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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "New Pup....any advice?" 1 2 New Pup....any advice? (17) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 4 Aug 10, 10:06 AM HD_Dominus US(AR), 23 mths His_snowflake wrote: MusclePup_Tau wrote: like being a slave...im not to keen on that word... what was it like in the early stages?....what obstacles did u have to overcome? This girl prefers to being called a submissive or pet, as in my mind being called a slave implies i have nothing and that i'm someone they don't care for. To me it sounds worse than it is based on the historical meaning of the word. Sir agrees and to Him i'm just His submissive. Without meaning to seem like I am scolding you, I think your Sir needs to school you in not being so judgemental of those who feel they are 'slaves' to their Masters. My beloved Pet/wife is and has always been my slave and she certainly has a lot to give. She is not 'nothing' to me. She is loved, cherished and my everything. Hence, I take objection to this comment of yours. 4 Aug 10, 11:31 AM MusclePup UK, 23 mths hmmm...interesting....perhaps i do exhibit animal tendancies...obedient, loyal....husky pup?...i like that...must tell my master..... 5 Aug 10, 12:12 AM MusclePup UK, 23 mths AlphaMhan wrote: my boi isnt intentionally disrespectful just very naive-he will be trained tho pup looks forward to more training from my master AlphaMhan 5 Aug 10, 12:17 AM MusclePup UK, 23 mths butterflytrish wrote: MusclePup_Tau wrote: New Pup....any advice? We are in the early stages of my pup training, its all new to me...i never knew about this world until a few months ago....but now realise its whats been missing in my life. can any other pups/ slaves give me some tips on how to settle in to pup life?....dos and donts ? i'm very new as well so hi and welcome :D Hi...hows ur new adventure going? 5 Aug 10, 12:17 AM MusclePup UK, 23 mths butterflytrish wrote: MusclePup_Tau wrote: New Pup....any advice? We are in the early stages of my pup training, its all new to me...i never knew about this world until a few months ago....but now realise its whats been missing in my life. can any other pups/ slaves give me some tips on how to settle in to pup life?....dos and donts ? i'm very new as well so hi and welcome :D Hi...hows ur new adventure going? 5 Aug 10, 12:52 AM tia1982 AU, 2 yrs Welcome! I am also relatively new to all this (less than 6mths) but there have always been traits in me, I just never really identified what they met before I met my Sir. Hmm, the hardest thing. Like a previous comment I also have a bit of a 50's housewife outlook, I like taking care of him, sitting by his feet, following rules. As we each have kids (2 & 12) juggling what I can do when they are around (such as Sir saying my slave name which I love, or me calling him Sir) can be quite difficult. As the kids spend time with their respective mum/dad's we do get time without so that helps. The other big obstacle is my stubborness/firey attitude. I have needed to be dominant in the past (vanilla relationship) and can also get peeved off quite easily (such as feeling I am taken for granted etc - not good for a sub!) Sir is extremely easy going and so I have needed to be mindful of my attitude/tone of words etc. I am still working on this... Luckily he is quite patient!! 5 Aug 10, 7:10 PM MusclePup UK, 23 mths Tia1982 wrote: Welcome! I am also relatively new to all this (less than 6mths) but there have always been traits in me, I just never really identified what they met before I met my Sir. Hmm, the hardest thing. Like a previous comment I also have a bit of a 50's housewife outlook, I like taking care of him, sitting by his feet, following rules. As we each have kids (2 & 12) juggling what I can do when they are around (such as Sir saying my slave name which I love, or me calling him Sir) can be quite difficult. As the kids spend time with their respective mum/dad's we do get time without so that helps. The other big obstacle is my stubborness/firey attitude. I have needed to be dominant in the past (vanilla relationship) and can also get peeved off quite easily (such as feeling I am taken for granted etc - not good for a sub!) Sir is extremely easy going and so I have needed to be mindful of my attitude/tone of words etc. I am still working on this... Luckily he is quite patient!! i think this will be my biggest obstacle...stuborness...firey...i find it hard to do something i dont want to....plus im a leo....Grrr but i like order...knowing whats what..and i like serving and taking care o someone...so im gonna try hard to curb my tongue.....must be hard hiding stuff with the kids around...