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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Obedience training." 1 2 Obedience training. (12) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sun 7 Mar 10, 1:19 PM 982-507-327 SE, 2 yrs My Master has obedience training with me up to 5 hours/week, when he trains me in taking any of 40 predestined postures and actions, in front of him. He doesn't accept the slightest deviation from his standards. His insistence on an immediate performance makes him now speak directly to my backbone. Even now, when his expectations are very high, I'm good at it and don't get too many hits from the birch twigs. (One hit = approved, but more than ONE I have to do it again, at his order.) Well, I like this as much as he does, but that's not the point. He likes it! After more than a year of training, he now says that it's time for a show. Against my will, he want to invite his closest manly friends to watch my whole program of “dog training”. In front of him it's nice to be trained, but other's eyes? I'm still very shy and have difficulties to see myself naked running around at the floor to, in a split second, execute his strict orders. But he has definitely made up his mind and I shudder for that moment. He's the Master and my options are limited. Please. Can anyone give me a tip? How should I THINK or NOT THINK? I can understand there's a lot of experience out there. Slave PiaM 7 Mar 10, 2:50 PM allalone47 US(OH), 6 yrs 982-507-327 wrote: Obedience training. My Master has obedience training with me up to 5 hours/week, when he trains me in taking any of 40 predestined postures and actions, in front of him. He doesn't accept the slightest deviation from his standards. His insistence on an immediate performance makes him now speak directly to my backbone. Even now, when his expectations are very high, I'm good at it and don't get too many hits from the birch twigs. (One hit = approved, but more than ONE I have to do it again, at his order.) Well, I like this as much as he does, but that's not the point. He likes it! After more than a year of training, he now says that it's time for a show. Against my will, he want to invite his closest manly friends to watch my whole program of “dog training”. In front of him it's nice to be trained, but other's eyes? I'm still very shy and have difficulties to see myself naked running around at the floor to, in a split second, execute his strict orders. But he has definitely made up his mind and I shudder for that moment. He's the Master and my options are limited. Please. Can anyone give me a tip? How should I THINK or NOT THINK? I can understand there's a lot of experience out there. Slave PiaM Is it a hard limit? If no then it is truly part of your training to be his perfict slave and also to give him the pride he desurves in having you as his slave and to altamitly show off his slave to others. And it is part of what a Master seeks to do with his property. To put it on full display. It is one thing to have somthing that a owner wants to have it is an other for that owner so show that he has it dn better if that property can be shownin its full usefullness to others. 7 Mar 10, 4:17 PM De_Luxe UK, 4 yrs 982-507-327 wrote: Obedience training. My Master has obedience training with me up to 5 hours/week, when he trains me in taking any of 40 predestined postures and actions, in front of him. He doesn't accept the slightest deviation from his standards. His insistence on an immediate performance makes him now speak directly to my backbone. Even now, when his expectations are very high, I'm good at it and don't get too many hits from the birch twigs. (One hit = approved, but more than ONE I have to do it again, at his order.) Well, I like this as much as he does, but that's not the point. He likes it! After more than a year of training, he now says that it's time for a show. Against my will, he want to invite his closest manly friends to watch my whole program of “dog training”. In front of him it's nice to be trained, but other's eyes? I'm still very shy and have difficulties to see myself naked running around at the floor to, in a split second, execute his strict orders. But he has definitely made up his mind and I shudder for that moment. He's the Master and my options are limited. Please. Can anyone give me a tip? How should I THINK or NOT THINK? I can understand there's a lot of experience out there. Slave PiaM The problem of 'what to think' would be replaced ideally with knowing that you will put in a stunning performance that will entertain, impress and be one your Master will be extremely proud of? Your shyness reads as if it isn't about failing to execute the moves on command but about doing something naked in front of an audience. I want my boy to do well and ensure that there is confidence before any type of display in front of others so that it isn't marred by shyness which might reduce excellence. I think the training to accomplish obedience because you are confident to perform as he requires still needs a little more working on that's all. Well done on your effort to learn and, no doubt gracefully, accomplish the positions. 7 Mar 10, 6:04 PM AmaraKitten 2 yrs If you've been practicing for that long then It believes you will do great! Since you probably have no way out of it then It will wish you all the luck it can and just try your best. It's sure you're just nervous but will do well. It's owner would never make It be naked in front of others, but It wishes It could have something like this in front of others because It is a major humiliation slut. *When you're a slave you not only take on a different perspective in life but also on purely even being human. 7 Mar 10, 11:38 PM Kay_kay US(NY), 3 yrs you stated that this is agaisnt your will...how agaisnt your will is it? Is it something you have discussed and he is ignoring your concerns? If you have expressed to him your nervousness about this, your fear and your desire to not do this and he is ignoring your feelings about this and giving you no guidance in becoming secure or no reassurance that he knows this is hard for you and that this is part of your training, dig in your heels and resist. A slave/submissive/pet/whatever title you choose should wish to serve their Dominent but the Dominent still has a responsibility to the care and proper training of their property. He needs to understand your issues in order to guide you and, if he's not willing to guide you through a tiem of insecurity and difficulty, then he's failing in his responsibilits. HOWEVER, if you have not told him that you are worried and afraid then you need to do that right away and ask him to guide you. He knows better how to train you and your mind than anyone else but he is not a mind reader. If you don't tell him about your difficulties then you are not giving him the tools he needs to form you into the perfect slave. So my advice is, you and your Master work together to make this a good thing for both of you and not the dreadful scary thing it seems to be for you at the moment. 8 Mar 10, 2:59 AM 842-520-015 US, 4 yrs Y! The best advice that this one can offer you is to think of nothing except your Master. Block out everything and start thinking about every move you make, every gesture, every command followed to be done with perfection to please your Master. Do not think of anyone else in the room, zero in him. Knowing that you are pleasing to him and knowing that he is very proud to have you as his own should be helpful in getting past this. Good luck, aymelek Edited 8 Mar 10, 3:02 AM by 842-520-015 8 Mar 10, 3:57 AM 950-186-691 US(PA), 3 yrs Y! just let your mind go dont think of anything but ur master yes there are other peoplr there but they dont matter all that matters is pleasing your master 8 Mar 10, 4:51 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs 950-186-691 wrote: just let your mind go dont think of anything but ur master yes there are other peoplr there but they dont matter all that matters is pleasing your master After some thought and reading, I have to agree with this. Reading your profile, you say you you like it when your Master forces you to do things as this is your submissive trigger. You say that you have no limits and will do anything to obey him. With reading this, you should have no problems, as you say you Love being forced. You may feel a bit shy before hand but once you start, your submissiveness will probably trigger and you will concentrate only on your Master. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away 9 Mar 10, 1:38 PM 982-507-327 SE, 2 yrs Thank you. Giving time for thoughts is also a great gift. You are right. For me to be forced to act is a trigger that start the wonderful submission feeling and that will start an almost automatically reaction, yes. My fear is living in my Emotions and the knowledge of how it works, in my Logical brain parts. Compare EQ and IQ (or Emotional Intelligence vs Logical Intelligence). My shame and ignominy are feelings. Naturally you are right, as soon as Master gives me orders and I'll feel forced to obey and the trigger starts. It will take place in a second, I logically know that. It is the feelings hours and days before that occupy the dread for the whole situation. One of Master's orders (1 of 40) will be to use my tongue in an obscene way, one of the most humiliating things to perform, even for a slave girl. In training, with him alone, I just do it and don't stop until I'm told to, but with others eyes…. Then again, you are still right; the feeling of force will rub out any delay. In my pre emotion's there is the FEAR and I will met those men before, when fully dressed and having my integrity unaffected. Knowing that next time they see me when I must naked crawl around at the floor and be trained to obey Master's 40 orders. There's one level more. They will see me fully dressed afterwards, knowing what I was forced to perform before them. For my Master's pride, they will also know how obedient I could be. Thank you! Slave PiaM 9 Mar 10, 4:29 PM fireflies US(TX), 4 yrs i thought i would weigh in a little late, as i too have confronted your very same fears of being naked around others. i hope my story helps you a little... When my Master first had me marked with a tattoo, He pretty much exposed my shaved cunt to the tattoo artist and i thought i would die, but i didn't and lived through the process. Over the years He has had me show my/His tat to all of His friends, many times just hooking His finger on my skirt/shorts/bikini bottom and pulling them down, without warning, showing it off. Humiliated, yes each time He does this, but i have gotten used to it and expect to have it shown, without warning, to anyone new we meet. The next time He marked me was when i got both of my nipples pierced and i was ordered to take off my blouse in the same tattoo parlor, with about 10-12 people in there on a Friday night. Again, i thought i would die, but i didn't and finally accepted people seeing me topless and watching me get pierced. My Master kept hold of my blouse while He paid the artist and i walked out of the shop to our car still topless in full view of everyone. i was topless on the entire drive home too and we fucked like rabbits that night, i was so turned on by the night's events! When Master started piercing my cunt, each time i was taken to the same piercer and ordered to take of my shorts/skirt and i sit in the barber chair while i got my rings installed, in full view of anyone in the shop. (i do not go in the private area) Anyone in the shop can watch me get pierced and my Master even invites people in the waiting area to see the procedure if they want. We have done this 5 times now and i am totally used to it and my cunt pix are in their piercing picture book in the waiting area. Again, i lived through all of this every time we are there! The first time Master displayed me to His best friend naked, i was humiliated beyond believe!! i begged Him not to, but He wanted to show off ALL of my piercings and the fact that He owned and trained me as His slave. Like you, I was scared and worried over it for days. i had known His friend for years, He had been over to our house a 100 times, but now He would know that i was a slave and see me naked. (Today, i know this was silly and i just made myself nuts for no good reason, which is why i am writing this to you... why should i have cared what Master's friend thought about me, i was there to please my Master!!!) Anyway, i had to open the door naked to let Him in and my Master displayed me showing Him all of my rings and explained that He owned me and that i was His slave. His friend was not that shocked and had assumed that i was a slave (or something) as He had seen my collar many times before. He asked a few questions about what i was trained to do and then Master ordered me to get them beers. i served my Master and His friend, with my Master making sure that i did not cover myself when i did subconsiously. Of course i was humiliated, especially sitting on the couch with them while they played video games, but i did not die! His friend already had assumed that something was up between Master and me, so as i had time to think, i was somewhat ticked at myself for worrying so much about that night. i had made Master VERY proud of me! Now that the first time being naked in front of His friend has passed, i have no problems when my Master's friend is over and they are clothed while i am nude. He knows that i am Master's slave and it is totally natural for me to be naked in the house whenever He is there, serving them both. me knowing that my Master is proud of me getting over my fears, pleases me so much and really makes me happy! (Although i still get butterflies when he first arrives and i open the door naked...) So, what i am saying is that your "horizons" are being tried and expanded and you are doing things that you NEVER thought you would ever do. Each time you do them for you Master, you are making Him proud of you and you are proving to yourself that you can do whatever is asked of you. you are becoming more valuable to Him every time you accomplish another one of His tasks!!! (And you don't die!) I hope this long winded explaination makes sense and that you can actually confront your humiliation while displaying your training talents to your Master's friend, knowing that you will get past it and be on a new level as His slave. Good luck and let us know how you do! i am my Master's tattooed and pierced slave. i am His, He owns ALL of me, i do everything i can everyday to please and make Him happy. 10 Mar 10, 8:03 AM 492-093-006 2 yrs 333-528-841 wrote: 950-186-691 wrote: just let your mind go dont think of anything but ur master yes there are other peoplr there but they dont matter all that matters is pleasing your master After some thought and reading, I have to agree with this. Reading your profile, you say you you like it when your Master forces you to do things as this is your submissive trigger. You say that you have no limits and will do anything to obey him. With reading this, you should have no problems, as you say you Love being forced. You may feel a bit shy before hand but once you start, your submissiveness will probably trigger and you will concentrate only on your Master. I have to agree, I know that I forget all about my worries when my submissiveness triggers. I would hope to push through and wait for that to happen, I would take pride in being shown off, seeing the smile of satisfaction on their face, knowing that they were pleased with me. Next page