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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "house rules" 1 2 house rules (12) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Wed 10 Feb 10, 5:05 PM 562-470-768 2 yrs this girl was wondering, if anyone would like to share their 'house rules' with her. she asks this simply out of curiousity. for her this girl is not allowed to sit on any furniture other than her computer chair. this girl has ask permission to leave the room and state the reason for doing so this girl has to wear make-up and hair done on specified days at home this girl does not wear clothing at home this girl sits at Master's feet when he watches TV or play online games this girl sits on a designated kitchen counter when Master is around for a cigarette. this girl has to be on her knees, open, displayed and available all the time after kid has gone to bed this girl is of course in charge of anything regarding the household (cooking, cleaning etc) these are some things that is part of girl's life on a day-to-day basis... she does not think about it often, and just do it, so she may add to it ... she would love to know how other households 'run'. We are all vanilla to some degree - for society will keep a foothold in our lives. We are all Dom/mes or slave/sub on some level, as there is ALWAYS someone weaker or stronger than you... 10 Feb 10, 7:26 PM 247-330-189 US(CA), 3 yrs Y! Master is not so strict with me. His requests: When i leave the home without him i am to kneel, and kiss both feet... as well as when i re enter the home. When he arrives i am to kneel and kiss both feet and remain kneeling until he has inspected me to his liking. I am to dress as he likes when he is home. (slut wear, the less the better, but he does not require me to be nude at all times). When i serve him a drink i kiss the cup as i offer it to him, when i serve his food i kneel and wait for him to try everything, make sure he has what he needs before he allows me to then eat. Those are mostly our house rules...also, i know him well enough to keep up with his needs so he does not have to ask for anything. looking forward to seeing other posts.. slave patti If ever thou be'st bound in thy scarf and beaten, thou shalt find what it is to be proud of thy bondage. William Shakespeare. 11 Feb 10, 2:23 AM 898-443-818 US, 5 yrs i have too many to go through, but here are the big ones: i must ask permission for everything outside of the home including unscheduled stops, spending of any money, and i am never to have any cash, also to go to the bathroom. The house is to be tidy at all times and i have separate chores to do each day. No touching any fun parts without permission, no getting into bed without permission. Ask to "serve" Master every night without complaint as to the answer, do not nag Master for sexual attention. Handle budgeting, go to church, handle all work issues, follow the outlined diet & exercise, and always when in doubt, ASK. Master is big on the permission thing i don't always keep all those balls in the air but i also have a forgiving Master. Trying is the most important thing. A few of those are more important than others to Him, including the no touching and the no cash. 898-443-818 13 Feb 10, 6:37 AM DrakaMaster UK, 2 yrs Interesting topic, and I am surprised that no other owners have yet replied. If you are interested, here are my own six Golden Rules - I have others! - which apply while my slaves are on my property, which is actually a farm although I call it a 'Plantation' because it sounds more appealing to me as a slave owner. FYI, I have four slaves at the moment: three males and unfortunately just one female. I found one male slave recently via this site actually, but none are 24/7, so they all visit me to serve, usually on a weekend and, from time to time, when they take vacation - 1. A slave must be naked at all times except for a collar which has a slave tag bearing its SLRN on one side, and my so-called 'plantation logo' (a blue star) on the other. This rule applies equally indoors and outdoors (the farm provides welcome privacy), and regardless of weather. An additional part of this rule is that a slave must have no body hair below the head. Body hair is a sign of maturity which is inappropriate in a slave. I rely on them to keep themselves smooth but, obviously, check when they visit. Failure to be totally smooth will earn a slave four hard strokes of the cane across its buttocks. 2. A slave may not initiate a conversation with me or any of my guests unless it is an emergency. In other words, a slave speaks only when it is spoken to. 3. When addressed by me or a guest, a slave must come immediately, drop to its knees, spread its legs, sit on its heels, bow its head and put its hands behind its back. I teach them this as 'Position #1' (also known as the 'address' or 'talk' position). They must also adopt this position if I or one of my guests click our fingers once (which is why it is 'Position #1' of course). If I click my fingers twice they adopt 'Position #2' and so on. 4. A slave may never sit at a table to eat. It is fed twice a day - at the same time as my two dogs - from a bowl on the floor or, in warmer weather, I have a feeding trough in one of the outbuildings from which all four slaves can be fed at the same time. Three water bowls are available all day, shared by the dogs and slaves. 5. A slave may never use the toilet indoors. That is reserved for its owner and his guests. This is a little controversial, I know, but I feel very strongly that a slave needs to know its place. If two of them are on my property I walk them together on their leads three times a day to a designated latrine area where they squat to do their business while I hold their leads. The dogs use the same patch of ground. If three - or now four - slaves are present, they are taken on all fours (no leads unless I have guests who can assist) together with the two dogs to the latrine area where all six squat and do their business. Although the latrine area - in reality part of a field - is quite large, I try and keep all six together as it is easier to supervise them if they are squatting relatively close to one another. None of the six is allowed back in the house until all of them have performed satisfactorily, so this requires a full human and canine team effort. I do not want to have 'accidents' later in the day. This will no doubt seem distasteful to many, but my experience is that obliging a slave to perform its toilet functions with the dogs in front of its owner, other slaves and, occasionally, interested guests is a first rate lesson in both obedience and humility. A burning desire to serve and please is something which all my slaves have in common, of course, but each of them has told me that being taken out on a lead and being made to squat and perform like a dog is the most difficult, challenging and humiliating thing they have ever done. Even more so as I train them to adopt a so-called 'good squat' position, modelled on the behaviour of my labrador Max. Two of the slaves - one of the males and the female - found it difficult to get into this 'good squat' position at first and had to be encouraged with a few hard strokes of the cane across their rumps. Yet they do it well enough now and all of the slaves know that if they do a *really* good squat for me - just like Max - and if a guest praises them for this, I will reward them with a special treat (usually a dog biscuit, for which they must sit up and beg, of course). However, occasionally they are required to squat in front of a guest they have never seen before, which all of them apparently find deeply humiliating. But they do it or they feel the cane across their backsides and then they do it anyway. Which is exactly why it is such an excellent slave training technique of course. Anyone can get a slave to do what it wants to do. Making it do something against its will, but requiring it to make an effort to do it as well as it has been taught, is very satisfying for me as a master. And as for me, taking a slave out on a lead is no different to taking just the dogs out, which I do every day. 6. Under no circumstances can a slave either stimulate itself sexually or stimulate another slave unless directed either by me or one of my guests. Sexual interference with another slave is actually rare even at night as, during the warmer months, I keep them in individual pens in an outbuilding, chained from their collars to a retaining post at night of course. And in the colder months they sleep with the dogs in individual cages (quite an expense, unfortunately) in my basement. Along similar lines I sometimes mate slaves with one another either as a reward for the slave on top or simply for my and my guests' entertainment. One other routine I have established for my three male slaves is to milk them an hour before I bed them down for the night. I have found this calms them down immensely. Even if there is only me in the house, I find it's quicker than I thought to milk the three male slaves as by that time in the evening they are all very ready for it. Of course, if a guest is present, he/she sometimes wishes to assist in milking which significantly hastens the process. As I come from four generations of farmers I actually do have an old wooden three-legged milking stool which has been on the farm since before I was born. It's an antique now, but for the hell of it, I sit on it when I am milking the male slaves. It's rather amusing now when I come down into the basement, where they sleep with the dogs in the colder months, and they see I am holding the milking stool. Two of the male slaves are around 30 years apart in age but it makes me laugh to see them react in just the same way when they see me carrying the stool. They become very agitated and sit proudly, heads up and chests out (it's actually a formal position called 'good sit'), but both usually sport a fully erect penis which is just impossible to hide, each evidently hoping to be the first selected to be milked. While the other slave(s) remain in a 'good sit' position (even the female slave if it is present), I position the selected male slave on all fours in front of me, reach between its legs and milk it into a bowl. After all the males slaves present have been milked I rather generously allow them to lick their warm cream up from the bowl before bedding them down. The female slave is also allowed to enjoy this pre-bedtime snack if it is present. What a softy I am! However, other than masturbating it with a dildo, I regret I have yet to devise a satisfactory way of calming the female slave before I bed it down for the night and would welcome any suggestions from the group. Well, those are my six Golden Rules. They cover the important stuff I think. I have other more minor rules which I maintain or change as I see fit. Hope this was of interest. My ownership style is probably far from being everyone's cup of tea, but all I can tell you is that it works well for me and my slaves. Edited 13 Feb 10, 11:20 AM by DrakaMaster 19 Feb 10, 3:34 PM 397-673-723 2 yrs Would castration tame them further, and make them more susceptible to orders and commands, and less libido (as not constantly thinking about sex, but can still get erection to perform), and le likely to want to stray or leave the household..? 20 Feb 10, 10:12 PM 256-337-568 US(IN), 2 yrs I am to wear my collar at all times(with exception of my shower) Im to be naked or in crotchless panties so she can touch my slit anytime she desires. I cook, clean, wash her in the shower, dress her, and run any errands she asks of me. I am to please her when she spreads her legs. (I get punished if she has to remind me) almost forgot soemthing important D:! I am to keep myself shaved at all times. Edited 20 Feb 10, 10:14 PM by 256-337-568 21 Feb 10, 4:18 AM fireflies US(TX), 4 yrs my day goes a little like this every day... i pleasure my Master every morning, however He wants to get off, jerked, sucked or fucked. i make sure He is properly dressed for work when He leaves the house, (BTW i am naked at all times in the house except for my piercings and locked on collar and i am hairless from the neck down, making sure my cunt is shaved 2-3 times a week) When He returns home, i pleasure him sexually or however He wants with neck/back/feet rubs, i make His dinner and serve Him first at every meal, i sit on the floor at his feet while he is watching TV fetching whatever He wants as required through-out the evening, i wash Him from head to toe every night and dry Him off, i pleasure Him in bed at night as He desires, cumming only when allowed. The process starts anew in the morning, except on weekends when i will be used for His pleasure more often whenever He want to get off! i am my Master's tattooed and pierced slave. i am His, He owns ALL of me, i do everything i can everyday to please Him. 25 Feb 10, 3:41 PM 644-588-442 US(IN), 3 yrs well i am an adult baby so my rules are a little different. i have a bed time (which was just made earlier). i am not aloud to use glasses or cups. i can only use bottles and if i'm lucky a sippy cup. i am not aloud to say bad words. and the biggest one is i must wear diapers when ever i am home and use them for what they were made to be used for. i don't live with my Daddy right now but i am moving in with him in july and i will have a lot more rules then. if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything at all. remember that these are REAL people you are talking to, not a computer screen. just because you don't share one persons fetish, kink or likes, doesn't mean they are wrong. as long as no one is getting hurt then do what makes you happy. 3 Mar 10, 7:58 PM MasterRsfaggot US(OK), 2 yrs there are a number of house rules put upon me, but as for meals: i prepare the meal, of course, then serve Master. He dines alone, usually sitting at the dinner table. i sit, naked on the floor, nearby in a "present kneel" position. When He has finished His meal, He gets up, and usually tells me to make myself something to eat. my meal consists of what is unfinished on His plate, and any leftovers that are prepared. i sit on the floor, within sight of Master, often in the living room. i am not allowed to use utensils, and sometimes i am not allowed to use my hands when i eat. 12 Mar 10, 5:12 AM rosa_poseida US(FL), 2 yrs Discussion of the rules is permitted at any time and for any reason, and is, in fact, encouraged. 1) A daily journal will be kept in freehand style, to be written by blog on weekdays and by hand on weekends. Entries shall include thoughts, irritations, things that you dislike about yourself and why. Details of self-pleasure shall also be included as such instances occur. - Once weekly, by each Sunday, this shall include a poem written in any form to be read aloud upon completion. 2) In public you shall address me as 'Ama'. 3) When addressed as 'Rosa', you should be aware that a command will be immediately following. The response should be, "Si, Amos/Ama" and it will be instantaneous. 4) Unless stated otherwise, self-pleasure is given free reign. However, there will be times when you are specifically instructed to do so. Before any self-pleasure can take place, whether you have been told to do so or not, two chapters of current book must be read unless otherwise stated. Whether instructed to self-pleasure or not, when you do so you will mark your skin in such way as to show me the results. When you are commanded to self-pleasure you will also be informed as to where your mark should be. When self-pleasuring, you will bring yourself close two times. Climax is only permitted upon the third tier. If something other than this takes place, I must be informed as to why as soon as possible. 5) While you are permitted to mark yourself by any means you prefer, the only person allowed to part your skin to the point of bleeding for any reason whatsoever is me. 6) Whenever feasible, you will light my cigarettes. You should keep a lighter close to hand or on your person at all times in the effort to avoid any delay. 7) One finger-snap or the word "first" is the signal for first position. 8) Two finger-snaps or word "second" is the signal for second position. Second position is the same as the first with one exception - your neck must be exposed as fully as possible. 9) Whenever entering or leaving my presence, you shall kiss my left hand. Whenever possible, this should be done in the first position. You should endeavor to assume first position for this task at least once a day. 10) Unless otherwise stated, while in first and second positions you are permitted to look at me. During first and second positions you will be in full slave mode. Absolutely nothing shall be done without my permission. With the exception of kissing my hand in greeting or farewell, you are forbidden to move other than to shift for comfort's sake, and even that should be done sparingly. You are forbidden to speak unless spoken to or unless an emergency arises. If you absolutely must speak, and if the emergency holds no immediate physical or emotional threat, you must request permission as follows: "Ama, may your Rose speak?" 11) The first half-hour of my extended reading periods will be spent in first position, though at times you may be commanded to assume second. We will begin with a half-hour, though in future this period of time may increase. Once released, you are free to read, get online, or watch whatever you please as long as you make the effort not to disturb me unless absolutely necessary. 12) Whenever possible you shall continue in your daily duties such as cooking (unless you are specifically told not to), bringing drinks, fixing my bed before sleep, and other tasks as instructed. However, if I so choose to assist you in any given task, you will accept my help without complaint. 13) Eventually you will be required to wash and dry my hair and body, as well as undress me at night. 14) You are required to carry my mark upon you at all times, which shall be renewed when necessary or when I wish. When it is feasible the mark will be made permanent. 15) Pain shall not be a form of true punishment (though it may be used in play). Pain is a gift that we share between us, part of the pleasure and love that we share. When punishment is necessary, unless otherwise stated, it will be carried out in the form of removing yourself from my presence. This form of punishment will only be used in the most dire of circumstances. Posted with Mistress's Permission 13 Mar 10, 10:49 AM blissfully_His_mary US(HI), 2 yrs These are rules Owner has typed for me and had me post them by his bedroom door so I see them everyday. Mary's Rules 1. I am not allowed to make eye contact with my Owner. 2. I am not allowed to touch my Owner. 3. I must be polite when talking with my Owner. 4. If our children are around, only the above rules apply. 5. I am not allowed to talk to anyone without my Owner's permission. 6. When I ask a question it will start with “Owner…” 7. When I answer a question my response will end with “Owner thank you.” 8. If I am corrected I will respond with “Owner I am sorry.” 9. I will sit, stand, kneel or lay down only when told to. 10. I will eat, sleep, smoke and go to the bathroom only when told to. 11. There will be no foul language or cursing. 12. When my Owner does not wish to hold my hand, I will walk one step behind and to the left of my Owner 13. I will wait to let my Owner open all doors for me. 14. I will not hesitate to spend money on the needs of the children, my Owner, and myself in that order. 15. I will not buy any unnecessary items for myself without first asking my Owner. Methods of Punishment - Status. Slave will either be considered (from high to low) a companion (slave will be allowed to act in the capacity of escort), a concubine (slave will have a 'claim' to her owner's bed), simple servant (slave will be corporeally punished, and not allowed in owner's bed). - Forced Anal Sex. To be used only when slave exhibits gross disrespect to Owner. Such as refusing to carry out Owner's instructions without good reason or having to be corrected several times within a short period of time. Limited to two (2) minutes, and not to be carried out more than once in a twenty-four (24) hour period. - Cleanliness. Any cleanliness violations committed by slave will result in a five (5) minute cold shower. - Any body part of slave that touches her Owner without his permission will be bound for thirty (30) minutes. - Smoking or eating without Owner's permission will result in a mouth gag of Owner's choosing and hands be bound for a period of thirty (30) minutes. - Talking without permission results in a mouth gag of Owner's choice for a period of thirty (30) minutes. - Foul language and cursing will be punished by the use of a ring gag in a cold shower or a gag of Owner's choice without a shower for a period of fifteen (15) minutes. - Slave will be expected to sit, stand, kneel or lay down at Owner's discretion. If slave is caught in a position other than directed, she will be appropriately bound in that position for not more than: kneeling, fifteen (15) minutes; standing, thirty (30) minutes; sitting and laying down, one (1) hour. - If more than three (3) punishments are to be administered, slave will be completely bound and gagged by Owner in a standing position for not more than thirty (30) minutes. -If slave is bound into an immovable position, Owner will not leave her alone. - Owner reserve the right to administer five (5) lashes with a belt, flogger, crop, etc. along with each of slave's punishments. Owner shall never strike his slave with his own bare hand. When he is over me I feel his strength. When I am at his feet I feel his gentleness. When he holds me down I feel his power. When he looks at me I see his desire. When his hand stings my skin I feel his love. When he smiles at me I feel acceptance. When he is with me I am whole. When he is gone I am empty. Next page