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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Incorporating BDSM into Marriage ceremony" 1 2 Incorporating BDSM into Marriage ceremony (11) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Mon 28 Jun 10, 5:59 PM Daddys_lil_kacey 2 yrs Master and I are getting married next September!!! We are having a family centered ceremony. My problem is that I would like to work in something that would be special to us that we both know is a BDSM symbol, but we both don't want to offend our families. My question is did any other married couples incorporate anything like this into their ceremonies? Anybody got any suggestions that we could do? 28 Jun 10, 6:07 PM Sprite US(OH), 2 yrs This girl realizes you want to add something to your marriage ceremony but have you thought of having a separate collaring ceremony with just some of your like minded friends? You could make it as formal as a wedding ceremony this girl thinks that would be very special and hopes for one for herself one day. Good luck with your adventures and she hopes you are able to accomplish what you are trying to do. -Master's pet Always- 28 Jun 10, 6:27 PM Daddys_lil_kacey 2 yrs We have had our formal collaring ceremony. We don't know any like-minded people in our area. I was wondering if anybody had any hidden symbols like in their cakes or motifs for their weddings. We were thinking that it would be neat to have some of the symbols hidden in alot of the decor. 28 Jun 10, 6:52 PM Sprite US(OH), 2 yrs Ohhh..that does sound neat...this girl will do a bit of research and see what she can find....if you are able to do that she would love to see picture as she thinks it would be very clever and cool. -Master's pet Always- 28 Jun 10, 7:03 PM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs We aren't planning to incorporate anything symbolic of BDSM into our upcoming wedding, but I'm sure there are ways. Maybe including "obey" in the vows, scattering a particular symbol into decor, stationery, etc. Edited to add - "steampunk" or Victorian wedding themes are very popular lately. Maybe you can include vintage locks andk keys into your decor? His Beloved Owned and loved by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. Edited 28 Jun 10, 7:05 PM by slave_of_The_Tesh 28 Jun 10, 7:08 PM HouseWench 3 yrs £ slave_of_The_Tesh wrote: We aren't planning to incorporate anything symbolic of BDSM into our upcoming wedding, but I'm sure there are ways. Maybe including "obey" in the vows, scattering a particular symbol into decor, stationery, etc. Edited to add - "steampunk" or Victorian wedding themes are very popular lately. Maybe you can include vintage locks andk keys into your decor? Oooh ooh, based off that, you could have small Victorian keys for wineglass charms, he could have a key in his buttonier while you have an ankle chain with a heart lock.... http://HouseWench.tk 29 Jun 10, 6:14 AM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs My Master and I are using traditional wedding vows. If you do internet search of traditional Christian vows, they use the terms obey, submit and obedient wife. If you are not overly Christian, as I am not, the vows can be reworded to lessen the Christian emphasis. With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. - Keshavan Nair 30 Jun 10, 9:16 AM masterfiremaam US(WV), 5 yrs How about just a simple, "The groom would like to give his bride a special gift..." and he then puts a necklace on you? Most people will go, "Awwwww..." and be dreamy-eyed about it. Others will just think, "It's a little weird, but whatever." Master Fire **The power of who we are can be intoxicating.** **The power of who we could be is humbling.** **Yet, we are assured we are exactly as we should be.** 2 Jul 10, 11:30 PM fireflies US(TX), 4 yrs How about placing two segmented stainless steel rings on your wedding cake somewhere and people will think that they symbolize your wedding rings. However, the next day your Master has them pierced into your nipples or labia... Just a kinky thought i had! (your Master will have to order them in advance, as most piercing studios only carry curved barbells) i am my Master's tattooed and pierced slave. i am His, He owns ALL of me, i do everything i can everyday to please and make Him happy. 3 Jul 10, 3:39 AM Sir_A_Griff CA, 3 yrs masterfiremaam wrote: How about just a simple, "The groom would like to give his bride a special gift..." and he then puts a necklace on you? Most people will go, "Awwwww..." and be dreamy-eyed about it. Others will just think, "It's a little weird, but whatever." Master Fire I agree especially if it has a bdsm touch like the one in slave_of_The_Tesh's pic or this one http://auctions.overstock.com/Mens-24-Mans-Gold-... n-Link-Chain-Necklace-Bracelet/Jewelry-Watches/item /45149639 This type of necklace could also be used as a collar for vanilla occasions . There are also wedding rings with possible bdsm links http://www.love2have.co.uk/catalog/product_info.... Sir Griff 6 Jul 10, 2:25 AM Daddys_lil_kacey 2 yrs I love all of your ideas! I especially love the idea about the piercings! I have had my clit pierced before, but being a bigger girl it wasnt great. I have actually asked Master if He would enjoy me to be pierced again! Next page