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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "What do you give your Master" 1 2 3 What do you give your Master (21) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 11 Jul 10, 10:34 PM seresse US(PA), 23 mths Y! This is an interesting topic - i hope you don't mind of i pop in my two-cents worth. i agree with the lists: loyalty, trust, respect, surrender, anything He wants, etc. i would like to add that all this gives Him freedom. Freedom to pursue His dreams, to shape His world, go forward with courage and without reservation, knowing that He won't have to argue, convince me, or negotiate compromises that weaken His vision and path forward. He gets my total, unconditional support, which empowers Him in the world. i have been watching Him blossom just as i am blossoming with this fairly new to us dynamic. (and my Master also very much appreciates thoughtful, anticipatory service, too. If all i did was wait to be told what to obey, He would very quickly get frustrated and feel i was wasting His time.) seresse 12 Jul 10, 12:20 AM 321-347-898 CA, 2 yrs £ Thanks for this thread. Being new to the lifestyle i have to admit there were times when i wondered what is it that Master is getting out of this? Why me? In a subdrop episode i flat-out asked Him amidst soak filled tears. He wrapped his arms around me... grabbed my chin... and had me look into His eyes and He told me: "i get you. Seeing you blossom into who you really are is the reward for Me." So back to Your question. What does Master get? What is His gift? The sacrifice of the "self" for the betterment of Him and His needs always and unconditionally. i am the protector of His will. i become the instrument of service for which his dreams and desires manifest - be it economic, social, sexual... whatever. The actualization of His power and dominion of control over His property/slave transcends into other areas of his life -- an energy that He takes from me everyday to capitalize on in all areas of His life. He is a Master in ALL areas of His life - because of my gift of submission and service. So what does He get? Everything. Oh... and he gets His shirts ironed, His floors waxed and dishes done... and to tie me up whenever he feels like it Ha! Edited 12 Jul 10, 12:23 AM by 321-347-898 12 Jul 10, 12:34 AM Footcandle US(AZ), 2 yrs I believe giving our masters complete and total submission is exactly what they desire. Taking care of their needs, daily, sexually etc. It is not something that can truly be explained to someone in the vanilla life. You do not have to explain yourself afterall it is your master that you wish to please and not anyone else. I am certain you must do this well or you would not hold the position that you do. Enjoy the complexity and excitement of your relationship! 13 Jul 10, 2:51 AM 300-168-896 CA, 2 yrs Y! What do I give to my Master? My life! 13 Jul 10, 1:02 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs Sir_Aldric wrote: You forgot: '.. and his credit card..' No, I didn't. I have a few of my own and they live quite happily in my Hermes handbag. With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. - Keshavan Nair Edited 13 Jul 10, 1:38 PM by pet_ka_MJ 13 Jul 10, 1:38 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs 898-443-818 wrote: pet_ka i am curious as to what you told the coworker later on I basically told my co-worker love, respect, trust... blah, blah, blah... the usual vanilla stuff in the usual vanilla context. My co-worker seemed happy with that response. Yet, when I thought about what I would say to my Master in response to this question, it was a similar, slightly different list. So, what am I giving in return to my Master... besides my complete and total submission, which seemed like a no-brainer to me. I will love my Master with my mind, body, heart and soul, with adoration, affection, and concern for him. I will respect my Master by acknowledging his strengths and leadership. He will know how important he is to me because I will honour his accomplishments... speaking only in the highest regards of him around others and to him when we are alone. I will trust my Master by showing deference to his choices. I will follow his lead intellectually, emotionally and physically, knowing he takes into consideration my thoughts and feelings and that he has my best interests at heart. I will desire my Master, not for the things he can provide for me like food, shelter and clothing but because I desire to feel his touch and give him pleasure in return for the pleasure he brings to me. I will need my Master and rely on his strength to open my jars, my doors and my eyes; to be my knight in shining armour... rescuing me when I need it and being my sheltering port where I can weather life's storms. (This one was the hardest for me to give, as I am such a fiercely independent person and hate to rely on anyone for anything.) I will commit to my Master and our future life together by finding ways to serve him and our relationship. I will do all in my power to serve his interests, as he does mine. I will live my life in such a way as to honour us both, bringing him pride, joy and fulfillment. With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. - Keshavan Nair 13 Jul 10, 2:00 PM tainted_desire UK, 7 yrs Recently... A headache, lol, am quitting smoking, have recently turned into this green hulk/ogre type of creature, not sure when td will be back again... td Edited 13 Jul 10, 2:03 PM by tainted_desire 17 Jul 10, 10:03 AM mutable 2 yrs pet_ka_MJ wrote: What do you give your Master I was having a conversation with a co-worker the other morning about what a woman wants from a man. I quickly ticked off my list: to be loved, respected, desired, and to feel safe and protected. He laughed and replied “You don't want much do you?” Of course I balked and started back down the list telling him exactly what I meant by each term. Then he interrupted and stated that “It sounds as if your man gets to do most of the work, what are you going to give in return?” I do not feel that the above examples you gave are 'work', which makes me wonder if your co-worker has ever truly loved anyone. I'm not saying these things are always easy, but I expect they come much more naturally within a reciprocally loving relationship. Of course, not all lifestyle dynamics are loving ones - but ours is, so I can only speak thus. Your list includes the very things he gives to me, and I have no idea why. For all my good intentions, I expect that what I often give in return is a nasty pain in the neck! 'We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are' Anais Nin 17 Jul 10, 3:33 PM HouseWench 3 yrs £ I give him more cooperation than anyone else has ever gotten! http://wench.spookfox.net 22 Jul 10, 2:49 AM 395-431-646 2 yrs slut gives Master EVERYTHING! slut gives her life...all rights,say, decisions, as well as all of slut's mind, body, heart, and soul... slut gives Master a life of obedience and servitude, full surrender, total control,and ownership. slut gives Master unconditional, deep and true love...regardless. Next page