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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Different kind of switching" 1 2 Different kind of switching (12) This post is on the O&P web board. Tue 3 Aug 10, 8:23 AM 411-791-716 MX, 23 mths I am sure that this post will display how ignorant I am about many topics but after seeing someone else's profile I realized that that person had 7 previous names, they denoted different kinds of relationships like so and so's property, or so and so's pet... Anyway, I just started wondering, how common is it to change from slave to sub to pet to little girl... etc. I consider myself a slave and I can't see myself changing from one to the other but I am sure that this must not always be the case. I am not judging, I am just curious and would like to know if this is common. If you can please help me find this out I will be really grateful. All the best! 411-791-716 3 Aug 10, 8:32 AM Malkinius US(IL), 5 yrs Greetings..... 411-791-716 wrote: Different kind of switching I am sure that this post will display how ignorant I am about many topics but after seeing someone else's profile I realized that that person had 7 previous names, they denoted different kinds of relationships like so and so's property, or so and so's pet... Anyway, I just started wondering, how common is it to change from slave to sub to pet to little girl... etc. I consider myself a slave and I can't see myself changing from one to the other but I am sure that this must not always be the case. I am not judging, I am just curious and would like to know if this is common. If you can please help me find this out I will be really grateful. All the best! 411-791-716 The simple answer is that they could have been owned by different people and at different times and just created a new profile...or name and content switch...for each owner or each change in emphasis/status with the same owner. Or....you could have someone who really likes their velcro collars and playing at different things with different people. Without knowing the person and situation, it is hard to tell from the outside. Be well.... Malkinius 3 Aug 10, 8:38 AM 411-791-716 MX, 23 mths I have no doubts that it's someone who likes velcro collars, all those changes took place in a little over a year, but what I was wondering is if there are many others who go from being a pet to a slave or a little girl, I don't know if I'm making myself clear but I believe that the fundamentals of a Owner/pet relationship are different from a Master/slave one and different from a Daddy/little girl one. I can't see myself switching from one to another but I am wondering if there are others who can do it and feel fulfilled by it. 3 Aug 10, 9:07 AM 445-627-203 CA, 22 mths your question brings up more questions for me. i am hoping that others will be kind enough to answer without judging my ignorance on this topic. To answer your questions first, i have been a slave to my previous Master, a submissive to Doms that he lent me to, and am now a slave to a new Master (all over about 10 years). i don't think those roles were much of a stretch from each other, but that's all i can answer. i am curious though about how the dynamics of the other types of relationships that you've mentioned differ from the ones that i am used to? i know that everyone is different, but i was hoping that maybe some of you could share some examples. i really have no idea and really would like to know. thanks 3 Aug 10, 2:58 PM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs In my relationship we have a Master and slave and a Daddy / baby girl kind of at the same time. my Owner prefers "Daddy" over "Master" in everyday life-but He's not that kind of Daddy that treats me like a princess, more of a Daddy that treats me like a pain in the ass LOL. i mean, He is a strict Daddy, and i do what He says always, so while we "label" that Daddy sometimes and Master sometimes it is usually the same thing. Perhaps the He prefers the term Daddy as He is *always* protective, and always looking for "teaching moments" but He is always still in control & in charge, like His Master side. Geez, that is quite hard to explain, but we are what we are. We have been together a long time, so perhaps we have our own thing going on. Perhaps He just prefers Daddy for reasons i don't need to understand even though His behavior doesn't change tremendously either way. 898-443-818 i am a slave-i have no rights, no safewords, i do not say "no" to my Master. i do not have "limits". i have entered into consensual slavery, so that may help explain the views in my post. 3 Aug 10, 5:16 PM 445-627-203 CA, 22 mths giggles, thanks for sharing 818 3 Aug 10, 6:45 PM 411-791-716 MX, 23 mths Thank you very much 898, 445, Malkinius and darnthisanarch, it is not just interesting but also informative, I guess that again the answer is whatever works for a couple. I really love how there are as many answers to any question as people who can answer them. Edited to correct names Edited 3 Aug 10, 6:46 PM by 411-791-716 3 Aug 10, 7:16 PM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs Hello, This slave doesn't think changing is common for anyone unless it's in the beginning. This slave switched from leather slave to Gorean slave when she found her Gorean Master. She thinks besides the switching of ownership (leaving one Owner and being reowned in a different relationship), some people just discover themselves. They see what they want, and sometimes wants change. -Bina Always the curious one ~ His bina 3 Aug 10, 7:41 PM 411-791-716 MX, 23 mths curious_bina wrote: Hello, This slave doesn't think changing is common for anyone unless it's in the beginning. This slave switched from leather slave to Gorean slave when she found her Gorean Master. She thinks besides the switching of ownership (leaving one Owner and being reowned in a different relationship), some people just discover themselves. They see what they want, and sometimes wants change. -Bina That's what I thought also, that's why I thought it would be interesting to find the proportion of people that thought this way and the proportion of people who think differently. I know that the results will by no means be scientific. 4 Aug 10, 9:39 AM mutable 2 yrs Things have changed somewhat from my earlier post. However, my reality is such, that, although I belong to he (gladly) 'life' often interrupts. I know I'm fortunate that he is patient and thankful that he loves me, but currently our 'alternative preferences' are overshadowed by neccessary ones. This is more in my case than his. We communicate extensively, try to stay 'on track' and have many plans. For us though, at the moment, it is enough to know I am his - and we do what we can to re-enforce the dynamic when able. 'We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are' Anais Nin 6 Aug 10, 10:16 AM slave_Heather77 US(MO), 2 yrs curious_bina wrote: Hello, This slave doesn't think changing is common for anyone unless it's in the beginning. This slave switched from leather slave to Gorean slave when she found her Gorean Master. She thinks besides the switching of ownership (leaving one Owner and being reowned in a different relationship), some people just discover themselves. They see what they want, and sometimes wants change. -Bina Bina very beautifully put! I know that for myself in a previous relationship with a Master, He was not looking for a 24/7 slave. At the time I was not interested in being a 24/7 slave. But after finding my Master and after a lot of talking about 24/7 slavery, it is something that I am now in training to be. As you said, "some people just discover themselves". Kneeling naked and ready at her Sir's feet.. Next page