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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Controlling Emails and Computer Accounts ~ ?" 1 2 3 Controlling Emails and Computer Accounts ~ ? (30) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 2 Feb 10, 10:35 AM 978-291-889 2 yrs Last night, for the first time, Master ordered me to log into my email account and spent time reading various emails. While i initially felt violated due to it being the first time Master has done this (that i am aware of - i have offered Him my passwords in the past), i felt very submissive during and afterwards. He has control and Ownership over other aspects of my life. For me, this is just another aspect. Its part of working towards complete transparency. If Master wished to check them everday, i wouldn't have a problem with this, but feel He would become very bored very quickly! 978-291-889 The cuffs and ropes might have to be removed in the morning... but the bonds of love stretch as far as 2 people can roam. 2 Feb 10, 1:28 PM SirSeven 3 yrs My girl is required to keep all of her passwords updated and stored in a secure password manager program. This free program (KeePass Password Safe) is password protected using a very strong password and it contains all of her accounts and password information. I have the master password to this file so I can view all of her accounts and passwords any time I like. Some people store their passwords in a plain text file or excel document or in emails and I can tell you this is a very bad idea. I have her do this for two reasons. First, it reinforces my control over her. By giving me access to her accounts she knows I can log in and check on her any time I want. I have never felt the need to actually do so, but I could if I wanted to. Second, it's conceivable that I might need access to something while she is traveling or otherwise unable to take care of something herself. With so many accounts, passwords, logins required nowadays this password manager has been a huge help. I highly recommend it. Regards, Sir Seven 2 Feb 10, 6:12 PM francesca 2 yrs Yes, and i think it is vital to any D/s or M/s relationship that the Owner know what His/Her property is doing. i had issues to begin with on transparency but after a couple weeks of kicking and screaming i embraced it and accepted it. 3 Feb 10, 12:04 AM curious_bina US(TN), 2 yrs 333-528-841 wrote: I see nothing strange in your Master checking up on things although if it seemed excessive,all the time for everything, there may be a lack of trust on his part and a conversation about that might be a good idea. This slave's Master doesn't, but she knows other Masters that constantly check on emails. To her it shows insecurity (of trust), and something unneeded. To *constantly* check up, not like once a month or something. Just curious to everyone else's thoughts! -s Always the curious one ~ s 3 Feb 10, 12:23 AM 996-150-083 4 yrs Yes, Mistress has full access to it's email / PC accounts etc; which is to be expected as it is Owner's property. 996-150-083 - Slave and owned property of Mistress Tamara. it exists only to worship and obey it's Owner, Mistress Tamara. Severe discipline is a necessary part of it's slave training - both daily maintenance discipline as well as corrective discipline. 3 Feb 10, 12:40 AM Ettiennes_slut US(OR), 2 yrs He has not asked for access to any of my accounts. Any email that might interest Him, i forward to Him. If He did choose to peruse my email, etc., He wouldn't find out anything He doesn't already know. Ettiennes_slut 3 Feb 10, 1:44 AM blissfully_His_mary US(HI), 2 yrs My Owner has all of my passwords to all of my online accounts as well my email. I feel that this is not a violation at all. It is not a matter of Him being insecure or not trusting me. It is that I gave up everything when I decided to become His property. It also reminds me how I should conduct myself even when He is not with me. If I am conducting myself as required then I have nothing to hide from Him. When he is over me I feel his strength. When I am at his feet I feel his gentleness. When he holds me down I feel his power. When he looks at me I see his desire. When his hand stings my skin I feel his love. When he smiles at me I feel acceptance. When he is with me I am whole. When he is gone I am empty. 3 Feb 10, 10:16 AM 842-520-015 US, 4 yrs Y! Yes my Master has access to all of my email accounts, cell phone, mail, etc.. We have a TPE relationship and it is exactly that, besides I have absolutely nothing to hide from him. 3 Feb 10, 7:35 PM 741-498-880 4 yrs Curious_s wrote: 333-528-841 wrote: I see nothing strange in your Master checking up on things although if it seemed excessive,all the time for everything, there may be a lack of trust on his part and a conversation about that might be a good idea. This slave's Master doesn't, but she knows other Masters that constantly check on emails. To her it shows insecurity (of trust), and something unneeded. To *constantly* check up, not like once a month or something. Just curious to everyone else's thoughts! -s Some men are control (and women) freaks. I don't see it as being a unhealthy thing, or even need a conversation about. Not every person who's a control freak is insecure... thats like saying every person who is into control and micromanagement is unhealthy and insecure. for some people, thats just the way we are wired. 3 Feb 10, 8:33 PM 660-965-760 UK, 3 yrs Curious_s wrote: Controlling Emails and Computer Accounts ~ ? Does your Dom or Master have access to your email, accounts, and all other computer-related things you've joined? Do you think it's good/bad, was it hard to adjust to, and what're your general thoughts on it? And, do you think it would be strange for a Dom or Master to constantly check up on your email? always curious, -s Master has access to all my passwords, but he has never accessed my email. He has accessed a couple of website forums to change my av when I've asked him, as he's better than me at that. We have joint bank accounts. If my Master wanted to constantly check my email I'd find it a little odd as it would be very out of character. But it would all depend on what a Master wanted to control as to whether it would be strange for everyone. Next page