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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Rules of Property" 1 2 3 4 5 Rules of Property (46) This post is on the O&P web board. 8 Sep 10, 10:17 PM 479-986-673 US(ID), 2 yrs Rules are individual, and I have been given the task of finding new rules and/or ideas for my slavery. I would suggest as others have to do research on blogs and websites, and go with what works for you. Some of Masters rules are things like approving any food i eat, absolutely no privacy, even when using the restroom, basically my whole day and night are regulated by Master. Use your imagination too, what do you want to be regulated on? i must ask permission for everything, whether it is going to the store or having an orgasm. Hope this helps. 9 Sep 10, 7:28 AM Jondeviant AU, 21 mths Y! Rules change and evolve. What works now may not work in future. Either way, your master decides. If he's good he'll allow you sone input, but it's his decision at the end of the day. 18 Sep 10, 2:42 PM 783-203-909 US(RI), 3 yrs Y! lilslavegirl123 wrote: 333-528-841 wrote: pet_ka_MJ wrote: Were you not just uncollared less than a week ago? Already you are in a new relationship and topping from the bottom. There seems to be a relationship pattern developing here and it does not appear to be a good one. Given your history with Master's, if you keep this up for long you will not have this Master either. I would suggest, you sit down with your current Master and discuss the dynamic of your relationship and how HE might address your needs rather than shopping around on TSR for ideas. The whole point of being a slave is for the Master to shape and guide us into who they want us to be, not visa versa. Wow, amazing how time heals!! I have to agree with what pet_ka_MJ has stated above. Good Luck. That is not always topping from the bottom, when my Master and I were coming up with rules and punishments he asked me to come up with some of both. Suggesting rules does not mean topping from the bottom. Is it not possible her Master has asked her something similar. Perhaps her Master wants her input on the relationship, also something that does NOT make her topping from the bottom. this girl completely agrees...with her former owner, during negotiations, we made rules together...this girl suggests that searching the internet (google is always good) and searching within yourself to find what would make you happy to obey. Edited 18 Sep 10, 5:35 PM by 783-203-909 23 Sep 10, 4:42 PM 000-671-955 CA, 7 yrs Y! 793-434-515 wrote: Hey Rya. I have to say I agree with 898-443-818 about the Google thing. When I had a Master he sat down with me and made up my rules. We also found a site that had some example rules on it and we just picked the ones that suited us in addition to the ones He added. In my experience, and this is just my opinion-don't hate me, it helps more when you do this kind of thing together. Just to make sure that the rules are comfortable for you. If there is a rule that you struggle with following or are uncomfortable following or if it causes negative feelings in you it can cause problems. Make sure He is mainly in control of the rule making process but also be sure to state if something bothers you. Also, I really don't see a problem with offering suggestions. Suggestions can be approved or disapproved by your Master but make sure they suit you. We can't tell you what rules you'd like or which ones would work for you. I will memo the site though. Master and i did the very same thing when We started our Lifestyle relationship, it was Master that sat me down and explained where We were going in our Journey. He did this as to see what my reaction would be with some of the rules and also to ask me how i planned to comply with them. If there was something that Master felt was not the way He was expecting me to follow that specific rule, then He explained what He exactly wanted me to comply with and how it was too be done. i was glad that He did, and also for allowing me to speak on the specifics of each rule, with reasoning and consequences if straying from them. This gave me a path or blueprint to follow, He also allowed me to add a few changes that He approved of course, that made the rules not easier to follow, but showed Him that i was committed to following and understanding what He expected for Himself and what He expected from me, there was virtually no misuderstanding between Us. i hope this sheds some help or opinions with others on this subject. Master's "o" 671955 27 Sep 10, 11:05 PM AmaraKitten 2 yrs How do I delete a topic? My Master at the time typed this on my account and people keep saying i'm toping from the bottom and not listening. I just want to end this topic and this drama. *When you're a slave you not only take on a different perspective in life but also on purely even being human. 28 Sep 10, 2:51 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs AmaraKitten wrote: How do I delete a topic? My Master at the time typed this on my account and people keep saying i'm toping from the bottom and not listening. I just want to end this topic and this drama. If your Master made this entry on your account he did so for a reason. Before you delete this entry, you might ask him why and what his lesson for you was. One lesson I see here is quite obvious - do not give out your account information. Although, as a Master, he has the right to this information and to enter whatever he wishes on your account. "With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity." ~ Keshavan Nair Edited 28 Sep 10, 3:00 PM by pet_ka_MJ 28 Sep 10, 3:03 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs AmaraKitten wrote: How do I delete a topic? My Master at the time typed this on my account and people keep saying i'm toping from the bottom and not listening. I just want to end this topic and this drama. There is no way to delete a topic, unless you are admin. If your master of the week has a problem with the post your last master made on your account- perhaps he should have you stop posting on it. This way the topic will be buried and soon forgotten. Every time you post something on this topic, you bump it back up to the top. This perpetuates the drama. Hope this new "master" works out, p 29 Sep 10, 5:21 AM number_7 10 yrs Another way of addressing this topic would simply be to answer the original question posed, rather than discussing whether or not it should have been asked in the first place. To do this however responders would need to know what the existing rules and restrictions are, in order to see if anything can be added or modified. AmaraKitten wrote: How do I delete a topic? My Master at the time typed this on my account and people keep saying i'm toping from the bottom and not listening. I just want to end this topic and this drama. 21 Oct 10, 6:17 PM AmaraKitten 2 yrs it doesn't see why you guys are being so rude to it. it is a good hearted slave. it always tries it's best and gives everything it's all. it's old Master posted this not to start an argument but just to add more restrictions so it could serve him better. it was just stating that that was what he did. If it came off as having an attitude, then sorry. it gives it's sincerest apologies to everyone. As for the "Master of the week" comment, it thinks that was extremely rude. it hasn't been into this for more than a few years and it is really trying. If everyone doesn't want to be friends with it, fine. But please don't blame all this controversy on it.... it is just trying to be the best it can be. *When you're a slave you not only take on a different perspective in life but also on purely even being human. 21 Oct 10, 7:29 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs AmaraKitten wrote: it doesn't see why you guys are being so rude to it. it is a good hearted slave. it always tries it's best and gives everything it's all. it's old Master posted this not to start an argument but just to add more restrictions so it could serve him better. it was just stating that that was what he did. If it came off as having an attitude, then sorry. it gives it's sincerest apologies to everyone. As for the "Master of the week" comment, it thinks that was extremely rude. it hasn't been into this for more than a few years and it is really trying. If everyone doesn't want to be friends with it, fine. But please don't blame all this controversy on it.... it is just trying to be the best it can be. Are you for real? Look, i gave you the recipe on how to make this thread go away... i thought you understood. Then you waited until it (the topic) fell off Active topics only to raise it from the grave AGAIN. Why? To accuse us of creating controversy? *sigh* What is the point of even trying to get you to understand why people don't take you seriously. You clearly are not capable of understanding. i wasn't trying to be rude, so much as i was trying to make a point. You have an ever growing list of ex- masters. You whine every time you manage to loose one, then expect us to take you seriously when you (a week later) have a new one. Where are you finding these guys, "Masters R Us"? If you find them in the bargain bin, it is no wonder they break on you after a short spin. Masters are like Vacuum cleaners-- it really does pay to save your pennies for a good one, the cheep ones won't last a month. i'm saying this, not to be mean, but as advice. If you want people to take you seriously, you need to see why it is people think you are a joke. Then fix it. p Next page