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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Slaves: Do you ever challenge your Master/Mistres?" 1 2 Slaves: Do you ever challenge your Master/Mistres? (17) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 25 Feb 10, 4:10 PM 644-588-442 US(IN), 3 yrs i push the limits a little if i am upset over something or after an argument. i'll tell my Daddy no or i will curse even though i'm not aloud to. its kind of my way to see if he cares enough to correct me. i know he loves me and he always will but sometimes i need reassurance and control (done in the right way) equals love in my mind. i understand how hard it is to own someone and it means a lot to me that he goes out of his way to train, punish, reward and take care of me. i act out sometimes when i'm cranky or in a bad mood too but thats something different. if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything at all. remember that these are REAL people you are talking to, not a computer screen. just because you don't share one persons fetish, kink or likes, doesn't mean they are wrong. as long as no one is getting hurt then do what makes you happy. 25 Feb 10, 6:17 PM subbymentalist US(LA), 5 yrs When it's for fun, it can be very exciting. When you have ulterior motives it can be dangerous. - [Tm] 26 Feb 10, 2:49 AM 318-068-287 US(TX), 6 yrs Y! Honestly, yes I have. But not frequently, actually very rarely. I don't want to be top, EVER. However, I will only follow someone who has proven they are worthy of COMMANDING my obedience. Once established it doesn't take much to maintain that over me. If I KNOW that I will be put down violently I will never buck her rule. I have to know that the hand holding my leash is attached to a will strong enough to control me. A dog on a leash can still bite your hand off. 26 Feb 10, 10:14 AM 842-520-015 US, 4 yrs Y! Early in our relationship, this one would purposely do little things to see how far her limits were with her Master and even though she isn't a pain slut, she enjoyed getting a rise out of him. But now working on our third year together, she well knows her limitations and what happens when she disobeys and chooses not to 26 Feb 10, 5:08 PM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs 318-068-287 wrote: Honestly, yes I have. But not frequently, actually very rarely. I don't want to be top, EVER. It isn't necassarily about being the top, or "topping from the bottom." However, I will only follow someone who has proven they are worthy of COMMANDING my obedience. Once established it doesn't take much to maintain that over me. If I KNOW that I will be put down violently I will never buck her rule. I have to know that the hand holding my leash is attached to a will strong enough to control me. This is what this slave was looking for. It's the exact same way she feels, and why she does it -s Always the curious one ~ s 27 Feb 10, 1:59 AM 318-068-287 US(TX), 6 yrs Y! Though my mouth does get me in trouble, but I don't consider it challenging her. Like last night, I couldn't stop myself and my smartass mouth got me some time writhing on the floor. I think she hasn't tried to train it out of me because it gives her a reason to hurt me. A dog on a leash can still bite your hand off. 27 Feb 10, 3:54 AM SemperFidelis US(AZ), 2 yrs Y! I do challenge my Mistress to make sure shes still able to control me. Verbally I also get in trouble but like with 287 that isn't really challenging her. Its more just me giving my Mistress a hard time which gets me punished(usually whipped or choked). What I consider more of me actually challenging my Mistress, is when she wants to walk me or wants me to go do something trying not to move and fight my choke chain. Or when Mistress ties my hands behind my back, waiting until shes not paying attention and try to free myself from the bindings, but at the same time its also a game that me and my Mistress play as well.