. That is not to suggest that I have any kind of disliking for you, nor the principal content of your posts - that is by the by and not even why I'm so fed up. Agreeing to disagree, and remaining civil is key I think (how we each go about 'that' varies from person to person, we get that) Regards to all, Sean. 18 Aug 10, 10:30 PM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs This slave thinks everyone needs to take a step back and take a deep breath. What IS it with TSR members lately? Everyone jumped that slave's case faster than she finished posting. GEEZE. Come on people. Respect. Manners. Be nice? Go back and reread her original post. The girl didn't say, "I reread this post from 2 years ago - post link here - and think that everyone here was a bunch of - swear word here -" Seriously. Calm down people. TSR is getting way out of hand lately. -Bina ps - She knows -this- will also piss people off. But imagine that you're the other person, try to be open when reading their post a second time, and imagine that you're NEW to TSR. Does this look good for TSR? No wonder why the member base is so dang low (over 150,000 isn't that much, probably only half are even active). Always the curious one ~ His bina 19 Aug 10, 12:16 AM MeluthTur US(TN), 6 yrs £ Y! Quote from tainted Why should I bow tow to anybody who hasn't yet earned my or my Master's respect, just because they claim to be Dominant? Please see new thread "Respect" Respectfully MeluthTur 19 Aug 10, 12:55 AM angelik US(CA), 5 yrs bina i posted on this topic and tried to be as positive as i could. i answered her questions about the different types of relationships, now with your last post you used the word everyone that leaving me in your post as well and i find that very desparaging as i always act how Master wants and i don't send a post until he approves it. i think as a whole that you shouldn't use the word EVERYONE unless it really is true.there are also others that tried to explain the differences as well, anyways just wanted to express my feelings on this statement that you made Edited 19 Aug 10, 12:04 PM by angelik 19 Aug 10, 1:43 AM MeluthTur US(TN), 6 yrs £ Y! SeanT70 wrote: caoihme wrote: If you wish to discuss the differences in memo away from the forums, caoimhe will be happy to talk with you since she has lived all three with her Master. That is a little of a contradiction in terms; you are seemingly offering a suggestion of what a poster can and can't post about while posting here, offering the premise of a memo away from the forum, to discuss the intended topic of the thread in the first place. No offence, I find that odd. Regards, Sean. I can also reply here very quickly caoimhe decision in offering advice through memos... She had some very positive things to say to the op and after looking at the thread, did not want it to be pounced on and make things worse than the thread already was..I thought this not unwise at all under the circumstances. Respectfully MeluthTur 19 Aug 10, 2:48 AM MasterVaughn US(WY), 5 yrs £ Y! Greetings one and all, I have been following this thread for a while now it is seems to me that a lot of things are being rehashed in different wording many times over. Might I suggest that before this gets entirely out of hand and someone gets seriously hurt by offense that the subject be dropped. Everyone has their own view on this and it seems that this is one of those times that it would be best to agree to disagree and let the subject rest as it is just going in circles. There are a lot of people on here that are friends and some of us that have trouble finding time to get involved in these discussions due to time constraints but there is no sense what so ever in beating this to death and someone ending up with hurt felling. Just my two cents worth. Master Vaughn Edited 19 Aug 10, 2:49 AM by MasterVaughn 19 Aug 10, 3:01 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs curious_bina wrote: This slave thinks everyone needs to take a step back and take a deep breath. What IS it with TSR members lately? Everyone jumped that slave's case faster than she finished posting. GEEZE. Come on people. Respect. Manners. Be nice? Go back and reread her original post. The girl didn't say, "I reread this post from 2 years ago - post link here - and think that everyone here was a bunch of - swear word here -" Seriously. Calm down people. TSR is getting way out of hand lately. -Bina ps - She knows -this- will also piss people off. But imagine that you're the other person, try to be open when reading their post a second time, and imagine that you're NEW to TSR. Does this look good for TSR? No wonder why the member base is so dang low (over 150,000 isn't that much, probably only half are even active). I don't think I jumped on anyone Bina, from reading the first time or the fifth time. I stand by what I say just the same as you would, that was MY perception and obviously that of some others. I don't think there is anything "wrong" with the members of TSR, or TSR itself for that matter. I myself share Sean's thoughts that I too am also just fed up with the lack of usefulness of some of the threads lately. Master and I are away on vacation right now. We brought a laptop but I will not be logging back onto the site for the remainder except to reply to memos. Some of this I find just too silly and Master has asked why bother right now. I too have better things to do. Oh, and just an observation on the membership base. I personally would take quality over quantity any day. Enjoy the rest of the summer. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown 19 Aug 10, 3:36 AM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs caoimhe wrote: If caoimhe may point something out. While W/we all have the right to free speech (as long as those of us owned are given permission)it seems to me that part of the problems with these angry threads are that some submissives, pets, properties have a tendency to push issues even after a Master/DOM/Owner has asked for the post to stop. Is this really the behavior of a bottom? Master would light up this girl's world if she continued on after Another requested for the post to end. That is just ettiquete. They may not own caoimhe but she is to always be on her best behavior, especially in speaking or posting publicly whether Master is around or not. The point is that just because Someone on here is not your Master/Dom/Owner, does not mean that you should ignore their requests, reiterate, or argue the point. If you wish to discuss the differences in memo away from the forums, caoimhe will be happy to talk with you since she has lived all three with her Master. I've responded to your post here. Eva (The property formerly known as Camille ) 19 Aug 10, 5:37 AM lavenderflower US(CA), 22 mths Hello, i am new to all of this and i am in a LDR with my Master. Master is teaching me not to take things personal and i work hard on this. Some of the information on this thread maybe uncomfortable and or maybe personal. I think we need to work together to be the best that we can be. Be loving and kind and help each other out. I agree what this person SeanT70 has said in regards to the misunderstanding and the backwards and forwards of the thread. Not sure if i make sense, and i hope i did not write out of line in any way. Respectfully, lavenderflower Edited 19 Aug 10, 5:38 AM by lavenderflower Next page