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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Unwanted advances" 1 2 Unwanted advances (13) This post is on the O&P web board. 10 Feb 10, 1:06 PM Vickie US(WI), 7 yrs Y! This one is grateful for your replies and has taken the advice to heart. This one immediately revised her profile. Thank you to those who answered this one's plea. In bondage I am made free. 18 Feb 10, 7:09 PM Fruity 2 yrs jjsslave wrote: Be honest in a respectful way, that way if later on down the line you decide to find a Master you havent offended anyone that may be interested in you even if they have to wait. ive been taught by Master that being rude or "bitchy" to anyone especially those in the lifestyle is completely unacceptable and reflects on Him. So even though you are not interested in having a D/O/M at this time, dont ruin your future chances by being rude. There is nothing wrong with holding your ground, but thats not being rude. Tbank you this post was very helpful and has made me also think differently. 25 Feb 10, 7:04 PM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs Master4whore wrote: Curious_s wrote: Vickie wrote: Unwanted advances This one was wondering how to tell off pursuers. This one has been "told" by several persons that this one is theirs although this one is happy in her relationship an has stated it clearly to those who have been pursuing this one. This one is unowned right now and in a somewhat normal relationship. This one wishes to not cause my significant other trouble and the pursuers are making this one stressed out. This slave's been told that before too. Just ignore them, and if they persist then tell them nicely you don't want to be owned, or that you are owned (even if you're not, they don't know). Don't let them get to you! Chances are, they've got 20 other subs/slaves to look up on their list. -s I suppose there are these types of Masters out there, but don't tarnish us all with the same brush (I'm quietly confident that Curious_s doesn't have that intention). As I said earlier, politely saying 'no thanks' works for me [hmmm, this feels like I go around asking anyone and everyone - which I don't!] Master4whore Well, you can generally tell if a Master has real interest in you, or is just asking to own any girl who'll say, "Yes." If a Master has real interest, he'll read a profile, and at that point they'll see if a slave is owned/unowned or doesn't have the desire to be owned. And a Master should respect that. Saying, "No thanks." is the best, polite way to go about it. And if they persist, block 'em -s Always the curious one ~ s