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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Rules of Property" 1 2 3 4 5 Rules of Property (46) This post is on the O&P web board. Tue 3 Aug 10, 2:12 AM AmaraKitten 2 yrs I was hoping people out here could give me a hand, I crave rules and restrictions, but I have trouble thinking of good suggestions. I have over 30 right now but i am always looking for more if anybody has any suggestions please let me know. *When you're a slave you not only take on a different perspective in life but also on purely even being human. 3 Aug 10, 2:17 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs I see that your owned, shouldn't your Master be the one laying down the rules? My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! 3 Aug 10, 2:18 AM slave_emma US(OK), 6 yrs Y! Obey all of your owner's rules. Best wishes, slave emma Master Howard's little girl 3 Aug 10, 2:30 AM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs Were you not just uncollared less than a week ago? Already you are in a new relationship and topping from the bottom. There seems to be a relationship pattern developing here and it does not appear to be a good one. Given your history with Master's, if you keep this up for long you will not have this Master either. I would suggest, you sit down with your current Master and discuss the dynamic of your relationship and how HE might address your needs rather than shopping around on TSR for ideas. The whole point of being a slave is for the Master to shape and guide us into who they want us to be, not visa versa. With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. - Keshavan Nair Edited 3 Aug 10, 2:47 AM by pet_ka_MJ 3 Aug 10, 2:53 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs pet_ka_MJ wrote: Were you not just uncollared less than a week ago? Already you are in a new relationship and topping from the bottom. There seems to be a relationship pattern developing here and it does not appear to be a good one. Given your history with Master's, if you keep this up for long you will not have this Master either. I would suggest, you sit down with your current Master and discuss the dynamic of your relationship and how HE might address your needs rather than shopping around on TSR for ideas. The whole point of being a slave is for the Master to shape and guide us into who they want us to be, not visa versa. Wow, amazing how time heals!! I have to agree with what pet_ka_MJ has stated above. Good Luck. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away - unknown 3 Aug 10, 9:32 AM slavetasso DE, 2 yrs Did i miss something.....? i thought, your Master makes the rules. i really share the opinion of pet_ka_MJ..... you should sit down and discuss this with your Master. Edited 3 Aug 10, 9:33 AM by slavetasso 3 Aug 10, 2:51 PM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs wow, i didn't realize there was so much investigation into those who asked the question! Maybe she does have a new owner... so what? Maybe she just asked the question to see what people would come up with! Now, let's not take ourselves too seriously To the OP, a little time on google, and using the search key here, would get you lots of good ideas for rules. 898-443-818 i am a slave-i have no rights, no safewords, i do not say "no" to my Master. i do not have "limits". i have entered into consensual slavery, so that may help explain the views in my post. 3 Aug 10, 3:07 PM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs 898-443-818 wrote: wow, i didn't realize there was so much investigation into those who asked the question! Maybe she does have a new owner... so what? Maybe she just asked the question to see what people would come up with! Now, let's not take ourselves too seriously To the OP, a little time on google, and using the search key here, would get you lots of good ideas for rules. 898-443-818 No not investigation just being able to remember previous posts as the OP shared her split on the boards http://www.slaveregister.com/posts/180537/0/#151... And it is never a slaves responsibility to come up with the rules...that is the Masters job. My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! 15 Aug 10, 9:43 AM lilslavegirl123 CA, 2 yrs 333-528-841 wrote: pet_ka_MJ wrote: Were you not just uncollared less than a week ago? Already you are in a new relationship and topping from the bottom. There seems to be a relationship pattern developing here and it does not appear to be a good one. Given your history with Master's, if you keep this up for long you will not have this Master either. I would suggest, you sit down with your current Master and discuss the dynamic of your relationship and how HE might address your needs rather than shopping around on TSR for ideas. The whole point of being a slave is for the Master to shape and guide us into who they want us to be, not visa versa. Wow, amazing how time heals!! I have to agree with what pet_ka_MJ has stated above. Good Luck. That is not always topping from the bottom, when my Master and I were coming up with rules and punishments he asked me to come up with some of both. Suggesting rules does not mean topping from the bottom. Is it not possible her Master has asked her something similar. Perhaps her Master wants her input on the relationship, also something that does NOT make her topping from the bottom. I have fallen to my knees unable to rise, what kind of trap is this? What kind of chains has tied my hands and feet? It is so strange, so wonderful this helplessness of mine ~ Rumi 15 Aug 10, 5:17 PM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs I think most persons achieve more/are generally happier with a firm structure in place in life overall, while some in the community find a feeling of affirmation from the exercise itself. Perhaps you could start by examining the list you have and identifying what you feel you'd gain from each item. Are you looking for guidance in adding structure to your life overall? Or is it a matter of wanting/needing clear displays of dominance/submission between you and your master? Do these restrictions need to be sexual or humiliating in nature, focused on a productive or achievement oriented goal, or...? To the assertion that RyaKitty is obviously topping from the bottom and she oughtn't ask her question here - I disagree. C and I both think any relationship works best with input from both parties. The final decision is his, but when C wants my opinion I do my best to make sure it's an informed one before I give it. While I haven't had the need yet, if I were looking for information, TSR would be a logical resource. But based on the OP, I don't see enough information to assume anything re: her intentions as it regards her relationship either way. Lord_Uther wrote: And it is never a slaves responsibility to come up with the rules...that is the Masters job. This doesn't make sense to me. It assumes there could never be a circumstance wherein a master might logically delegate the task. Eva (The property formerly known as Camille ) 15 Aug 10, 10:23 PM 793-434-515 US(GA), 2 yrs Y! Hey Rya. I have to say I agree with 898-443-818 about the Google thing. When I had a Master he sat down with me and made up my rules. We also found a site that had some example rules on it and we just picked the ones that suited us in addition to the ones He added. In my experience, and this is just my opinion-don't hate me, it helps more when you do this kind of thing together. Just to make sure that the rules are comfortable for you. If there is a rule that you struggle with following or are uncomfortable following or if it causes negative feelings in you it can cause problems. Make sure He is mainly in control of the rule making process but also be sure to state if something bothers you. Also, I really don't see a problem with offering suggestions. Suggestions can be approved or disapproved by your Master but make sure they suit you. We can't tell you what rules you'd like or which ones would work for you. I will memo the site though. Next page