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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Stress" 1 2 3 Stress (27) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 29 Jul 10, 8:14 AM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs 793-434-515 wrote: Lord_Uther wrote: I am so sorry to hear that. How are you holding up? <hugs> Sorry Lord Uther, i did not see this until later. It's on and off. My co-worker told me I looked pale which kind of brought to my attention that I'm not doing as well as I thought I was. I'm pretty much just not thinking about it because if I do I'm just this cry-baby mess. I'm not sure if that's a good way to handle it or not. I'm just hurt and angry and confused. I think whatever way you react is how you need to react, there is no right or wrong way. If you need to cry then cry your heart out. I know how you're feeling right now and it isn't pleasant, my advice is to beware of wallowing in your unhappiness...from personal experience I know how easy that can be. I wish I could take this pain off of you but I can't, all I can do is hold your hand as you walk through this. Please, if you need to let it out, feel free to memo me. x My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! 29 Jul 10, 11:10 PM mutable 2 yrs Sorry to hear your news. However, as 333-528-841 has said, it is probably for the best in the long run (even if it doesn't seem like it at the moment). We all have 'life' to live, regardless. The best you can do is the best you can do, understand? It is as important that someone meets your needs as you meet theirs - so please don't beat yourself up about it. Best wishes to you. 'We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are' Anais Nin 30 Jul 10, 7:07 AM 793-434-515 US(GA), 2 yrs Y! Thank you mutable. I know that over time I will be okay. I just wish it wasn't so hard. "Here is a painting of a harbor. I will call you Captain, there is your ship, I will begin to feel safe." -Jillian Weise from BODY as HARBOR 30 Jul 10, 7:21 AM mamabear NL, 2 yrs mutable wrote: Sorry to hear your news. However, as 333-528-841 has said, it is probably for the best in the long run (even if it doesn't seem like it at the moment). We all have 'life' to live, regardless. The best you can do is the best you can do, understand? It is as important that someone meets your needs as you meet theirs - so please don't beat yourself up about it. Best wishes to you. Have to agree with both mutable and owned. It will get better and more than likely when you least expect it things will fall into place. Pamper yourself and take one of those nice long baths, you've more than earned it. 30 Jul 10, 10:14 AM XMistressMacabreX US, 22 mths My girl has recently been going through a lot of the same feelings recently and I don't find it selfish of her. she is haveing a hell of a lot going on recently but as her Mistress I have noticed she can be a little more on edge and stressed but I don't think any less of her , If your worried about your Master thinking you as selfish , I would highly doubt. If it's putting strain on your relationship it may just be the stress that your feeling. With My girl I notice things tend to not go as well during these times but I never think of them as selfish just times of Stress. Life happens and sometimes it can get in the way of how you serve and love your Master but it should all be alright , things will settle down and you will go back to being a wonderful girl for Him Goodluck hun <3 30 Jul 10, 9:39 PM seresse US(PA), 23 mths Y! i am so sorry to hear about your situation. i read your post and went, "Oh no! That is terrible. Poor thing!" i wanted to reach out and hug you and comfort you. Everyone has given such good advice and support, i don't really have anything new to add, except that my heart goes out to you. It seems sometimes the end of the world when something like this happens, and you feel like there must be something wrong or defective about you as a person (at least i have felt that way in similar situations). You question your worth and your choices and your priorities, thinking that there must be something you did wrong. But the truth is that there is nothing wrong with who you are, or the choices you make or what is important to you. Someone will come along who appreciates and values you just the way you are, and they will feel proud and lucky to own you and receive all the gifts you offer, including your skills, values, humor, attitude, limitations and bad habits too, talents, and most especially your generous, loving heart. Take care of yourself and trust that your true Master, the one meant for you, will come when the time is right. seresse 7 Aug 10, 10:26 PM 793-434-515 US(GA), 2 yrs Y! Thank you everyone for your kindness. I did indeed take one of my long baths. I haven't taken one in a bit. Things are starting to calm down for me and I'm being very patient. I know that the right Master will come sometime. I am keeping my chin up and working on me for now.