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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Would You take a bullet for Your Slave? " 1 2 Would You take a bullet for Your Slave? (18) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 22 Jun 10, 7:38 AM mamabear NL, 2 yrs pet_ka_MJ wrote: I would prefer, the anonymous, humble and unrewarded gestures of love that come everyday... through realistic expectations of each other and the understanding that whatever happens, we are in it together. I do not need my Master to take a bullet for me, I would never expect it of him. I would hope though, that we both would do our very best in such a situation to support and keep each other safe. I have to agree. No matter how much faith is put into a sentiment...when reality strikes you never know what we as humans will do. It really is the little everyday things that count most. Silly as it may sound the other day I was craving chocolate...no chocolate in the house..Papabear went to work that night came home in the early morning hours with this foot long chocolate bar. The other day when I wasn't feeling well, he vacuumed and tidied up a bit....that's the little stuff that on a day to day basis just makes you feel better and lets me know how much he cares and loves me. I think through understanding and caring we can help each other out and keep each other safe. Do I think he'd take a bullet for me, probably...do I want or need him to..no. 24 Jun 10, 12:58 AM tia1982 AU, 2 yrs O/our relationship is a little different as it started semi-vanilla and introducing me to BDSM (which I always had some hints of being interested in). In saying that, W/we say 'I love you' all the time (not too much) and it does not interfere in O/our relationship. W/we each have a child from previous relationships, and each share care, so there are only some times a fortnight we get to be O/our true selves. Given the eldest is 12 when he is around W/we keep it fairly vanilla with a few jokes that go over his head/quiet things in the bedroom. When he is not around, and the youngest (2yrs) is in bed, then W/we get to be ourselves and I can serve Him. I am very mindful of not topping from the bottom and if I come anywhere close He will pull me up on it. In saying this, W/we both like to switch occassionally, so this gives me an opportunity to let out that side of me, and give Him what He is looking for. Saying all this I don't think He would take a bullet for me - He would for his son - but I think W/we both hate the idea of living without the other... 27 Jun 10, 10:55 AM DaS_13 US, 4 yrs Without a doubt in my mind I definitely would. Owner of 465-186-919. My beautiful wife and slave <3 27 Jun 10, 3:51 PM Sir_Aldric 5 yrs Out of respect to the very few amongst us who actually where in a position to take a bullet for someone else, it would be better not to use those type of words in a romantic setting. Also it looks a bit silly if something serious like a robbery or whatever occurs and you are not able to defend the one you love. Battlefields or other traumatic events will separate the real heroes from the would-be ones. So better play it safe and use phases like "I'll get you the moon.." or similar stuff like that SA Relax, life is too short to get upset. 5 Jul 10, 10:16 AM GypsieCowboy US(NM), 3 yrs Y! strange. I wonder how many of those posting to this thread have ever 'taken a bullet'!!! certainly to take a bullet does not mean to then be dead. certainly to take a bullet is not the be-all, end-all script to determine how deeply one person feels for another. I have stepped between gun-toters and their targets half a dozen times when someone I knew was on one end of the gun or the other. I have stepped between gun-toters and their targets when I knew neither party more than a dozen times. I have taken away knives, swords and other weapons too. In NONE of these cases did I take time to think about my motives nor of the potential consequences... nor to weigh the value of my relationship (or not) to either side. btw, I have been shot. and knifed. so I do speak from some experience... when I ask what does this thread have to do with anything at all? unless you have personally been in a situation where offering yourself up for pain and disaster was the only way to protect a loved one or an owned one how could you even possibly guess as to how you would react? and if you failed to offer yourself up as sacrifice, does that mean you love or own the other person any less? discussions like this are the very reason so many people think that all discussions of our kink are fiction!!! in My not-so-humble opinion. Yeats, being poor, spread cloths made only of his dreams under your feet, asking you to tread softly. While I, equally poor, prefer to worship you with pain for My love, exalt you by training you towards Perfectability. If you seek perfection look for your self in My eyes. 5 Jul 10, 12:48 PM Lord_Uther UK, 6 yrs GypsieCowboy wrote: strange. I wonder how many of those posting to this thread have ever 'taken a bullet'!!! certainly to take a bullet does not mean to then be dead. certainly to take a bullet is not the be-all, end-all script to determine how deeply one person feels for another. I have stepped between gun-toters and their targets half a dozen times when someone I knew was on one end of the gun or the other. I have stepped between gun-toters and their targets when I knew neither party more than a dozen times. I have taken away knives, swords and other weapons too. In NONE of these cases did I take time to think about my motives nor of the potential consequences... nor to weigh the value of my relationship (or not) to either side. btw, I have been shot. and knifed. so I do speak from some experience... when I ask what does this thread have to do with anything at all? unless you have personally been in a situation where offering yourself up for pain and disaster was the only way to protect a loved one or an owned one how could you even possibly guess as to how you would react? and if you failed to offer yourself up as sacrifice, does that mean you love or own the other person any less? discussions like this are the very reason so many people think that all discussions of our kink are fiction!!! in My not-so-humble opinion. While I agree with much of what was said here I disagree with the last 2 lines...vanilla relationships have these discussions too. But on that vein I agree it is easy to say 'I would take a bullet for you' as most of us (fortunately) will never have to face that situation. And yes I agree how emotionally stirring that statement can be. But as someone once pointed out to me, and I believe, we have the wrong focus when we say something like that. Yes, it is easy to say something like that (and as is pointed out) that any such act would be instinctive, and so an easy commitment to keep. Also it is something you usually only have to do the once. How much harder is it to make the commitment to LIVE for someone? A Commitment that is re-made and kept everyday. My name is Lord Uther, king of kings: Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair! 6 Jul 10, 5:12 PM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs This slave would most definitely take a bullet for her Master. If she were thinking fast enough, and the situation occurred. Wouldn't make it happen. She would hope he wouldn't, actually. She would want the devotion of that, but wouldn't want him to actually do it. Maybe that's the I.E.? But she can't help thinking of him, and of it hurting him, and if something bad happened . . . If she could control it she wouldn't want him to, or let him. Very scary situation. It's sweet your Master had said that to you though. This slave's talked about vanilla romance, or saying the I Love You to a slave. His opinion was that a Master should be strong enough to control their slave, even if a slave "has something over them." -s Always the curious one ~ s 7 Jul 10, 10:52 PM DrakeKing125 US(GA), 2 yrs Y! I believe any master who actually cares about their slave for more than housework and sex would take the bullet either figuratively or litteraly, I would for mine without a thought.