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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Vanilla friends?" 1 2 Vanilla friends? (12) This post is on the Other Topics web board. 17 May 10, 5:54 PM 000-671-955 CA, 7 yrs Y! 788-766-713 wrote: Vanilla friends? Is it possible to still have friends outside the lifestyle if one is a 24/7 sub? how does one act if the vanillic is uneducated and not sure what to think about the lifestyle? how do i bring up my choice but still keep the friends? i think you will find that the vanilla crowd knows about this Lifestyle, and some will feel free to give you their opinion of it without really understanding the workings, but i find that giving them only what they ask about is sufficient. Master feels that letting as many people know about us is not what He entered into this Lifestyle for, but something that He chooses to form our Life around. If this required telling others not in the know, then it would have been, and if not, then what We do is between Master and slave. We have many vanilla friends within our group and at work, and i am fairly confident that there may be some thought given to our relationship, but no reaction to it has ever been stated. At any point if any of them questioned us seriously, i feel Master would exam their intent and commitment, and deal with it as He did with me, slowly and patiently revealing only what He felt that i could handle. i hope this helps with your question, as it sparked a lengthy conversation with Master and i. Master's "o" 671955 2 Jun 10, 7:18 PM 298-912-006 AU, 2 yrs We never planned to tell anyone. Some used to ask about my collars and at times cuffs. I just said I was into Slave Jellewry and they were presents from husband from over seas trips. Apart from that the only comments were about my dress. Some of by friends said I always look stunning, hot and/or sexy and would still look good climbing a mountain in heels. All was well until one day I had a day off and master decided that my dress for the day will be a patent catsuit with my ring stainless collar, finger to wrist cuffs chained, bright red lippy and 4" heel boots. Master based my outfit from this http://www.okcupid.com/quizzy/take and went to work. Master loves the look and I think I look hot as well. Anyway, we live in the quiet bush on some land and I was in the shed doing some work (not easy with hands loosely chained) with my radio blarring. Two friends dropped in at work to ask if I wanted to go out for lunch and they said I had a day off at home so they dropped in after not being able to contact my mobile (they know if I don't answer I'm usually at home). Anyway they walked into the shed just as i turned around. Anyway, 3-4hr of explaining later over 3 bottles of wine seemed to answer and pacify their questions that I was not being abused. The embarassing part initially was that I couldn't change as my wrists were chained and I couldn't take my catsuit off. But I did not mention the corpral punisment sessions. They wouldn't understand. Master and I later spoke with them and asked both to keep silent about our lifestyle and to their credit they have. One friend has actually become closer and often suggests tops to wear with my bigger collars. Sussie