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TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Older master"

Older master (5)

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Wed 12 May 10, 7:02 PM
788-766-713
2 yrs
I was just wondering if having an older master is good for my first experience in the lifestyle? how many other slaves have masters who are like twenty years older?

masters slut

12 May 10, 7:16 PM
815-993-785
US(TN), 5 yrs
£ Y!*
i'm thinking age isn't really an issue. are you comfortable with him? like dominant jerks come in all ages so do the good dominants. he may have more experience and can teach you more but he may just be excited to have someone twenty yrs younger. hope he's on the wiser side. good luck.

It's not what happens to us. it's how we deal with what happens to us that matters.

13 May 10, 3:34 AM
SeanT70
9 yrs
Should age matter in either direction?

Perhaps. The thing is, if you have questions or doubts about whether age is a factor in any part of what you've done, or are doing or are going to do in life, then perhaps you think more about doing it at all.

Age per se, does nothing to demonstrate how mature (or immature) a person is or can be, and as such it really does come down to personal evaluation of whether you're comfortable in any given situation in regard to your own life choices.

I dare say there are many others here, but I can write this post from a point of experience since I'm 16 years Phay's senior, and whilst we haven't always been full-on M/s, she married me at 18, having met me at 17 and given that it's so much different now, we will remain so unless I decide otherwise, and in a fully M/s relationship.

What ya have to remember though, is just because it works for some of us - and it really does for Phay and I, it might not for mny more.

Life cand be like that,

Regards,

Sean.

13 May 10, 8:29 PM
curious_bina
US(TN), 2 yrs

It's not age you want; it's experience. Age is absolutely nothing, and basing Masters off of age is ageist, and unfair. To find a good Master look for someone who's been in their l/s for a long while, has references, has l/s friends, and are valid in what they say.

This slave learned that ;) A 50+ dom is nothing if he has no friends, can't prove what he says, and his alibi is "Since I've been in the l/s 20+ years I know what I'm talking about." Because, time is nothing if one doesn't learn from their experiences.

-s

Always the curious one ~ s

14 May 10, 12:15 AM
SlaveT
US(GA), 2 yrs
Y!*
My master is 14 yrs my senior and to me it doesn't make one bit of difference. Our relationship is what counts not the age.
17 May 10, 5:56 PM
000-844-137
US, 7 yrs
Y!*
When i met MASTER, i was in my late 20's and he was in his mid 50's. At first, i too had some serious concerns about our age difference but it turned out that we were a perfect match. He had the domanance, the experience, and the stability that i needed to direct and structure my life and i had the youth, the willingness, and the ambition that he demanded of a slave.

Before this time, i was nothing more than a submissive - a boy-bitch who enjoyed being in bondage and playing with other guys. MASTER changed that and taught me what real slavery was and how to be a slave and i KNOW that our age difference was a huge factor in this.

In chains i feel free

 

 
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