28 Jul 10, 4:48 PM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs 
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Wow, I just read your profile. My advice would be to Really know what you want before just putting yourself out there.
Are you new to the lifestyle? If so you would gain a lot by reading and researching all that you can. Find out your needs and wants. Decide if you are looking to be submissive/slave in the bedroom only, or in all areas of your life. What are you looking for in a Master or Mistress?
The reason I mention this is because of you're stated desire to give away your private life. You mention public humiliation through internet, pics, video etc.
IMO, you may want to rethink that and decide if you are looking for a type of life or a sexual fantasy. Be careful what you wish for, 'cause it can come back and bite you in the ass.
Sorry if that sounds a bit mean, not meaning to be but think about it. There are some unscrupulous people out there who would love to have you do things, pose, take pics and videos and put them on the web. So, what happens when your family, friends or employers see this out there? Once it's on the web, good luck ever getting it off. No one even needs to go searching, someone will come across it and before you know it, everyone you know will be aware.Would that be humiliating enough? Or, what happens when these same unscrupulous people blackmail you over the same pics and vids?
Yes, everyone wants to have fun, and I may sound like a killjoy, but in a reality check, these are things that can happen and have a huge impact on your future.
You could look for some groups in your area, go to munches,play parties, talk to others in the lifestyle and look for a Master/Mistress who has the same interests as you. It is possible to find what you need in a dynamic that isn't public, you'd be suprised. There are many groups in Canada you could start with.
If interested in looking for some groups, feel free to memo me, letting me know what area of the country you are in and I will send you some info for groups.
Good luck in your search. 333-528-841
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