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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "permanent collar" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 permanent collar (73) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 13 Jun 10, 12:35 AM thegildedlili 3 yrs There are no set rules for either of those things. In terms of "permanent collars" some people only have one collaring stage in their relationships, some have several, some even have none. I know people who are owned but not collared, it's as individual as each relationship. I've seen the stages of collaring used, i.e. collar of consideration, training collar and permanent collar, but there are no "rules" for collaring. In terms of internal enslavement, I recommend doing some reading, there are some great essays on the site, and also lots of interesting discussions here on the boards. From my understanding, reaching a state of IE can take years. I do notice on these boards that some people see IE as the highest point of attaintment in an M/s relationship, but again, each relationship should only be judged in terms of the people in it and how satisfying it is to them, and I don't believe we should let labels define us. i have no need, for such things, but to make you happy... Josh Pyke 13 Jun 10, 8:56 AM charlotte AU, 2 yrs thank you thegildedlili for explaining it to me, i can understand why some would think its the highest point to reach, but i think just to be very happy at what ever stage we are at is important 25 Jun 10, 3:46 AM 581-478-462 US, 2 yrs Y! My Husband palced an Eternity collar on me. The first one did not fit quite right and the owner of the site was very nice about exchanging it. We would highly recommend it. Submissive, collared, MILF. Honorably owned by my Husband. 13 Jul 10, 5:28 PM 912-826-726 UK, 2 yrs Y! yes they are some nice permanent collar on e bay made from the finest stainless steel but they only go up to a size 15 neck 13 Jul 10, 8:32 PM isoMstr US(MN), 23 mths Y! i really like that idea. i love piercings. i am new here and looking for an Owner who hopefully wants to pierce me. It would constantly remind me of my slave status. 15 Jul 10, 10:39 PM 187-775-187 DK, 2 yrs I have been wearing a permanent titanium collar for almost nine years (also the Hephaistos model from Axsmar). The metal band fits tight against my throat and has a ring for attachment for a chain. It is really not recognised as anything but a slave collar and it is definitely a defining object as well a functional item. I'm able to hide the collar behind a shirt with tie and in the beginning it didn't bothered me to much – I guess it was just to exiting to be claimed as a slave. Over time however it became much different. Of cause you can't always hide such a thing around your neck and often I find myself in situations where the exposure of my status is both unavoidable and most inconvenient. It is fair to say that I still can find it utterly hard to be recognised as a slave in the public setting. I believe one if the big mistakes that especially the slaves do on this board, is to claim acceptance or even respect. I did so in the beginning but have learned a different lesson. Slaves have always been outcast and treaded as such by the broader community. It is my experience that if everyone can see you are owned and without freedom, you shouldn't expect too much respect. Basically I think the public attitude to slaves is almost the same as it has always been. Even after nine years, I'm still in a process of surrendering. The inescapably collar, - and the social perception of it - makes me constantly aware of reality of my mistress ownership. The collar allows me to struggle but by the end of the day I will still be wearing it, ready to be chained. 17 Jul 10, 9:39 AM 143-983-458 US, 6 yrs Y! I wear a silver choker for my collar. It's totally acceptable in the vanilla world and is very comfortable. When I had surgery several years the nurses were willing to leave it on as it doesn't dangle ; and silver doesn't set off the metal detectors at the airport. Sir is planning on soldering the clasp but if it absolutely had to be taken off one of the links at the clasp ends could be snipped open. taking my pleasure in His 25 Jul 10, 9:44 PM slavesonia 7 yrs permanent collar My owner had a special collar made for me. It is of stainless steel. One end was made in a conical shape with a groove on it. This section slid into the other end that had a snap latch built into it and when inserted far enough the latch clicked into place into the groove. Once in place. the collar is smooth and there is no way to separate the latching mechanism as there is no external place to grip on the collar and the latch on the inside cannot be reached. I have worn this permanent collar for more than 5 years now. slavesonia Edited 25 Jul 10, 9:46 PM by slavesonia 26 Jul 10, 1:16 PM sa_fora UK, 10 yrs a very beautiful collar indeed! Don't worry, be happy! http://www.sa-fora.co.uk http://www.The-Imperium.co.uk http://www.Esclavex.com http://www.ICandyVision.co.uk http://www.ICandyVision.com 27 Jul 10, 10:22 AM cagedlove UK, 2 yrs Thank you slavesonia, i have now been permnantly collared, my Owner chose one from Ring of Steel but yours sounds exactly what He was looking for! Do you know if they are still being made and who makes them please? i hope that i wear mine for as long as you have worn yours! cagedlove Next page