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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Figuring it out" Figuring it out (2) This post is on the O&P web board. Sun 16 May 10, 7:26 AM MaitreWesley US, 2 yrs Has anyone ever had someone figure out what kind of relationship they are in? So far two of my slave's friends have figured out she is my slave. We aren't very open so I am a bit unsure how they figured it out. 16 May 10, 11:51 AM Sir_Aldric 5 yrs MaitreWesley wrote: Figuring it out Has anyone ever had someone figure out what kind of relationship they are in? So far two of my slave's friends have figured out she is my slave. We aren't very open so I am a bit unsure how they figured it out. There could be thousands of reasons; too much to describe here. To start with the most obvious: the next time you take your slave for a walk disconnect the leash attached to her neck first Then there are a broad range of reasons, starting from both of you being not too smart/careful (to put it diplomatic..) and ending at the others being very smart. However, what came to my mind first when reading this: things usually happen for a reason. One time can be a coincidence, two times is a pattern.. I would not be surprised that your slave's friends figured it out, because your slave wanted them to figure it out. That does not automatically imply it was done on purpose; usually deep desires give a flow on a subconscious level. Such as: maybe she is proud, hopelessly in love, whatever and wants the world to know. If not done on a subconscious level then the time has come for a serious talk I guess. A nice puzzle to figure out yourself as Master on this lazy Sunday afternoon. Take care, SA Relax, life is too short to get upset. Edited 16 May 10, 5:18 PM by Sir_Aldric 16 May 10, 4:23 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs Is it a problem that your slave's friends know the nature of your relationship with her? Also, when you say they know... what exactly do they know? I would expect that the depth of a M/s relationship is beyond the comprehension of a vanilla person to grasp through mere observation without some explanation from either you or your slave. My Master and I are very much into the control aspect of the M/s dynamic. So, we both did a bit of ground work with our friends so that my going from a fiercely independant career woman to a follow your man kind of gal was not too abrupt a change for them to digest. They have even accepted, with explanation, his calling me Pet all the time. So, much so, that one friend seemed to remember another friend who was called Pet as well. Made me wonder if she was a slave It is all a matter of how both of you present your relationship. And, maybe as Sir Aldric said, she is proud of her status and is subconsciously giving away clues to her friends. I notice it is only her friends that are figuring it out by the way. Are you sure she has not told them... you know how girlfriends chitchatting with each other can be With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. - Keshavan Nair